Tag: decision

Tru2Day1666

An unhealed person can find offense in pretty much anything someone does.
A healed person understands that the actions of others have nothing to do with them.

Each day you get to decide which one you will be.

Tru2Day1658

What is the secret of success?
– Right decisions.

How do you make right decisions?
– Experience.

How do you gain experience?
– Wrong decisions.

Tru2Day1616

Throw away the idea that you need to pause your life until you are fully healed; this is a different way of being attached to perfection.
Progress happens when you make better decisions in the midst of living.
You can simultaneously heal your past while being open to the present.

True me.. Tap-1498..

If tou truly want something, you will make it happen.
Do not blame the conditions.
We create our own destiny.
It is we who decided what we can and can not do.
Work hard and put your heart and soul into your work.
Use every second to think about how you can achive your goal.
Focus on your own stuff.

Everybody walks a diffrent path.
Do not try to walk someone else’s path because that is not going to work.

And most important;
Do what you love.
Follow what moves you.
Be you & work on what you want.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1491..

6 RULES TO KICK ASS IN LIFE:

1. Know that your only competition is who you were yesterday.
2. Earn, save and invest before you spend.
3. Avoid negative people, life is too short.
4. If you don’t go after what you want, you will never get it.
5. See failure as a beginning, not an end.
6. Our habits decide our future.

Tap..✌️

Tru2Day1506

Be firm about your choices right now.
Don’t go backwards to habits and situations that weren’t helping you evolve.
You have to keep reminding yourself why you even decided to move forward.

Stay positive about what’s to come by being consistent with your change now.

Tru2Day1478

Stop forcing yourself to live up to other people’s expectations.
Stop going through life making decisions based on other people’s desires, especially as they don’t have to live with the results of those choices.

Own your life.
It’s your soul, your mind, your heart and your body.

True me.. Tap-1355..

While you may not have control over everything that happens in life, you do have control over your mindset and perspective.

You can choose to think that you’re down on your luck, or you decide to see that you are being set-up for something extraordinary.

You can choose to focus on all the chaos happening around you, or you decide to look for the good that is emerging.

You can choose to live in a state of victimhood, or you can decide to live from the stance of a champion.

Make the decision that come what may, this new year is going to be good and beautiful and something magical, not because the world’s problems finally faded away, but because you chose to start changing your perspective.

ONLY YOU CAN CONTROL YOUR PERSPECTIVE.

Tap OUT..✌️

Tru2Day1435

Unsuccessful people make decisions based on their current situation.
Successful people make decisions based on where they want to be.

My suggestion is; Don’t give suggestions unless you are successful in important aspects of life.

Tru2Day1426

Forgive yourself for the bad decisions,
for the times you lacked understanding,
for the choices that hurt others and yourself.
Forgive yourself for being young and reckless.
These experiences are vital lessons.
And what matters most right now is your willingness to grow from them.

– Marcandangel.

True me.. Tap-1297..

When we look up at the sky and see the moon so far away, it seems impossible and unfathomable that a human being has actually been up there.
But we live in a world where man has walked on moon.
It wasn’t some magic.
It’s just a dream & a decision to do.
Mankind made it happen and it all started with a dream followed by a decision.

Believe in the impossible today.
It may not be impossible after all.
What’s your dream?

Most things that we dream about are actually achievable.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-1263..

It’s easy to look back and question decisions you have made in the past, but it’s unfair to punish yourself for them.
You can’t blame yourself for not knowing back then what you know now.
And the truth is you made each decision for a reason, based on how you were feeling at the time.

As we grow up we learn and we evolve.
Maybe the person you are now would have done things differently back then, or maybe you are the person you are now, because of the decisions you made back then.
Trust your journey, it’s all going to make sense soon.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-1221..

There are people in this life who will take advantage of you and tell you who they think you are.
It’s upto you what to do with that information.
The moment you let people make decisions on your behalf, you have given up your dignity.
But you can always get it back as long as you remember to connect with your higher power.

Don’t let anyone take advantage or manipulate you.
Remind yourself that you’re entitled to the life and love you deserve.
Remember, no one can make you feel inferior without your consent.

Tap OUT..✌️

Tru2Day1311

Unsuccessful people make decisions based on their current situations.
Successful people make decisions based on where they want to be.

True me.. Tap-1205..

