Tag: ego

Tru2Day1553

Be an adult.
Mend relationships that you find valuable.
Don’t let pride destroy good things.

But,
Also be an adult.
Don’t let people play you.

True me.. Tap-1438..

Your competition isn’t other people.
Your competition is:

• Your procrastination.
• Your Ego.
• Your lack of confidence.
• Unhealthy food you’re consuming.
• The knowledge you neglect to learn.
• Negative behavior you’re nurturing.
• Your lack of creativity.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1415..

Six important guidelines in life:

1. When you are alone, mind your thoughts.
2. When you are with friends, mind your tongue.
3. When you are angry, mind your temper.
4. When you are with a group, mind your behavior.
5. When you are in trouble, mind your emotions.
6. When you are blessed, mind your ego.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1372..

Do not engage with someone with lower behavior.
You will be dealing with someone who projects,
who has ego problems,
who is self centered,
who lacks empathy,
who is emotionally immature,
who has unhealed wounds of their own,
who has a need to feel superior,
who needs to control others,
and who ends up hurting just about everyone who crosses their path.
Stay away from such people & such behaviour.

Move forward by healing your own hurts.
Improve yourself.
And forget about inviting other’s toxicity into your space.
You are your own responsibility.
Make sure you make yourself a better version of yourself with time.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-1328..

Six important guidelines in life:

1. When you are alone, mind your thoughts.
2. When you are with friends, mind your tongue.
3. When you are angry, mind your temper.
4. When you are with a group, mind your behavior.
5. When you are in trouble, mind your emotions.
6. When God starts blessing you, mind your ego.

Tap OUT..✌️

Tru2Day1418

If you want to feed the homeless, then feed the homeless.
But the moment you put it on social media, you are also feeding your ego.

Do good deeds & become a ghost after that.
That’s gonna feed your soul with GOOD KARMA.

Tru2Day1373

LIFE IS SHORT.
SO BREAK YOUR SILLY EGOS,
FORGIVE QUICKLY,
BELIEVE SLOWLY,
LOVE TRULY,
LAUGH LOUDLY,
AND NEVER AVOID ANYTHING THAT MAKES YOU SMILE.

True me.. Tap-1164..

To work on yourself is the best thing you can do.
Accept that you are not perfect, but you are enough.

And then start working on everything that destroys you.
Your insecurities.
Your ego.
Your dark thoughts.
You have to work on all.
You will see, in the end you’re going to make peace with yourself.

And that’s the greatest thing in the world.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. The problem with our education system & also with the society is; WE THINK DISCUSSING ABOUT MONEY IS A TABOO, which is pure nonsense in my eyes. Watch this & get little information about what can be sorted in how long time. You can afford anything, but not everything.)

Tap OUT..✌️

Tru2Day1262

Your competition isn’t other people, your competition is:

• Your procrastination.
• Your EGO.
• Unhealthy food you’re consuming.
• The knowledge you neglect to learn.
• Negative behavior you’re nurturing.
• Your lack of creativity.

True me.. Tap-1154..

REMINDER:
IT ONLY TAKES ONE SECOND TO SAY;

• Can we talk?
• I apologise.
• You were right.
• I love you.
• I miss you.
• I don’t want to be at odds.

Stop letting pride & ego hold you hostage from the happiness in life.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. The best tribute video to Boris Johnson. I had to share it.)

Tap OUT..😜

Tru2Day1136

To work on yourself is the best thing you can do.
Accept that you are not perfect, but you are enough.
And then start working on everything that destroys you.
Your insecurities, your ego, your dark thoughts.
You will see, in the end you’re going to make peace with yourself.
And that’s the greatest thing in the world.

True me.. Tap-955..

There are many people who walk around with big egos feeling righteous and more entitled than others.
It doesn’t matter where you come from or who you think you are, we’re all human beings with beating hearts.
A lot of times people judge others and assume that they’re right, but you can’t just assume your point of view is right.
You have to be willing to see outside of yourself.
There are so many people in the world and if you’re only asking yourself for answers, then you’re living your life in a bubble.

Think twice before you feel like judging someone, put yourself in their shoes and remember they’re entitled to their own opinions and perspectives.
They see the world differently.

You don’t deserve a point of view if the only thing you see is you.
-PARAMORE.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-935..

Your competition isn’t other people.

