The desire to be liked isn’t healthy.
People need to understand that others disliking you is not a bad thing.
When you are embodying your true authentic self, it creates fear in people who still operate from their ego.
If you want to grow,
If you want to heal,
and if you want to evolve,
You have to let go of wanting to be liked.
Tap..✌️
I use my money to MAKE more money.
You use your money to LOOK like you have more money.
We are not the same.
And,
I focus more on money than people.
Because I never met a dollar I didn’t like.
There’s no competition.
Respectfully, you can never be me.
Disrespectfully, I would never want to be you.
Tap..✌️
Anyone who has grown mentally & physically knows that growth is not found in comfort.
But post growth, there’s definitely some form of comfort which is desirable.
Someday you will find what you are looking for.
Or
You may not,
You may find something much greater than that.
Wish you the last one.
Be thankful that you’re not where you used to be in life.
Be grateful you’ve outgrown so much.
Be grateful you’re still learning.
Be grateful you’ve survived a lot.
Be grateful you know your goals & desires.
Be grateful it made you a better person.
Give yourself credit for making it this far.
Some of your best days are ahead of you.
Remain consistent in your journey.
Keep going, and don’t give up.
Tap..✌️
Beauty also looks like:
Authenticity.
Honesty.
Commitment.
Consistency.
Lightheartedness.
Good moral values.
Emotional intelligence.
A kind and grateful heart.
A desire to do and be better.
Tap..✌️
If you want to be happy,
do not dwell in the past,
do not worry about the future,
focus on living fully in the present.
-Roy T. Bennett.
Be thankful that you’re not where you used to be in life.
Be grateful you’ve outgrown so much.
Be grateful you’re still learning.
Be grateful you’ve survived a lot.
Be grateful you know your goals & desires.
Be grateful it made you a better person.
Give yourself credit for making it this far.
Some of your best days are ahead of you.
Remain consistent in your journey.
Keep going, and don’t give up.
Tap..✌️
Just remember, we are all toxic.
Every single human being is capable of being toxic, has been, currently is, etc.
But some people have the desire to be educated on it and do better while others will ignore any accountability and continue to act the same way.
Pay attention.
Some day you will find what you are looking for.
Or
You may not,
You may find something much greater than that.
Wish you the last one.
Recognise when a phase is over.
Recognise when a job is over.
Recognise when a stage of life is over.
Recognise when a relationship is over.
And let it go.
Allow yourself to gracefully exit situations you have outgrown.
Moving on doesn’t have to be a catastrophic dramatic event.
You can simply chose to move forward with peace and clarity.
Tap..✌️
Beauty also looks like:
• Authenticity.
• Honesty.
• Commitment.
• Consistency.
• Lightheartedness.
• Good moral values.
• Emotional intelligence.
• A kind and grateful heart.
• A desire to do and be better.
Tap..✌️
Three simple rules in life;
1. If you do not GO after what you want,
you’ll never have it.
2. If you do not ASK,
the answer will always be NO.
3. If you do not step forward,
you’ll always be in the same place.
Tap..✌️
6 months of hardcore focus and alignment can put you 5 years ahead in life.
Don’t underestimate the power of consistency and discipline.
You have what it takes to become the best that you can be.
Don’t ever doubt yourself.
Harness your power.
Exceed your expectations.
CONSISTENCY IS WHAT TRANSFORMS AVERAGE INTO EXECELLENCE.
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Three simple rules in life;
1. If you do not GO after what you want,
you’ll never have it.
2. If you do not ASK,
the answer will always be NO.
3. If you do not step forward,
you’ll always be in the same place.
Tap..✌️
BEAUTY LOOKS LIKE:
1. Lightheartedness.
2. Good moral values.
3. Emotional intelligence.
4. A kind and grateful heart.
5. Authenticity and honesty.
6. A desire to do and be better.
7. Commitment and consistency.
Tap..✌️
It’s time to get clear about who you are.
It’s time to get clear about what you want.
It’s time to get clear about what you need.
It’s time to get clear about what you value.
It’s time to get clear about what you desire.
It’s time to get clear about what you cherish.
It’s time to get clear about what you deserve.
BE YOU.
Tap..✌️
Read insightful books that will help you discover who you truly are.
Know your values and priorities,
and get in touch with your current goals and dreams.
What are you heading towards?
What are you excited to create?
When we know what’s important to us, we can align our choices to achieve what we most desire.
It’s empowering to take steps, even small steps, in the direction of our dreams.
Every time we get into action with our goals and stay true to our course, we feel more confident, encouraged and enlivened.
ACT ON YOUR PRIORITIES & DESIRES.
Tap..✌️
Just show up, as you are.
You don’t have to look or feel great.
You don’t have to be prepared for each challenge or know all the hows of every situation.
You don’t have to be fearless, or have all the answers, or be 100% ready.
Nobody is any of these things.
Nobody ever was.
It’s not about being perfect, at all.
You just have to show up, as you are, despite all the objections and insecurities of your mind, despite each and every fear that threatens to hold you back, despite the limitations and criticisms others will place on you.
To hell with it all.
This is your life, your journey, your adventure, and all it’s asking of you is to show up for it, as you are.
That’s enough.
That’s more than enough.