While you may not have control over everything that happens in life, you do have control over your mindset and perspective.
You can choose to think that you’re down on your luck, or you decide to see that you are being set-up for something extraordinary.
You can choose to focus on all the chaos happening around you, or you decide to look for the good that is emerging.
You can choose to live in a state of victimhood, or you can decide to live from the stance of a champion.

Make the decision that come what may, you are going to be good and beautiful and something magical.
Not because the world’s problems finally faded away, but because you chose to start changing your perspective.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-1200..

DON’T COMPARE your actual self to a hypothetical self.
Don’t drown in a sea of ‘what if’s.
Don’t clutter your mind by imagining other versions of you, in parallel universes, where you made different decisions.
The internet age encourages choice and comparison, but don’t do this to yourself. Theodore Roosevelt said; Comparison is the thief of joy.
You are The you.
Past is the past.

The only way to make a better life is from inside the present.
To focus on regret does nothing but turn that very present into another thing you will wish you did differently.
Accept your own reality.
Be human enough to make mistakes.
Be human enough not to dread the future.
Be human enough to be, well, enough.
Accepting where you are in life makes it so much easier to be happy for other people without feeling terrible about yourself.

Tap OUT..✌️

Tru2Day1285

Unsuccessful people make decisions based on their current situations.
Successful people make decisions based on where they want to be.

Tru2Day1280

Congratulations on breaking out of that dysfunctional pattern.
Three years ago, you wouldn’t have made the decisions you’re making now.
Celebrate your growth.

True me.. Tap-1002..

I’ve learned that no matter what happens, or how bad it seems today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow.
I’ve learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she handles these three things: a rainy day, lost luggage, and tangled christmas tree lights.
I’ve learned that regardless of your relationship with your parents, you’ll miss them when they’re gone from your life.
I’ve learned that making a “living” is not the same thing as making a “life”.
I’ve learned that life sometimes gives you a second chance.
I’ve learned that you shouldn’t go through life with a catcher’s mitt on both hands; you need to be able to throw something back.
I’ve learned that whenever I decide something with an open heart, I usually make the right decision.
I’ve learned that even when I have pains, I don’t have to be one.
I’ve learned that every day you should reach out and touch someone.
People love a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back.
I’ve learned that I still have a lot to learn.

I’ve learned that people will forget what you said,
people will forget what you did,
but people will never forget how you made them feel.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-989..

Celebrate your independence today and the fact that you can make your own decisions.
It’s impossible to please everybody around you but it is always possible to make the right choices to please yourself.
In the end that’s all you can worry about.
Tell yourself; “I choose my path”.
But also remember to remain in sync with your life.
It’s all about your INTENTIONS & CONSISTENCY.

Don’t make decisions based on other peoples influences or advice.
Listen without retaliating.
Think & do things without being indecisive.

You can’t live your life for other people.
You’ve got to do what’s right for you, even if it hurts some people you love.
-NICHOLAS SPARKS.

Tap OUT..✌️

Tru2Day1077

Throw away the idea that you need to pause your life until you are fully healed; this is a different way of being attached to perfection.
Progress happens when you make better decisions in the midst of living.
You can simultaneously heal your past while being open to the present.

True me.. Tap-966..

There are plenty of moments in our lives when we struggle with making decisions, whether they’re small or large.
Our heart can be telling us one thing, our head another, and our friends something entirely different.
It’s important to weigh all options, then do what your heart truly believes is right.
Don’t just do what your friends are telling you to do, you must make your own decisions based on your intuition.

Next time you have to make a decision, weigh all the options, especially those of the heart, while measuring the logical side in head.

Only do what your heart tells you to.
-PRINCESS DIANA.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-960..

It’s easy to look back and question decisions you have made in the past, but it’s unfair to punish yourself for them.
You can’t blame yourself for not knowing back then what you know now, and the truth is you made each decision for a reason, based on how you were feeling at the time.

As we grow up we learn and we evolve.
Maybe the person you are now would have done things differently back then, or maybe you are the person you are now, because of the decisions you made back then.
Trust your journey, it’s all going to make sense soon.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-953..

You can rise up from anything.
You can completely recreate yourself.
Nothing is permanent.
You’re not stuck.
You have choices.
You can think new thoughts.
You can learn something new.
You can create new habits.
Your consistent approach decides your fate.
All that matters is that you decide today and never look back.
SUCCESS is nothing but a DECISION to stay away from indecisiveness & inconsistency.