Your competition is;
your procrastination,
your ego,
the unhealthy food you’re consuming,
the knowledge you neglect,
the negative behaviour you’re nurturing
& your lack of creativity.

COMPETE AGAINST THAT.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Inflation has gone higher everywhere. But i really don’t know why nobody is talking about new raise in council taxes, water bills & road tax. In UK, there’s a road tax you have to pay once every 6 months if you own a car. And water bill is also paid in every 6 months. Council tax you have to pay every month even if it’s a rented property. Post brexit all bills shot up abnormally. Today government announced 150💷 temporary council tax rebate for tax band A to D, i don’t think it’s helping anyone amid power/energy price hike & new tax slab changes.)

Tap OUT..✌️

Tru2Day1026

OPINION is really the lowest form of human knowledge.
It requires no accountability, no understanding.
The highest form of knowledge is EMPATHY, for it requires us to suspend our egos and live in another’s world.
It requires profound purpose larger than the self kind of understanding.

-Bill Bullard.

True me.. Tap-792..

This is for the ones who are struggling right now.
This is for the ones who have been having a rough day or week or even year.
The ones who feel like this storm will never end.
Keep fighting for you.
Not for friends, not for your family, but for you.
Keep fighting because deep down you hold a tiny voice that knows you were meant for far more than this sadness and pain you are feeling.
Keep fighting because the person you will be on the other side of all this is cheering for you so much.
Keep fighting because you will get there.
And it will be worth it.

Understand that your competition isn’t other people.
Your competition is your procrastination.
Your ego.
The unhealthy food you’re consuming.
The knowledge you neglect.
The negative behaviour you’re nurturing.
And your lack of creativity.
Compete against that.
You deserve a better you. (Not my words).

Tap OUT..💪

Tru2Day765

Your competition isn’t other people.

Your competition is your procrastination, your ego, the unhealthy food you’re consuming, the knowledge you neglect, the negative behavior you’re nurturing & your lack of creativity.
Compete against that.

True me.. Tap-601..

Never expect affection or approval from a narcissist. They always focus on your faults. Narcissist boost their own self-worth by demanding special treatment garnering obedient followers and establishing the highest expectations from others and they enjoy inflating their egos by making other people feel bad about themselves. That’s why they focus on what you do wrong in life.

A narcissist will keep a laundry list of your mistakes faults to use when it’s convenient for them at the same time. They’ll overlook your successes and anything that you do right? Keep that in mind. In the next time you’re trying to gain approval or affection from a narcissist, no matter how hard you try nothing will ever guarantee their support.

Tap OUT..🤗

Tru2Day616

It takes a lifetime to understand the difference between EXPENSIVE & OVERPRICED. Let me clarify it to you the easiest possible way.

For an example; your SELF-RESPECT is the most EXPENSIVE thing about you, once you understand your worth. And your EGO is either cheap or OVERPRICED looking at your attitude towards life.

True me.. Tap-513..

True confidence is very different from egotistical swagger. When people believe in themselves and their abilities, there are things they simply don’t do. Don’t get me wrong, learning to be confident is important but there are certain behaviors that sets highly confident people apart from everyone else. Two major things confident people never do:

1: They don’t over focus on appearance. When someone is self-confident, they have a healthy relationship with their appearance. They stay Fit and well groomed, and they eat healthy food because they know their bodies deserve to be taken care properly. Confident people strive to put their best foot forward and then accept themselves as they are.

2. They don’t try to change their personality. Whether someone is an introvert or an extrovert, they can still be confident. Confident people understand that self-assurance comes from feeling good about who they are and what they can achieve by being completely authentic. They don’t try to be someone they’re not, because they understand that self-acceptance is a vital element of self-confidence.

Tap OUT..👍

True me.. Tap-491..

When somebody talks about my EGO or arrogance without meeting me in person, I can come to only one conclusion that “this person has a poor sense of understanding people”. I am not some celebrity or politician who can be mean for no reason. The best quality about me is “I love being random”. If you are one of my close buddies, one thing you know about my mindset is “I love money but I hate the fame associated to it”. Goal of my life is to make money & stay random. Only thing you can judge about me over internet is my race or my opinions, beyond that rest is your presumptions which is nothing but pure bullshit.