That’s everything.
Tap OUT..✌️
You get one life to live.
Don’t stay in places that don’t inspire you.
Don’t stay there which doesn’t encourage you,
or
don’t hangout with those people who don’t make you happy & happening.
Go for what you want in life.
Go to the areas that call you.
Go to the places that calm you.
Go to places that inspire you to be your highest self.
Do anything & everything that you desire without hurting others.
At the end,
be an authentic version of yourself shamelessly.
Tap..✌️
Read insightful books that will help you discover who you truly are.
Know your values and priorities,
and get in touch with your current goals and dreams.
What are you heading towards?
What are you excited to create?
When we know what’s important to us, we can align our choices to achieve what we most desire.
It’s empowering to take steps, even small steps, in the direction of our dreams.
Every time we get into action with our goals and stay true to our course, we feel more confident, encouraged and enlivened.
ACT ON YOUR PRIORITIES & DESIRES.
Tap..✌️
Have a goal.
Wake up earlier.
Smile.
Start to run.
Make your breakfast.
Travel.
Cuddle your horse.
Say “I adore you” to someone.
Laugh.
Discover something new about yourself & others.
Sing.
Dance.
Own a business.
Sleep well.
Go to that specific place you desire.
Be in peace with yourself.
Take a picture on the top of that mountain.
No matter the kind of goal, have one.
And fight for it.
Wake up everyday with motivation, and fall asleep with a smile.
Live your life to the fullest, every second.
Do exactly what you want, and accomplish it.
You are the master of your life.
You decide.
You create.
So go.
Never doubt of your capacities, and go.
Tap..✌️
To be beautiful means to be yourself.
You don’t need to be accepted by others.
You need to accept yourself.
Stop forcing yourself to live up to other people’s expectations.
Stop going through life making decisions based on other people’s desires, especially as they don’t have to live with the results of those choices.
Own your life.
It’s your soul, your mind, your heart and your body.
No matter what you do,
no matter how many times you screw up and think to yourself “there’s no point to carry on”,
no matter how many people tell you that you can’t do it, keep going.
Keep going, that’s the only way to go.
Don’t quit.
Don’t quit, because a month or a year from now you will be way more closer to your goals & desires than you are now.
Yesterday you said tomorrow.
Make today count.
KEEP GOING.
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Just remember, we are all toxic.
Every single human being is capable of being toxic, has been, currently is, etc.
But some people have the desire to be educated on it and do better while others will ignore any accountability and continue to act the same way.
Pay attention.
What does your heart desire?
Imagine it.
Say it out loud.
Too often, we keep ourselves from experiencing the grandness that life has for us because we believe the narrative that certain experiences or success is unattainable for us.
For others, we take on the belief system that it’s wrong to have desire or dream big daring dreams.
But, in reality neither of those things are true.
Keep asking yourself “WHAT DO YOU WANT?”.
Desire isn’t something selfish or prideful, rather, it’s something beautiful that we have been given by the almighty.
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Read insightful books that will help you discover who you truly are.
Know your values and priorities,
and get in touch with your current goals and dreams.
What are you heading towards?
What are you excited to create?
When we know what’s important to us, we can align our choices to achieve what we most desire.
It’s empowering to take steps, even small steps, in the direction of our dreams.
Every time we get into action with our goals and stay true to our course, we feel more confident, encouraged and enlivened.
ACT ON YOUR PRIORITIES & DESIRES.
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Slowly but surely, your life moves towards your desires & deeds.
In order to bring the highest version of yourself to everything you do, you must be performing at your highest level.
That means making sure you get enough sleep, eat well, exercise, meditate, and take care of your mind, body, and soul.
Sometimes we think we have to show how hard we work by burning ourselves out, but I promise you it’s so much better to find the balance.
You will feel happier, you will be more productive, and your work will be better.
Look at your life and find balance in all aspects and areas.
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What is real HAPPINESS?
HAPPINESS is not fulfilling every pleasure or getting every outcome you desire.
Happiness is being able to enjoy life with a peaceful mind that is not constantly craving more.
It is the inner peace that comes with embracing change.
True self-care is not salt baths and chocolate cake.
It is making the choice to build a life you don’t need to regularly escape from.
And that often takes doing the thing you least want to do.
It often means looking at your failures and disappointments square in the eye and re-strategizing.
It is not satiating your immediate desires.
It is letting go.
It is choosing new.
It is disappointing some people.
It is making sacrifices for others.
It is living a way that other people won’t, so maybe you can live in a way that other people can’t.
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True self-care is not salt baths and chocolate cake.
It is making the choice to build a life you don’t need to regularly escape from.
And that often takes doing the thing you least want to do.
It often means looking at your failures and disappointments square in the eye and re-strategizing.
It is not satiating your immediate desires.
It is letting go.
It is choosing new.
It is disappointing some people.
It is making sacrifices for others.
It is living a way that other people won’t, so maybe you can live in a way that other people can’t.
Tap OUT..✌️
How to be the main character of your LIFE;
LIVE WITH PURPOSE-
The first step to some major main character energy is to live with purpose.
As the main character of your life, one of the worst possible things you can do is to let it pass you by.
The goals, desires, and accomplishments you hope to see happen are up to you to work towards.
