True self-care is not salt baths and chocolate cake. It is making the choice to build a life you don’t need to regularly escape from. And that often takes doing the thing you least want to do. It often means looking at your failures and disappointments square in the eye and re-strategizing.
It is not satiating your immediate desires. It is letting go. It is choosing new. It is disappointing some people. It is making sacrifices for others. It is living a way that other people won’t, so maybe you can live in a way that other people can’t.
This post continues with yesterday’s topic on “How comfort zone is killing us from within!!”. Your ability to learn is limited. Once the human brain knows how to do something, It becomes an automated task. And when this happens, the areas in your brain responsible for learning essentially cease working. This means familiarity directly translates to stagnation and unfamiliarity equals learning when you prioritize knowledge and growth. You’ll find that your life is full of abilities & capabilities. You don’t know you have all you need to unlock your skills & step out of comfortability.
Imagine this as an example, every year you go on vacation. You go to the same place at the same time of year. You always stay in the same hotel where you know you have been, the same area, the restaurants and even same people, this familiar vacation spot is in your comfort zone. And even though it’s a nice time, you don’t learn anything new when you visit. Now again imagine taking a vacation to a new city or even an entirely new country. You’ll find yourself inspired to learn new words in a new language, understand different customs and check out a map while you’re there. You’ll have fresh and unexpected experiences that challenge you on this vacation.
Newness and unfamiliarity breed knowledge about yourself and the world around you. When you leave your comfort zone, boundaries of what you can and want to experience expand past what you know with a larger perspective. You’ll gain a newfound sense of motivation to do to experience and understand new things. Escaping comfort zone is the most exciting thing you can gift yourself. Wish almighty bless us all with healing, health, happiness, love, joy, peace & prosperity. Happy New Year.🤗 Tap OUT..😘
LIARS have to sell them short. Not because they want to, but because they have to. There is no other way out.
Wanna know why: A liar lies to every single person a different lie a different way, it’s like building a strong wall around yourself after locking yourself inside a prison. No escape instead of living your lies.
If you want to know about my past before approaching, I have answer for you.
I don’t have any sort of LOVE story to serve your query. There are bunch of not-so-meaningful encounters or sex stories you can say. Yes I was wowed & about to fall for someone, escaped that thing at the right time. It’s good when mask falls off, you are left with only TRUTH.
Just because I allow, stop asking shit about my past. I was badly madly in LOVE once, just once. I did that mistake. I escaped it after a huge struggle inside my own head/heart. I am the one who ended it just for ending it. It was a toxic vicious cycle. That relationship taught me; I am a way better person being single & my TRUTH is my treasure. By breaking free, I honestly walked towards my happiness. If you know me; I still mourn my dog’s demise, two days after that date I celebrate someone’s death. It made me heartless, tough & rational. I used to take long time trusting people, now I have trust issues.
I hope I answered it truthfully. It will be much better if you stop asking me about something I wanna heal & halt.