Godspeed lioness.
Copying some steps from my rulebook is an easy step. Even i learnt from best of the best in June-2019 while building my athleisure clothing brand. I thought this girl is a noob, she will need another year to understand business & brand positioning. But you surprised me once again.
Going exclusive to ASOS with a new clothing brand is a big deal. My people’s success contributes to a major chunk of my happiness.
Keep slaying. You know it’s all about love & respect.

Tap OUT..🤗

True me.. Tap-952..

This is your life.
You have everything you need inside you to live the life you have always dreamed of.
Take all that you have learned and experienced and create your own reality.
The beautiful part about life is that if you don’t like where you are, there’s always a new moment and a new day to start again.

Make smart, educated decisions.
Encourage yourself to make the choices today for the future you want tomorrow.
You can steer yourself any direction you choose.
(Not my words.)

Tap OUT..💪

True me.. Tap-925..

When we choose to focus on what we have we are instantly happier people.
Gratitude is said to be the emotion that is most connected with happiness.
Even the wealthiest person in the world can think of things they don’t have.
It’s not about accumulating more things; it’s about focusing on the joy and beauty in your life by focusing on what is great in your life.

Don’t decide happiness based on your material possessions, but on the love in your life today.

Be thankful for what you have; you’ll end up having more.
If you concentrate on what you don’t have, you will never, ever have enough.
-OPRAH WINFREY.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-920..

While you may not have control over everything that happens in life, you do have control over your mindset and perspective.

You can choose to think that you’re down on your luck, or you decide to see that you are being set-up for something extraordinary.

You can choose to focus on all the chaos happening around you, or you decide to look for the good that is emerging.

You can choose to live in a state of victimhood, or you can decide to live from the stance of a champion.

Make the decision that come what may come, this new year is going to be good and beautiful and something magical, not because the world’s problems finally faded away, but because you chose to start changing your perspective.

ONLY YOU CAN CONTROL YOUR PERSPECTIVE.
(Not my words.)

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-903..

You attract what you want and you create what you think about.
Act like the person you want to become.
Think like the person you want to become.
Nothing changes in your life unless you make the decision and commitment to change it.
Hold an image in your mind of how you wish to see yourself living.
Visualize it every day and you will unconsciously start to do things that will move you towards all your dreams, goals, and desires.
YOU ATTRACT WHAT YOU BECOME.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I am excited for PEACEMAKER. Watch the trailer till the end, only my university bitches know there’s an unconventional word in this trailer i use often. OK not often, a lot.)

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True me.. Tap-889..

There are people in this life who will take advantage of you and tell you who they think you are.
It’s up to you what you do with that information.
The moment you let people make decisions on your behalf you have given up your dignity.
But you can always get it back as long as you remember to connect with your higher power.

The people who know the least about you always have the most to say.
Don’t let anyone take advantage or manipulate you.
Remind yourself that you’re entitled to the life and love you deserve.

Tap OUT..💪

Tru2Day980

Be firm about your choices right now.
Don’t go backwards to habits and situations that weren’t helping you evolve.
You have to keep reminding yourself why you even decided to move forward.
Stay positive about what’s to come by being consistent with your change now.

True me.. Tap-765..

Forgive yourself for the desires you judged harshly.
Forgive yourself for indulging in things that took up your time but didn’t fulfill you.
Forgive yourself for declaring yourself as someone you’re not.
Forgive yourself for your chosen avenues of negative expression.
Forgive yourself for all the times you didn’t add value to others.
Forgive yourself for what you discovered about yourself that you didn’t like.
Forgive yourself for whatever ugliness you saw in yourself.
Forgive yourself for not correcting what you think you should have.
Forgive yourself for the parts you couldn’t respect.
Forgive yourself for all these judgements.
Forgive yourself for not being able to forgive yourself before.
Forgive yourself for how you chose to survive.
Foregiveness is making a conscious decision to live in the present, even if the past still hurts.

(This paragraph got nothing to do with the post above. Everything that’s real takes longer to build, the longer it stands & the longer it takes to break. Chrissi you dumb girl, keep on forgiving TAP. I can’t accept your gift till next year. Let me fix myself first, right now i am the wrong one. Doors to my house are open for my people every Saturday, please join. Love outta respect. Truth is trust.)