SET BOUNDARIES-
While you’re learning to be main character in your life, you need to develop confidence and comfortability in setting boundaries with other people.
You know what you want, and what’s important to you, and you need to be okay with removing things and relationships that don’t allow you to maintain those.
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People pray for CAKE.
Sometimes GOD gives cake.
And sometimes GOD gives them butter, eggs, oil, icing, a pan & an oven.
Then they get frustrated and leave the kitchen.
Let that sink.
Sometimes you have everything right in front of you.
But HOW BAD do you want it?
Everything in life is about your goals & desires.
If you are not marching towards it, then who else will do that!?!
Time to fix yourself.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Sometimes it feels like the more people talk about it, the less it makes sense. At least UK is back to pre pandemic levels of growth.)
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NINE SENTENCES I WISH I’D READ SOONER;
• These hard times, this pain, these lessons – one day they’ll be your strength, your awareness, your blessings.
• Stop expecting honesty from people who lie to themselves.
• You’ll never look good trying to make someone look bad.
• Save your explanations for those that are determined to understand you.
• Give your silence to those that are determined to misunderstand you.
• Your life is too short to be unhappy 5 days a week in exchange for 2 days of freedom.
• Don’t be upset from people you don’t respect.
• Life is not tiring. Wanting life to be a certain way but not having the confidence to make it that way, is tiring.
• Your consistent approach to anything you desire dictates your success in career, business & relationships.
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If you want to become significantly better at anything, you have to fall in love with the process of doing it.
You have to fall in love with building the identity of someone who does the work, rather than merely dreaming about the results that you want.
In other words;
Fall in love with boredom.
Fall in love with repetition and practice.
Fall in love with the process of what you and let the results take care of themselves.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. We live in a world of such woke dumbfucks. One word for this mindset; DISGUSTING. Ask a scientist whether we are ready for a world of fully renewable energy, the answer is NO. Yes science has made progress, but you can still go more miles with a tank of gas compared to a fully charged electric vehicle. We need more research & more time. Such dumbfucks are just slowing down the process while causing immense financial damage.)
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Just remember, we are all toxic.
Every single human being is capable of being toxic, has been, currently is, etc.
But some people have the desire to be educated on it and do better while others will ignore any accountability and continue to act the same way.
Pay attention.
Love your fucking life.
Take pictures of everything you find beautiful.
Tell people you love them.
Talk to random strangers.
Do things that you’re scared to do.
Fuck it, because so many of us die and no one remembers a thing we did.
Take your life and make it the best story in the world.
Remain consistent with your way of living.
Remain consistent with your desires & demands.
Remain consistent with your goals & dreams.
Don’t waste these precious things called “LIFE”.
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I don’t desire much.
I like sunsets and looking at the sky.
I love eating good food and having conversations with humans.
From time to time I think I sing well in the shower.
I’m just a fan of being alive.
-Sylvester McNutt.
Tomorrow is not promised.
Not a single second or minute is promised.
So, live for today.
Keep the promises you make to yourself.
Take action on the things you desire and want.
Remind those that matter to you that they are loved and you are grateful for them.
Never leave someone you care about on negative terms.
Give more than you take.
Make the calls you’ve been telling yourself you’ll do ‘tomorrow’.
Let the small shit go.
Never go to bed angry or upset.
We will all die one day, so learn to live each day with the promise to yourself that it’ll be better than yesterday.
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4 KEY STEPS TO MANIFESTING:
GRATITUDE:
Be grateful for what you have right now. Manifestation happens when you’re vibrating on a high frequency, so so if you’re living day to day being ungrateful, you are emitting a low frequency.
GET CLEAR:
Become explicitly clear on them by writing them down, looking at them every single day, saying them out loud, writing them in a journal, and/or affirming them through powerful affirmations.
VISUALISE:
Close your eyes and visualise yourself having the things you desire, visualise yourself as if you already have them, visualise this beautiful life you’re trying to manifest.
TAKE ACTION:
Your dream job, dream relationship, or even that million pounds, aren’t just going to arrive on your doorstep.
Instead, the Universe will send you powerful signs and powerful opportunities.
Don’t ignore them – take action.
Say yes. Get moving.
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If you are serious about the change in your life that you desire, you must be willing to go through uncomfortable situations.
It is the only way you will GROW.
This is life, and it is what it is.
Shit is gonna happen.
It’s gonna get complicated.
We’re gonna relapse.
We’re gonna need time-outs.
We’re gonna be weak.
We’re gonna be strong.
We’re gonna lose our shit and yell for people to get the fuck out of our lives.
We’re gonna break down and beg some people to stay in our lives.
Some days we’re gonna feel everything all at once.
Other days, we’re gonna feel nothing at all.
We’re gonna be in some bad spaces, we’re gonna be in some amazing ones.
We’re gonna get on our knees crying and hurting and begging for help.
We’re gonna get on our knees and pray just to say thank you.
We’re gonna have moments when we know exactly what we want, and we’re sure.
We’re gonna have moments when we legit have no fucking clue what we want, and we’re confused.
This life shit isn’t a movie, and I think sometimes, we forget that.
Tap OUT..✌️
Have a goal.
Wake up earlier.
Smile.