Very few understand your behaviour begins with your ability to accept, accept new information, accepting people & accepting yourself for what you are. We live in a world where people counter others with baseless crap lacking enough juice to back their words. It’s nothing but result of a lazy unenthusiastic mindset. If you are reading this please don’t mind being appreciative to others no matter what goes right or wrong. Being nice costs nothing. And a smile or goodwill you earn in return is priceless. Life is fun, let it be.

Tap OUT..🤗👊

True me.. Tap-479..

I have a bad habit to block random people from my life. The way I see it is; if I can be happy for a day without entertaining someone, I can be happy my whole life without that person. That’s another reason how I scare people away. This tiny paragraph is for flings & acquaintances.

Now let’s talk about the people who are in my life. I feel cherished & valued because my people understand how much I value self-respect. I don’t have anything like EGO in me. You can’t offend me. Being a human I too have flaws & I admit them time after time whenever I mess up something. Mama once said; “Do amazing new mistakes, that’s how you can understand where you can go wrong. But never repeat that same mistake again, that’s when you grow to be a bigger better you.” That’s the goal of life now. Goal is to become a bigger better TAP without entertaining unnecessary people or drama.

Tap OUT..💪

True me.. Tap-424..

I work as a data analytics professional & I also run a tiny health supplement business where i sell some athleisure clothing as well under my brand name in few e-commerce sites, because of my business I come in touch with different types of people from different regions/backgrounds. To be honest most people are not good with their ego & self-respect, people fail to understand the difference between both because of their insecurities. Sometimes it goes even more weird because there is MONEY involved. This is the story of other side where I feel other side is cringey or clingy just to get a bargain in a bulk order.

Story of my side is “The businessman part of me is nasty”, please don’t expect a gentle/sweet response if you are talking to me in between 11am-3pm. I just talk logic & numbers in that timeframe. A strong competitive mindset that I can’t leave aside which portrays my image as an angry stubborn rude TAP. The worst part is, I do this with a healthy happy funny mood. I still don’t know how/why my voice sounds so deep/grumpy during that specific time. Learning to be more calm & composed with time. I wish everyday not to hurt anyone with my words, but this happens once in a while. I still make things right before hitting bed. I can’t fall asleep with a thought of hurting someone.

Lesson for me today: There is no place for ARROGANCE & IGNORANCE in business. RESPECT THAT RESPECT YOU GET FROM OTHERS.

Tap OUT..💪

So TRUE.. (Hope so)

I don’t know how true this is. Yes, I am a LEO. In my case, I don’t have anything like EGO. My self-respect is my only possession. You have to respect me as I respect myself. If that gets hammered, I don’t know who you are!!

True me..Tap-165..

I have the audacity to say & do whatever I feel right for me while being TRUE to everyone I am connecting. Never felt the need to lie or deceive someone, never did that.

If I need/want you in my life, I know I am not strong enough to hurt you. If you feel hurt because of me, most probably I have stopped caring whatever you are & I don’t give a shit what you think of me. My TRUTH always stays intact & unchanged in all circumstances. Don’t count it like my ego, it’s my way of prioritizing myself & those who wanna see me smile.

Tap OUT..😜

Tru2Day172

I ride life with a oversized self-respect. If you feel it’s my ego, you don’t even know what I am for real.

Ego & Lie are discarded parts of my life. Yes my obsession for TRUTH may overwhelm you.
Watch out..

True me.. Tap-140..

Your ego, lying, cheating, manipulation, deceit, tampering, hiding, sidelining & sexual addiction all are DEVIL in a relationship which is there inside you.

Being a human, you have enough knowledge to understand & separate what’s right or what’s wrong!! People who bullshit always get confused between apology or appreciation. Don’t break something that you can’t fix. Don’t do something wrong if you don’t know how to ask forgiveness.

Tap OUT..👍

Tru2Day123

Even your half-truth is a lie, hiding things is a lie, running away is a lie, being secretive is a lie, being not answerable is a lie, not facing the reality is a lie, lacking accountability is a lie, indecisiveness is a lie, sidelining own mistakes is a lie, your ego & fake pride is also a lie.

Now ask yourself how big is your LIE!!

True me.. Tap-100..

Don’t connect with me to give something. I have all tools to keep myself busy & happy. In case you wanna take/share something from me, drop your ego & please don’t lie. I have learnt two lessons after a long struggle; TRUTH & SELF-INTROSPECTION. I always make sure I am on the right path towards my goals. There are rules I made for myself which I just can’t break.

