We are the books we read,
the films we watch,
the music we listen to,
the people we meet,
the dreams we have,
the conversations we engage in.
We are what we take from these.
We are the sound of the ocean,
the breath of fresh air,
the brightest light and the darkest corner.
We are a collective of our experiences.
Tap OUT..✌️
I don’t desire much.
I like sunsets and looking at the sky.
I love eating good food and having conversations with humans.
From time to time I think I sing well in the shower.
I’m just a fan of being alive.
-Sylvester McNutt.
Always be the best person you can be.
Be kind even when you’re tired.
Be understanding even when you’re angry.
Do more than you’re asked, and don’t ask for anything in return.
Don’t silently expect anything either.
Listen when someone talks, and really listen too, stop just thinking of how you’ll reply.
Never jump over a conversation that’s initiated by other person.
Tell people that you love them and that you appreciate them.
Go out of your way to do things for people.
Be the greatest person you can possibly be and when you mess up, make up for it in the next moment or minute or day.
One thing you should never do?
Never spend your time trying to prove to anybody that you’re great, your actions will speak for themselves and we only have limited time on this earth, don’t waste it.
If someone doesn’t see your light, don’t worry.
Like moths, GOOD PEOPLE are attracted to flame and to light, and they will come.
Tap OUT..✌️
8 Ways to calm yourself when life is getting tough:
1. Walk:
Walking helps clear your mind.
It offers you a different perspective.
2. Indulge:
Take a day off to spend a whole day doing exactly what you want.
3. Be Generous:
Give something to a total stranger.
Acts of giving make us feel warm and fuzzy inside.
4. Have a heart to heart conversation with yourself:
Sit in a coffee shop or a busy street/part and soak up your surroundings.
You don’t have to talk to people.
5. Educate yourself:
Research what it is you are experiencing.
Arm yourself with knowledge and the resources to tackle the problems head-on.
6. Preparation:
Write the day’s to-do list the evening before.
7. Strengths:
Write down a list of 20 of your strengths.
8. Keep going forward:
Keep taking small steps, no matter what.
Being stagnant doesn’t serve you.
Tap OUT..✌️
This is your life.
You’re allowed to change your mind.
To change your heart.
You’re allowed to be a different person.
To wake up one day and not want to do the things you’ve been doing all your life.
You’re allowed to love who you want.
To move on from the people who are not good to you.
To let go of anyone without any kind of explanation.
Without any kind of regret.
You’re allowed to make mistakes.
To learn from them.
Or not to learn from them and experience everything all over again.
You’re allowed to forget your past if you want to.
Or to stay in it but you must also understand that this is not how you will grow.
You’re allowed to change careers.
To dress differently.
To chase different dreams.
To change locations, even if, at first, you’re terrified to do so.
You’re allowed to dislike yourself but also allowed to change those same parts you don’t see eye to eye with.
To work on them until you’re completely comfortable with who you are.
This is your life.
Make it count.
Make your own validation.
Your own path.
Your own way of life.
You are enough.
And you are not broken.
You’re a lot stronger than you want to believe.
NOW BREATHE.
Tap OUT…✌️
When we say “STRIVE TO BE SUCCESSFUL”, we must mention SUCCESS in what form!
In my eyes SUCCESS is an amazing form of accomplishment & it can be anything.
You are a good student, that’s a SUCCESS.
You are a good employee who loves & enjoys his/her job, that’s SUCCESS.
You are an entrepreneur or a businessman to a profitable venture, that’s a SUCCESS.
You lost 10kilo body weight in a month for shooting a music video, that’s SUCCESS.
You travelled 41 countries before turning 29, that’s SUCCESS.
You are truthful about what you are, that’s SUCCESS.
You never showed deceptive or inconsistent characteristics, that’s SUCCESS.
You are confident & consistent, that’s SUCCESS.
You never allowed bad times or bad people bring down your vibe, that’s SUCCESS.
You were patient with time to get what you wanted, that’s SUCCESS.
You baked the best sourdough pizza & sugarfree cheesecake for all your 17 friends, that’s a SUCCESS.