Start running early morning.
Make a new recipe.
Buy a weighted blanket.
Travel.
Cuddle your puppy or horse.
Say “I love you & I care for you” to someone.
Laugh to dad jokes.
Discover the universe.
Sing your favourite song.
Have your own blog/business/investments.
Sleep well.
Go to the specific place you desire.
Be in peace with yourself.
Take a picture on the top of a mountain.
No matter the kind of goal, have one GOAL.
And fight for it, keep fighting till you get it done.
Wake up everyday with motivation, and fall asleep with a smile.
Live your life to the fullest, every second.
Do exactly what you want, and accomplish it.
You are the master of your life.
You decide.
You create.
So go.
Never doubt of your capacities, and go.
Tap OUT..🤗
Tomorrow is not promised.
Not a single second or minute is PROMISED.
So, live for today.
Keep the promises you make.
Take action on the things you desire and need.
Remind those that matter to you that they are loved and you are grateful for them.
Never leave someone you care about on negative terms.
Give more than you take.
Make the calls you’ve been telling yourself you’ll do ‘tomorrow’.
Let the small shit go.
Let equations with inconsistent people fall.
Never go to bed angry.
We will all die one day, so learn to live each day with the promise to yourself that it’ll be better than yesterday.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I can’t believe that a group of people still deny global warming & climate change. Shared this tiny video because i wanted to share this issue.)
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If you are serious about the change in your life that you desire, you must be willing to go through uncomfortable situations.
That’s the only way to grow.
I hope you find the kind of happiness that exists on your own terms.
I hope you truly take the time to figure out what moves you, what encourages your soul, what you deeply crave from life, and I hope you have the courage to chase that.
I hope you have the courage to believe that you are deserving of everything you desire, that you are capable and worthy of curating the kind of life for yourself that sparks something within you.
You have a fire inside of you I hope you never let convenience, or comfort, or the easiness of standing still put it out.
I hope you show the world what you can do with all of that passion inside of you.
(Not my words.)
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4 Signs you’re MANIPULATIVE without realizing it:
1. Jealousy drives you to do risky things.
You resort to passive-aggressive tactics.
For example, you notice some friends who are not with you.
• You are offended and invite another friend to go out with you.
• You take a ton of pictures and post them on social media for all to see.
• When you feel like you’re losing control of a situation, you create another one that you can control.
Consider picking up a new hobby.
Accept that not everything other people do is related to you.
2. You’re kind of a know-it-all.
• You have the feeling that people should listen to you since you’re the one who knows the most.
• People around you may feel as though they are suffocating due to your actions.
• You may have a persistent desire to put yourself first, which may cause others to perceive you as selfish.
3. You pour attention on someone, then withdraw it if they do something wrong.
• You avoid people after an argument to prove a point.
• The point is that you don’t need them, and if they want to make up, they should go to you first.
• You feel the need to be in control.
• It’s important to remember that no one is perfect, including you.
4. You are adamant about getting your way.
• You are being persuasive.
• In some cases, you may have to go to great lengths to obtain your desired outcome.
• Assume you want candy for everyone, but others wish to have chocolate. So, what do you do? You get rid of all the chocolate, so they don’t have a choice.
• If you ever catch yourself doing these things, stop, take a deep breath, and take a step back.
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Fears stop you from all things possible.
Don’t let fear get in the way of anything, especially your dreams.
Did you know that FEAR is actually an acronym that stands for False Evidence Appearing Real?
In other words, your fears are not real because they’re not actually happening they’re based on things that haven’t happened yet and therefore don’t exist.
Replace a fear with a wish or a dream for your life and choose to focus on that instead.
Too many of us are not living our dreams because we are living our fears.
-LES BROWN.
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There comes a very important time in your life where you need to sit yourself down and ask;
“If you’re really living your life!
Are you content or are you happy?
Are you seeing or living?”
You only have one shot at this.
Travel great distances if that’s what you please.
Or stay at home and build a beautiful garden is that’s where you see yourself happiest.
If you aren’t happy, then change.
Analyze your life and get rid of anything that doesn’t make you happy.
One day when you’re eighty years old, you’re going to wish you did.
You’re going to wish you lived differently and there’s no way to go back and change it.
LIVE YOUR ALL DREAMS, GOALS, DESIRES WHILE BEING THE MOST AUTHENTIC VERSION OF YOURSELF.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I liked this Ted talk by Bill Gates. And this pandemic could be the last pandemic we ever experience. Watch it if you have 15 minutes.)
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When it is time for something new, you will feel it.
You will feel a desire to let go, to shed layers, to move, to re-create.
You will know because there will be subtle shifts all around you.
You will release the old because you are really clearing the path for what’s ahead.
Trust this process.
Know that life does not take from us anything unless there is something else awaiting its replacement.
Understand & value the importance of subtle shifts.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I found it fun to watch, so it’s a fun to share. I didn’t know there’s a foster banana liquor. Now my travel diaries include one more place in 2022. I like trying such recipies even know i am not a big fan of alcohol.)
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People pray for CAKE.
Then, when God gives them the butter, eggs, oil, icing, a pan, an oven, they get frustrated and leave the kitchen.
Let that sink.
Sometimes you have everything right in front of you.