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True me.. Tap-733..

I may regret many things:
Decisions I made.
Decisions I didn’t make.
Feelings I expressed.
Feelings I suppressed.
People I loved.
People I rejected.
People I respected.
People I neglected.
People I listened to.
People I confided in.
Promises I made.
Promises I believed.
Questions I asked.
Answers I gave.
Words I said.
Words I didn’t say.

At the end reflecting is essential, but regret should not ground you in the past.
It should make you grateful that you have a conscious mind that realizes what is right and wrong.
It should give you strength to wisely use your present to make your future better.
It should free you.
If you don’t stop judging yourself, putting yourself down, believing that this is as good as you can be, then you’ve closed doors for yourself before they even appear in front of you.
You’ve become a slave of your past & you aren’t allowed to.
Don’t expect to be who you want to be without being true to yourself and believing in yourself.
If you don’t believe in yourself, don’t expect anyone to believe in you.
If you don’t see the best in yourself, don’t expect anyone to see the best in you.
When you close a door; do you expect back and stare at it and say, “I can’t leave because this door is still closed in front of me”?
Think about it.
Take small steps consistently, but with good vibe & high energy.
Be True to Yourself.

Tap OUT..💪

Tru2Day824

Everything you do is based on the choices you make.
It’s not your parents, your past relationships, your job, the economy, the weather, an argument or your age that is to blame.
You and only you are responsible for every decision and choice you make, period.

True me.. Tap-675..

Don’t compare your actual self to a hypothetical self.
Don’t drown in a sea of ‘what if’s.
Don’t clutter your mind by imagining other versions of you in parallel universes, where you made different decisions.

The internet age encourages choice and comparison, but don’t do this to yourself.
‘Comparison is the thief of joy’.
You are you. The past is the past. The only way to make a better life is from inside the present. To focus on regret does nothing but turn that very present into another thing you will wish you did differently. Accept your own reality. Be human enough to make mistakes. Be human enough not to dread the future. Be human enough to be, well enough. Be honest while appreciating or asking forgiveness. Accepting where you are in life makes it so much easier to be happy for other people without feeling terrible about yourself. (Not my words)

That’s your answer to “HOW TO BE HAPPY!!”. Being happy is easy & simple. Life is fun, let it be.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I have said it before & saying it again. I am a big fan of SACHA BARON COHEN. If you haven’t seen Ali G indahouse, you will not get it.)

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True me.. Tap-642..

Forgive yourself,
for the bad decisions,
for the times you lacked understanding,
for the choices that hurt others and yourself.
for being young and reckless.

These experiences are what matters most right now. These are vital lessons & your willingness to grow from them.

Life is choice, all day everyday. Who we talk to, where we sit, what we say, how we say it. And our lives become defined by our choices. It’s as simple and as complex as that. And as powerful.

(Not my words).

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True me.. Tap-620..

MOST DIFFICULT YET COMFORTING THINGS TO ACCEPT ABOUT LIFE.

1. Everyone is insecure about something. It’s not just you.

2. You will never be 100% sure about decisions you made. But always make a decision because it’s better to go back and fix it than to never make it at all.

3. There is always someone better than you. So there’s no point to compare.

4. There’s nothing in life you can really control except your own thoughts and actions. So always hope for the best and prepare for the worst.

5. Nothing lasts forever. Things change. people change. And YOU can change anytime too.

6. Life is not a fairy tale. That’s why it’s always exciting and you’ll never be bored.

7. Hard work doesn’t guarantee success. But That’s what makes it challenging & fun.
(Not my words).

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Shared it because i love knowing more about corporate monopoly.)

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True me.. Tap-589..

If you work too much on something even if it’s on yourself, you might feel like “I have way too much to lose”. When people look back, they often regret the things they didn’t do much more than the things they did.

It’s better to look back on your life in awe at how exciting it was instead of thinking about the what ifs and what could have been. Maybe that means you’ll make a few mistakes and wrong decisions along the way but it’s better than having regrets and broken Dreams later.

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True me.. Tap-581..

Someway or other we all have this attitude of “Discounting the positives”. I am talking about not taking responsibility for the good things of our life. It’s a form of negative bias in thinking. This thought pattern is different than ignoring or overlooking the positivity in our life. Instead when good things happen, you might believe that it was luck or explain it away a circumstance. When you don’t acknowledge that your success is yours, you’ll start to feel a lack of control over your life.

