Every good thing takes time. You can’t rush things. Growth is not linear, but a journey; one filled with challenges and opportunities to push to your destination. No one can do it for you, it’s your journey. And there will be days you’ll want to give up, but you can keep going. There are no shortcuts to get there, so you have to embrace the process.
Think progress, not perfection. Allow yourself to grow in the process. Make room for failure too. Just do your daily practice and cultivate a kind heart. Bet on hard work. Abandon impatience. The results will come down when they’re ready. Remember, consistent small steps are way better than just one big step with no further progress.
Life can be so beautiful. Five years ago i never would’ve pictured myself where i am right now. I may not have everything i want. I may not have found all the happiness in this world. But almighty has blessed me in certain areas with way more than i ever imagined. In my journey of growth & becoming who i am today, i wish not to hurt anyone. All i hope is to be truthful, busy & productive. Efficient & effective with the way i am, you know, i’m content, i’m content right now. And that gives me immense amount of fulfillment to my soul. I am grateful to be alive & to be breathing. I never imagined i would get this far but i did & if i can do it, then you can too.
Happiness may feel like a far fetched dream. But happiness is not a destination. Chasing it will only ever push you further away from it. The more you chase things or people, the further they run from you. Just acknowledge your own being, your own existence, everything you seek for on the outside has always resided within you. Delve deep within, you’ll realise living is beautiful. Life is a gift. (Not my words).
Everything that you do is somehow connected. The past, present & the future all are connected. Your past & present hold significant sway over your FUTURE. You should realise that “no one step” will suddenly shoot you into the future of your dreams. Every single step you have ever taken and the ones you take right now are equally important. Your future is actually culmination of your previous choices & steps. So all of them count.
Therefore, make an effort to take steps which are consistent with your destination. Only that way you can get there. That’s how you reach/fetch GOALS. (Not my words).
Conditions & Situations will never be just right. Certain times you are allowed to wait till factors are favorable, but that mustn’t delay your actions. Find your purpose & set GOALS. One step at a time & you will reach destination if your movement is forward no matter how slow you are moving.
I am definitely romantic. My kinda romance is more about two return tickets to any nearby destination, a nice service apartment, handcuffs, lubes, cheesecakes, melted chocolate & whipped cream. Opening car doors, bending knees & flowers are too much 80s. I am happy to be me.
Sharing this chat to thank DEMI for being there whenever I needed a shoulder for support. But read next lines, it’s about finding the right like minded people who vibe positivity. COMMUNICATION is the key to keep every relationship alive, doesn’t matter love/friendship/family.
Sometimes people get jealous or they feel intimidated looking at our friendship. The equation we have with each other is way beyond you can even imagine to get with your lover/life partner/husband/wife.
The key is, we have dropped our guards down & there is no ego in between us. We are wild & open enough to talk anything or everything we want. Doesn’t matter how you see it, it’s friendship which bloomed to a closeness equivalent to a family. The distance between us goes up or down, but the equation always remains the same. I am not ashamed to share that “Yes I am the one with little strength & Truth, I do get the chance for a power play & each time my friends show me the path to get grounded”. When I am talking about friendship here, it’s not just two people in the conversation. There is a group of 8, we never got separated from each other. We all know what’s stored for us in future, all are alligning for the better.
Life gives everyone chances to win. It’s your mind which is clinged to negativity & stopping you from shine. Stay positive & open to see the bright side of everything you have or you want. Life is easy as it sounds.