But HOW BAD do you want it?
Take exquisite care of yourself.
Sleep deeply.
Stretch gently.
Drink enough water.
Drink herbs infused in water.
Drink in the warmth of the sun.
Try early morning yoga.
Allow beauty to be a priority.
Spirituality is beauty.
Brush your hair with wooden comb.
Massage your face.
Moisturise with oils.
Breathe.
Meditate.
Write down your desires, dreams & goals.
Visualise.
Sweat.
Sweat in a gym, that’s better.
Bathe.
Take your time.
I hope you find the kind of happiness that exists on your own terms.
I hope you truly take the time to figure out what moves you, what encourages your soul, what you deeply crave from life, and I hope you have the courage to chase that.
I hope you have the courage to believe that you are deserving of everything you desire, that you are capable and worthy of curating the kind of life for yourself that sparks something within you.
You have a fire inside of you I hope you never let convenience, or comfort, or the easiness of standing still put it out.
I hope you show the world what you can do with all of that passion.
I hope you show the world what you can do with all of that heart.
At the end of the day, I hope you find what you’re looking for out there.
I HOPE YOUR LIFE INSPIRES YOU.
(Not my words.)
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Your life will pass one way or another.
The events that will unfold are the events that will unfold.
You will meet amazing people who you are meant to.
You will find the opportunities you need.
You will desire what you want.
The choice is not what you experience, but how.
How is everything.
How is golden.
How closes doors and it opens them.
How creates something out of nothing.
It is not the years we live, but HOW we live them.
It is not who we cross paths with, but how we love them & appreciate them.
It is not what we are given or not, but how we take what’s in front of us and turn it into all we ever needed it to be.
It is how we experience life, day in and day out, in the quietest moments and biggest ways.
The HOW is the way.
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You attract what you want and you create what you think about.
Act like the person you want to become.
Think like the person you want to become.
Nothing changes in your life unless you make the decision and commitment to change it.
Hold an image in your mind of how you wish to see yourself living.
Visualize it every day and you will unconsciously start to do things that will move you towards all your dreams, goals, and desires.
YOU ATTRACT WHAT YOU BECOME.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I am excited for PEACEMAKER. Watch the trailer till the end, only my university bitches know there’s an unconventional word in this trailer i use often. OK not often, a lot.)
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Everyone of us has done something wrong in life.
We have hurted people.
We all regret our wrongdoings.
But, very few of us are BRAVE enough to say SORRY in a meaningful way & ask forgiveness. My respect for such people never falls short, because regret makes no difference if you can’t change your approach for the better.
To choose forgiveness requires that we fight back our human desire for revenge.
– Dr. John Perkins.
(Luca my brother, I never hated you & i am not strong enough to hate anyone. This date 21-12-21 & this tiny post is dedicated to you.)
Often when we’re comforting loved ones, all that we want to do is take their pain away.
It’s such a natural desire to help those we love in need.
But there are many times when it is necessary for people to go through pain to fully learn and emerge stronger than ever.
Remember not to enable someone who needs help with a problem.
Support them in finding a solution.
The next time a loved one is going through a difficult period, think about how you can support them instead of fixing them.
You can’t resolve other people’s issues, but you can sit with them and share the burden of their pain, thereby lightening it. (Not my words.)
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6 RULES TO KICK ASS IN LIFE:
1. Know that your only competition is who you were yesterday.
2. Earn, save and invest before you spend.
3. Avoid negative people, life is too short.
4. If you don’t go after what you want, you will never get it.
5. See failure as a beginning, not an end.
6. Our habits decide our future, remain consistent with what you do in life.
6 months of hardcore focus and alignment can put you 5 years ahead in life.
Don’t underestimate the power of consistency and desire.
You have what it takes to become the best that you can be.
Don’t ever doubt yourself.
Harness your power.
Exceed your expectations.
CONSISTENCY ALWAYS WINS.
Tap OUT..💪
When it is time for something new, you will feel it.
You will feel a desire to let go, to shed layers, to move, to re-create.
You will know because there will be subtle shifts all around you.
You will release the old because you are clearing the path for what’s ahead.
TRUST THIS PROCESS.
-Brianna Wiest.
Few ways you can express how you feel towards someone;
1. I love you.
2. I need you.
3. I want you.
4. I want to be with you.
5. I don’t want to be without you.
6. I can’t live without you.
7. I miss you.
NEED, needs can be met somewhere else & being needy means being weak as well.
LOVE, this word is highly misused by people & especially someone like me needs a year to trust after a year of healing.
WANT is my favourite & number-3 is my pick out of all these 7.
WANT is that animalistic desire inside.
Which means i know i have few suitors/options, but who cares because it’s you and just you that i WANT for myself.
In case you love someone, remind them constantly & consistently that YOU WANT THEM.
Last time someone said “I WANT YOU” to me was on my birthday.
I haven’t replied that till now.
Never rushed towards anyone.
Never allowed anyone to rush towards me either.
The simple reason is;
“If someone is investing their time & energy on me, that person deserves a whole TAP”.
I am that kind of a person who hides nothing.
My only secrets are my bank account/credit card pin or my email/social media account passwords.
And right now, i am still in that phase of healing i mentioned above.