Be you. Let’s share some good moments with a pizza, cheesecake & red wine. Being a buddy to Tap is more than enough always.

Tap OUT..🤗😘

True me.. Tap-98..

It’s always more important what you give, not what you ask for. We all have spares in our lives, extra clothes, extra shoes, extra money, extra food, extra unused time, extra dullness surrounding own mental health. I mean we always have enough to give away whether it’s a material things or positive/negative emotions. We often have enough LOVE to share with other people.

As hard it may sound, most of our giving is not an act of generosity. What we give are mere excesses/extras. But we glorify it by calling it GENEROSITY. What makes it even more questionable is what we expect in return? It’s natural for us to expect equal reciprocation when we give. Balance is the name of life.

We need to give without expecting any return, when it’s LOVE. Expecting what we give as return means, taking back we gave. People start thinking so much about self respect & inflated ego. In the mix they forget what they really are. Stop measuring what you give & start forgiving before starting to forget. When you give, take nothing except the satisfaction of making someone HAPPY.

Tap OUT.. Blessed..😘

True me..Tap-94..

Stop stalking, start talking. When you know someone is your source of real happiness, hold them close to your heart & soul. That’s what a soul tie means!!

You don’t come to a relationship with a armour of ego, deceit, pride, hidden agenda, half baked reality, lie and tons of obsessive codependent bullshit. You reach your love butt naked with smile on your face, hearts on your sleeve & Truth in your head/heart/mouth. If no, you haven’t loved yet. Time for some heart-to-heart conversation with self. Till the time you are not a TRUE you, you can’t get/give that goodness called LOVE..

Tap OUT..😘

Tap my thoughts.. 61

People who cheat/lie/manipulate/betray aren’t entitled to show EGO or TANTRUMS & raise their voice. It’s like cherry on top of shit, still it stinks and untouchable/unbearable.
Please keep on self examining, you deserve a better you for your own good before approaching anyone.👍

Ego!!

Some people don’t understand what’s EGO!!

Here is your answer:
There is something you already know what’s the TRUTH, and you are still behaving like a piece of shit with your all senses using whole mind+body.

So EGO is that part of you, where LOGIC and EMOTIONS are absent. Basically you are fooling yourself with a fake you.

True me.. Tap-82..

Focus on building your SELF-ESTEEM, which will strengthen your SELF-RESPECT.

We humans don’t understand the difference between self-respect & EGO, which results in hurting self. EGO & PRIDE will get crushed by you or someone else someday, they are flighty in nature & help with nothing. Focus on being a TRUE you.

Tap OUT..👍

True me.. Tap-59..

Toxic people are nothing but people with negative mindset. Because they can’t value/love themselves, they try to damage someone else’s integrity. There is a cure, they need to feed their self respect instead of their ego. It’s easy & everyone deserves happiness.

Tap OUT..👍

Tru2Day54

Don’t fuck with those who walk with EGO.

Remember:
Never let EGO ride you or engage with those who satisfy their EGO by hurting you. You don’t even know that thing called EGO is coming out from a fear based loose mentality.

Tru2Day47

Find the difference between your intuition & ego, you don’t need to know which one is better. At least understand which one is which, EASY LIFE.

Tap OUT..😘

EGO vs SELF-RESPECT..

Everytime somebody talks about my EGO, I laugh at that person for a while before walking away. I am connected to some amazing set of friends since past 14-15 years to be precise & never switched anyone of them. We all are amazingly simple & beautiful on our own. I am the most emotionally detached in our group & my mates never make me feel less because of that. I am driven by logic out of choice & this will never change. We don’t have time to entertain EGO, it’s as simple as “be right or stay shut”. Nobody is perfect and we make sure to make sense in arguments in case any misunderstandings pop up. Life is fun because we are open, available, consistent & TRUTHFUL. That’s where we understand each other’s boundaries and make sure we offend less & laugh more while preserving everyone’s SELF-RESPECT.

One tiny thing to take notice, the only person who can hurt me is my mum. And because I ran away from my home in my teen days, even she is afraid to say something that I might not prefer to listen. She might have noticed my EGO because of my wrong actions. You can say, I am simply complicated. Whatever right or wrong I have ever done, I am always grateful to my parents till I breathe. I am not sharing the same house with them, but I am proud to say I am proud child of a intellectual loving couple. That’s all.