Mindset. It’s all about mindset. From the moment you wake up to the moment you rest your head at night. Everything is up to you. Your emotions. Your thoughts. Your perceptions. Your reactions. Every moment.
Everything is about your mindset.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. If I like some video, I suggest it. Coldfusion is one of my favourite YouTube channels. Watch it for some entertainment & information.)
Don’t be so hard on yourself for feeling lost, confused or like you haven’t achieved all that you wanted to achieve. Life would be pretty damn boring if you’d done it all already, if you had no more room to grow or things to learn. Be patient. You’ll eventually figure it all out and everything will make perfect sense. Every experience will get you to where you are supposed to be. Every win, every loss, every heartbreak and every mistake. Don’t be afraid to fuck up, and don’t expect success overnight. Get lost, get so damn lost and find yourself over and over again. Believe in yourself, forget about what others think. Don’t stop until you make yourself proud. LIFE IS FUN, LET IT BE.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Little bit of fun & sass is important in life. Watch this 5 minutes of legit fun. Adam W, i don’t have to say more.)
DON’T SETTLE. Turn off shitty movies. If a conversation’s dead, cut it. If the meal’s shitty, avoid the restaurant. If you’re not on the right path, simply get off it. Don’t entertain what doesn’t entertain you.
Date her who walks you till your car. Date her who dares to steal your hoodie in front of your face. Date her who wants to meet your parents, and is respectful towards them. Date her who respects your siblings and family members. Date her who’s kind to animals, its a reflection of how she’ll treat usual people. Date her who makes you smile. Date her who looks confident with or without makeup. Date her who will listen to your complain or accomplishments. Date her who doesn’t force you to do things you don’t want to. Date her who will come hang out and cuddle just cause she can. Date her who loves you through the good and the bad. Date her who has seen you angry, happy, sad, and still feels for you. Date her who has a hunger for SUCCESS & hunger for more beyond that. Date her who actually utilises her time to the fullest, so that she can value your TIME. Now you know you aren’t entertaining someone boring/sluggish.
Life can easily remain exciting happy happening even in a relationship if you are dealing with a stronger individual, stronger in finance & faith.
My key to HAPPINESS;neither it’s a secret nor it’s a rocket science. I either keep myself productive or keep myself entertained, not a single minute left unused. Apart from these two, everything else is a waste of time in my eyes.
I have a bad habit to block random people from my life. The way I see it is; if I can be happy for a day without entertaining someone, I can be happy my whole life without that person. That’s another reason how I scare people away. This tiny paragraph is for flings & acquaintances.
Now let’s talk about the people who are in my life. I feel cherished & valued because my people understand how much I value self-respect. I don’t have anything like EGO in me. You can’t offend me. Being a human I too have flaws & I admit them time after time whenever I mess up something. Mama once said; “Do amazing new mistakes, that’s how you can understand where you can go wrong. But never repeat that same mistake again, that’s when you grow to be a bigger better you.” That’s the goal of life now. Goal is to become a bigger better TAP without entertaining unnecessary people or drama.
I have lost it hundred times before getting it, but the excitement of having it kept on pushing me further. I am talking about the little things I achieved in my 20something life. Proud to say “I earn/buy my desires & I am missing nothing”.
It never works. I understand men have needs. Please be direct in case you wanna bang. Netflix & Chill is a major reason behind early pregnancy now a days (even in relationships & marriages). Plan babies when you both want it.
So when you talk about “NETFLIX & CHILL” with your girl, focus more on NETFLIX. 😂😜
(A tiny tip to my CMU chaps, you know this half brain stinky mofo in WhatsApp chat)