Whenever i say “LIONESS” in my posts, it’s my appreciation to that person who understands where i am coming from & why.
Appreciated for picking/dropping me at airport.
Appreciated for taking me out to my favourite brunch.
Appreciated for buying me a pair of white vans kicks after watching squid games.
Appreciated for helping me with carwash.
Appreciated for typing my thesis.
Very few people come with a clean heart & no stupid outlandish expectations.
So LIONESS, Like your favourite alphabet is T, my favourite word is “APPRECIATION”.
Rest all are a LEO-LEO thing i guess.😜
Every relationship of your life is a major investment of time & energy.
Take your sweet time, that says all about who’s who.
Tap OUT..🤗
Enjoying the feeling of feeling happy is the key to self-love.
All comes from own achievements & actions towards own desires.
(This song got nothing to do with the post above. I got zero interest in Bollywood movies/songs, but my love for Punjabi songs is not a secret. It’s a good one by Mickey Singh.)
Forgive yourself for the desires you judged harshly.
Forgive yourself for indulging in things that took up your time but didn’t fulfill you.
Forgive yourself for declaring yourself as someone you’re not.
Forgive yourself for your chosen avenues of negative expression.
Forgive yourself for all the times you didn’t add value to others.
Forgive yourself for what you discovered about yourself that you didn’t like.
Forgive yourself for whatever ugliness you saw in yourself.
Forgive yourself for not correcting what you think you should have.
Forgive yourself for the parts you couldn’t respect.
Forgive yourself for all these judgements.
Forgive yourself for not being able to forgive yourself before.
Forgive yourself for how you chose to survive.
Foregiveness is making a conscious decision to live in the present, even if the past still hurts.
(This paragraph got nothing to do with the post above. Everything that’s real takes longer to build, the longer it stands & the longer it takes to break. Chrissi you dumb girl, keep on forgiving TAP. I can’t accept your gift till next year. Let me fix myself first, right now i am the wrong one. Doors to my house are open for my people every Saturday, please join. Love outta respect. Truth is trust.)
Tap OUT..✌️
If you play small, you stay small.
It’s okay to want more, do more, be more.
When i say “I AM SOLD TO MY DESIRES & MY DESIRES ARE MY PURPOSE”, few friends always misunderstand my words. But i can get you, DESIRE as a word is heavily miscalculated. Be calm, just sit down once for a while & have a heart to heart conversation with yourself about what kind of life you want. Then you can logically figure out what are your dreams, goals & desires. That’s a huge relaxation to our humanly problems.
Amazing things happen when you get honest with yourself and start doing what you love, what makes you happy. Your life literally slows down. You stop wishing for the weekend. You stop merely looking forward to special events. You begin to live in each moment and you start feeling like a human being. You just ride with what is life, a feeling of contentment and joy. You move fluidly, steadily, calm and grateful. A veil is lifted, and a whole new perspective is born. LIVE TO FETCH YOUR PURPOSE. LIFE IS FUN, LET IT BE.
Tap OUT..💪
YOU STILL HAVE A LOT OF TIME TO MAKE YOURSELF BE WHAT YOU WANT.
-S. E Hinton.
You can’t let people scare you.
You can’t go your whole life trying to please everyone else.
You can’t go through life worried about what everyone else is going to think.
Whether it’s your hair, clothes, what you have to say, how you feel, what you believe and what you have, you can’t let the judgment of others stop you from being you.
Because if you do, you’re no longer you. You’re someone everyone else wants you to be. It’s just a waste of your precious time because you aren’t getting this life again.
DO WHAT YOUR HEART DESIRES & HEAD PERMITS. BE YOURSELF.
Tap OUT..🤗
YOUR CURRENT SITUATION IS GIVING YOU AN OPPORTUNITY TO RE-EVALUATE WHAT YOU WANT.
-Tashabee.
DECIDE WHAT KIND OF LIFE YOU REALLY WANT. AND THEN, SAY NO TO EVERYTHING THAT ISN’T THAT.
So it’s valentine’s day today & even though i don’t believe in such bullshit, i am still writing a tiny post to elaborate my opinion on this nonsense. Have you ever seen a kid who’s super excited for christmas!?! You must have seen, 99% kids are like that. And then there is rest 1% weird type of 4 year old kids who say “SANTA IS FAKE”. The second weird one’s parents already know their kid will definitely become a engineer/doctor/scientist someday. Now i am coming back to topic of valentine’s day. Just like SANTA CLAUS was marketed by rich newyorkers as the face of CHRISTMAS, Valentine’s day is another such gimmick which exists in our society as if it’s a ritual. And yes i don’t believe in it.
What bugs me the most is this question; “TAP, WHAT’S YOUR TYPE!!”. Almost all girls i know in my university have asked this question to me. Some have asked out of curiosity, some asked for romantic reasons. My answer is; I don’t have any type. I don’t have certain set of criterias to pick a girl whom i wanna date. The reason behind it is; i never wanted a girl just because i want a relationship, but I definitely want a relationship if i want someone specific. I am hella slow in such matters. I love taking my sweet time. Still pretty much in love with my bank account. But soon or sooner i definitely want to belong to the one whom i am sold to. Very few of my friends know whom i am mentioning when i say ZK, It’s still a work in progress. A truthful consistent person is the burning desire, that’s all & that’s enough. For those who believe; Happy valentine’s day.