If you fail to recognize how your hard work, good decision and skills help you accomplish your goals, your levels of motivation will decrease over time. This is known as learned helplessness. Cherish yourself with some positive vibe time after time.

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Tru2Day548

Losers are always a product of their circumstances & winners are always a product of their DECISIONS. And Money is a decisive person’s game.

I am a fan of everything where there is money, it can be a news/an article or a video like this. Whatever Kevin O’Leary talks about Money always packs tons of sense. He is known as Mr.Wonderful for a reason. If you are in your 20s or 30s, these YouTube video reactions he does with CNBC MAKE IT could be entertaining, amazingly informative yet educational for you no matter where you live or what you do for living.

True me.. Tap-195..

If your decisions are working towards your priorities, you are PRODUCTIVE. Or else you are just BUSY for nothing.

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True me..Tap-170..

I never take decisions at one go. If it involves someone else, I always wait till other person comes out of funk & gets my point. Too much of anger/sadness or happiness, all are barriers in decision making process.

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True me.. Tap-152..

Fuck you if you have the audacity to judge me behind my back. I may have 100, I reveal 10. Because it’s my call what to show. If you have dealt with me during my high school/engineering/university days, please don’t hate me for my past behaviour. You know what I was going through.

I never have/had a backup plan in my life. Never took impulsive decisions. Still I am asking for a FORGIVENESS for my part of mess & a tiny invitation for a coffee with full monty, let’s mend the shits went wrong. I think twice before my actions, that’s why I have no reasons to rethink after my actions. Doesn’t matter you treated me good or bad, I am welcoming you open arms with an offer of friendship. We can’t change the past. Why don’t you ring my number instead of calling everyone & saying you are SORRY for what you did with me! I am still using the same number since 2009. My phone will be general after 5pm weekdays. Don’t be afraid. Let’s catch up.

(Targeted towards my mate C*****. Stop stalking & start talking please.)

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True me.. Tap-102..

Indecisiveness causes insecurities. Insecurities cause self-doubt. You start expecting the worst, allowing yourself to take every wrong step & sabotage own growth in life.

Solution:
Find a motive to live. Set a goal. Take decisions: stay stuck to it. If you can’t find reasons behind your actions/words/moves, don’t do it because they are bullshit. Be True to yourself first, everyone will acknowledge with time. Investment in self growth gratifies self-respect and self-esteem. Be a TRUE you.

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True me.. Tap-86..

If we want a kite to soar high, we need to loosen our grip on the strings that’s in our hands. How high that kite flies depends on how much freedom you can give! The more we let it loose, the higher it can soar.
“Just like caring someone, we need to let the other person explore, live a life away from us for a while, do things without us and make own decisions. This will help them discover their own identity and their own power. This will also allow them to fulfill their own KARMA, doesn’t matter good or bad. More importantly we need to encourage & support our partner in pursuing a life independent of us. They need to have their own friends, hobbies, activities & properties or belongings.”

Let’s not expect the other person to stick by our side in every aspect of our life all the time. This is the same freedom we seek for ourselves. Remember KARMA is individual. No-one else can help us fulfill it. It’s nothing but nurturing an idea, we need to let our idea go into places even if it’s scary. Let our ideas branch out into things we didn’t initially intend to explore whether it’s entering a new market for our product or partnering with someone that might add to the greatness of our idea. We need to give our ideas a chance to reach it’s full potential.

IF YOU LOVE IT, SET IT FREE. IF IT’S OURS, IT WILL ALWAYS RETURN BACK HOME.
A kite flies as far and high as you let it go.

(Yes taken. Eat read love.)

Tap OUT..❤️

Tap my thoughts.. 12

Till the time you are true, you are going to do something magnificent in this world. Sometimes bad decisions & deceptive people are the only boundary you have to surpass.

True me.. Tap-36..

Life has taught me enough lessons to see/figure out the brighter side of every situation. I know what positivity means. Don’t expect your fuckery to be accepted.

So now when your granny dies, please don’t forget to invite me. I can be your funeral DJ.

To achieve anything from finance, education, career or love; you need a good decision making power & a positive vibration.

Tap OUT.. 😜😘