Tap OUT..😘
Most of the time we humans hold ourselves back from pursuing our dreams because we care about the people who hurt us & moreover we consider their words in a negative emotional way. Let me talk about both and why so!!
How many times you thought “My dreams are impossible!!”. If your goals/dreams are practical/realistic enough to be pursued, never give up on them. It’s only you who knows own strengths & weaknesses. Don’t let someone else’s negative experience stop you from going after what you want. Follow your heart and take risks, don’t stick with the safe and easy choices just because you’re afraid of taking a leap of faith. Your dreams are not impossible and they should be bigger than your fears. Sticking to your vision will eventually beat to progress and yield the results you desire.
Sometimes we do feel “I am stuck with people who hurt me”. Never entertain those who walk over your sanity. Your life is precious and too short not to look out for yourself. Have enough self-respect & self-love to distance yourself from those who constantly mistreat you and bring you down. It may be tough and hurt for a while but everything will be ok, more importantly you’ll be ok. Walking away from a bad situation doesn’t make you weak, it makes you strong. Leaving means acknowledging that it’s not about them seeing your worth, but you realizing your own worth.
Tap OUT..💪
Keep your thoughts positive because your thoughts become your words. Keep your words positive because your words become your behavior. Keep your behavior positive because your behavior becomes your habits. Keep your habits positive because your habits become your values. Keep your values positive because your values become your destiny.
– Mahatma Gandhi.
Friends usually ask me “How you manage to stay motivated whole day!?” Never changed my answer & i never will. My answer is; MY PEOPLE & MONEY. I am a strong believer in material growth, MONEY is always a priority. Now that i have mentioned this word “PRIORITY”; the earlier you will understand your priorities, the quicker your path to happiness will start opening in a big way.
Make a goal which can keep you awake with a smile, which can make you the best worker for yourself, at the end it must make you enough tired so that you can get a cozy happy sleep like a baby. No need of motivation from someone else. In my case, i am just excited towards everything new, i read a lot, i learn a lot, i read ton of news and articles on finance or tech, most of the time i keep on learning something from skillshare. They all help me remain positive to see “WHAT’S NEXT!!”. The day you will figure out your way towards priorities & desires, that’s it. At the end i must mention; “MOTIVATION IS AN EXAGGERATED WORD. I AM JUST AN EXCITED PERSON. I WANNA SEE WHAT TOMORROW IS PLANNING TO OFFER ME. THAT EXCITED ME ALWAYS REPRESENTS AN EXCITING PERSON IN ME TO THE WORLD”.
Tap OUT..💪
How real is FOMO!?! Believing others are better off. The common saying “the grass is greener on the other side” can feel painfully true, especially in our modern world of influencers, social media and the fear of missing out associated to it. It’s common for people to present their lives online in a way that depicts only the best, the most glamorous pets, exotic trips, luxury purchases, a wild success. But sometimes glamour is entirely false, some people are more likely to lie online than in person. Although some may lie to protect their privacy, many invent stories to convince their followers that they’re living a spectacular life when they’re entirely ordinary. This delusion often convinces others that they are somehow failing at the game of life. Even worse, it causes self-blame and feelings of isolation. Know that most people don’t have it as good as they make it seem on social media.
Everyone experiences struggle and imperfection. If they say otherwise, they’re lying. Let go of the belief that you’re worse off than other people. Having what you think other people possess is not the solution. That desire is often a source of unhappiness. You are amazing on your own, your only competition & motivation should be a better version of you.
Tap OUT..🤗
The starting point of all achievement is DESIRE, keep this constantly in mind. Weak desires bring weak results, just a small fire makes a small amount of heat.
– Napoleon Hill.
This is just a random fun video on Donald Dump which got nothing to do with the post above. Watch it at your own risk. Have a blissful sunday ahead.
Business is a game of PRICES and Relationship is a game of VALUES. We always want something EXPENSIVE or someone VALUABLE.
If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, pick right company and go together.
(African Proverb)
It’s not about having the skill to do something. It’s about the will, desire & commitment to be your best.
– Robert Hernandez.
In my experience there is only one motivation, and that is DESIRE. No reasons or principles contain it or stand against it.
– Jane Smiley.
The starting point of all achievement is DESIRE.
– Napoleon Hill
I swear I love money over anything/anyone, & I am brutally honest about it. But there is always a but in everything we are going through. “NEVER DO SOMETHING IF THE SUCCESS IS TOO EASY”, I learnt this lesson after getting my butt kicked twice. Can’t negotiate that in me.
I love the journey of earning & fetching something with time. That’s the reason I don’t believe in lottery or betting. There is nothing called easy success, easy money or easy relationship. If it’s easy, anyone can have it. If anyone can have it, I don’t want it. DESIRES are expensive by nature which makes them DESIRABLE. You have to work & earn it.
Tap OUT..👍
No matter how clearly I try to convey, there is always a group of few who struggle to understand my stance on SUCCESS. I am not running behind some sort of success. It’s just that if I want something & I run behind it till I get it. I enjoy the ride of feeding my desires. So this “SUCCESS” is not my strength here. I am not trying to win something. Some hardships & failures are there, they will remain the same. My strength is “I can’t give up my desires & I love to cross my comfort zone for them”.
You are upto you. Make yourself. Make your money. Make your story. Make your destiny. Make your pumpkin pie (Halloween & Thanksgiving coming).😋😜 At the end it’s all the same if you are TRULY HAPPY.
Tap OUT..💪
Truthful people lift souls, that’s the reason you feel desired around them. On the other hand, every LIAR is a low-key narcissist who works only towards getting some instantaneous petty favor.
Once you spot/catch a liar, next step is a complete disconnection from that piece of shit. I talk about liars a lot, because i have worked my way out from everything/everyone that wasn’t serving my good. You too should do the same. Keep reminding yourself “We live life to vibe & grow”.
Tap OUT..💪
Keep your desire to succeed above your fear to fail. SUCCESS is nothing but doing what you love to do between you wake up at morning & hit bed at night.
Financial freedom is not about stacking money or possessions, it’s about understanding your wants & making little more than you desire.
Your TRUTH & ways of interacting your thoughts makes you desirable instead of a random somebody.
Your desires are controlled by your heart & wants are controlled by mind. Wanna be a winner in both, just flip it.
OK. Enough of this confusion. When your blood is connected to a land called INDIA; you only get two options for college, either you become a doctor or an engineer. I failed to get good ranks for medicines, so I did engineering & became an ENGINEER. Now don’t ask me why.
After that I did a job with an MNC for a year. Felt like I want something else. I had enthusiasm towards business skills, so desires pushed me for an MBA. Private education is all about money. You can say; I bought myself an MBA degree with adequate amount efforts/studies because I desperately wanted it. Now I am busy with business which is fulfilling my desires & helping me earn more than what I spend. Next step is little bigger than what I am, stop questioning & keep watching me.
Tap OUT..😘
Whatever tiny things I have, they all are earned with tons of efforts & work behind it. If it’s easy, I just don’t want it.
Who desires easy cheap available things/People in life anyways!!
Right now your money/qualifications/lifestyle/savings may not be good enough as you want, still it’s OK. Everything has it’s own time. But if you don’t have a plan towards getting what you don’t have or what you want, you aren’t exploring your WORTH.
Without DESIRES and DEMANDS from self for a better tomorrow, we are nothing. You are born HUMAN for a reason, BE YOU.
Tap OUT..💪
If it’s not forever, it’s not LOVE. That’s how I see LOVE. And relationships can be hatched without misusing that four letter word. In case you are coming towards me, I will test the hell out of you & make you prove your want/need/desire/love towards me a million times. Then maybe I will call it quits if it’s not making me feel that positive vibe of togetherness. Bad will work, lie will not. Be you.
Friends think I am a tough nut to crack. Actually I am the smoothest emotional wreck. You can touch my core in the tiniest possible moment. Tricky part: I can sense body language & voice modulation changes, bit psychic you can say. One lie & you fuck your chances to be with me. Do everything right or wrong, I will support you & let you own me easily once you follow your Truth.
My LOVE story will rise from TRUST & abundance. I will enter a relationship someday I feel that exact same vibe of a equal me, equal respect I mean.
Tap OUT..😘
Who said I am not in love!!
I love that LOVE we shared.
Yes i am happily single. My heart is open & no occupancy I swear. Now a days I found love in expanding myself further, weirdly self-invested. Loving each day of my life & leaving no pages unturned where I can find money or happiness.
Someday I will fire wrath & bring it all alive the love/life that I wished, I don’t give a fuck who’s ready or who’s waiting for me. Let karma roll; I am always True to myself, all happiness will be mine or else I will buy it if something goes up-down again. Taking my sweet time to convince myself that “no-one around is as bad as I am, someone someday will match my enthusiasm truly”.
Not looking for my next one, allowing time for the last one to check in. In a mood to turn each day a day of winning something, in a mood to turn motivation into moments, in a mood to ramp up all dreams into desire & smash all one by one, in a bad mood to live life of a 13 me again, in a mood to become the baddest asshole I was, in a mood to bark & spark love someday, in a mood to become a stronger person before even thinking about happily ever after together, in a mood to grow bigger together.
Some blessings are following & who is giving up!! Even if time is fluid, I will ride it soon or sooner. Not running away this time, reaping everything what’s mine..
Tap OUT..💪
We people get worried about love & stop living our life. Yes, your heart will break, someone will come to join it each & every time. Don’t worry about that, you are secured by your almighty if you are true. Stay happy & stay sorted. God made you this way to realize your demands, desires & self worth, feel the emotions related to your strength or sorrow.
You need to flush out negativity inside which is resulted due to codependency with someone you love. Cheer up, breathe, put yourself in front of you, evaluate yourself, re-evaluate your situation, commit to yourself towards being a better you.
Love will always find it’s way to Love through love..
Everyone wants success & financial independence, but why no-one dares stepping towards it?
Life will not give what you want. It isn’t just talent, brainpower or education.
If you want success/fulfillment or happiness, you gotta show up, demand it for yourself & strive to reach there. It’s all about that desire & determination. Keep that hunger in you to be the you, you dreamt eyes open.
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