You know your bestfriend DEMI is a crybaby & despite that you had a long conversation about all your differences in opinion while grabbing her by waist, even that’s a SUCCESS.
SUCCESS is such a wildly overrated word that makes most people scared to even think about it.
We must use this word “SUCCESS” in our day to day life to feel more fulfilled in our way of living.
AS LONG AS YOU KEEP GOING,
YOU’LL KEEP GETTING BETTER.
AND AS YOU GET BETTER,
YOU GAIN MORE CONFIDENCE.
THAT ALONE IS SUCCESS. (Not my words.)
Consistent effort with clean intentions always leads to SUCCESS.
Tap OUT..✌️
LIFE should be lived with a spirit of adventure, loads of good conversations and a heart ready to celebrate and embrace others.
LOVE your lover, make love under the stars, let spontaneity lead, keep things fresh and say “I LOVE YOU” a million times a day.
SHARE a meal and glass of wine with your tribe.
Don’t be stingy with what’s in your hands.
Be generous with your words, your creativity, your love.
LIVE large, and listen to your convictions.
Don’t let the sun go down on anger.
And be bold even when you feel like retreating to your safe little cave!
Most importantly have faith in almighty with all your heart, mind and soul.
(Not my words.)
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. There’s a reason i can’t watch any series in Netflix, I can’t keep up with something random for ages unless it’s something SciFi or Supernatural & Animation. This song is trippy tho, goes with the kinda movies kicks my mood.)
Tap OUT..😜
Be present.
Make love.
Make coffee.
Avoid small talk.
Embrace conversation.
Buy a plant, water it.
Make your bed.
Make someone else’s bed too.
Have a smart mouth, and quick wit.
Run. Make art. Create.
Swim in the ocean.
Swim in the rain.
Take chances.
Ask questions.
Make mistakes.
Learn.
Know your worth.
Love fiercely.
Forgive quickly.
Let go of what doesn’t make you happy.
Grow.
Be YOU.
Tap OUT..✌️
Everyone wants to know how i tolerate my bestfriend DEMI since past 700 years of our friendship because her attitude is bit aggressive?
Let me answer & YES, it’s a long answer:
We were attending Lory’s birthday party near Cardiff bay. Party was over & some Justin Bieber song started playing. DEMI walked towards me & said; “Rudey, my pussy is drying up because of this shit song. Let’s leave & let’s drive to Tenby. We will talk about everything after reaching the beach.”
We both laughed & i still remember those exact words. And Yes, DEMI still calls me RUDEY because of my rude/angry/grumpy face.
We went through a bad fight before 5 months of that birthday party & i stopped talking to Demi. I decided i must allow her some time to think & respond logically instead of continuing that fight.
Only few friends know Tenby is my favourite coastal town in Britain & i prefer afternoon swimming when i think about relaxing.
DEMI made the right choice with place & timing.
We went swimming & she broke the ice while chilling at beach. We had a long open vivid conversation about everything which went loose.
We were able to come back stronger.
Years gone & our equation keeps getting better with time.
No matter how much i deny, she is the sassiest angel i ever came across. Bestfriends for some good reasons, and i can’t appreciate more.
27-Feb is the date we had a bad fight & we both stopped communication for 5 months. We both still talk about the stupid reason behind it & what we missed in those 5 months. We laugh at each other’s silent treatment. We tease each other about why that was just unnecessary.
We humans always take goodness for granted & our ego stops us from accepting our flaws.
We miss opportunities.
We disrespect good people.
Sometimes we hurt others without even knowing.
We make blunders easily.
But there are very few who accept & cross that path to acknowledge own mess.
Who says it’s easy!!
Very few are ready to talk about what’s wrong in them & why they are ready to change for better instead of farting from mouth “THAT’S HOW I AM”.
I admire those who strive to be a better human.
It’s easy to go vulnerable towards such people who come with clean intentions.
Every equation can be easy, soothing, happening & loving.
JUST CHOOSE THOSE WHO CHOOSE YOU.
Tap OUT..😘
Honest Intentions.
Honest People.
Honest Conversations.
Honest Energy.
Honesty Is Everything.
9 Life cleansing tips:
1. Delete conversations between people you no longer talk to. It’s healthy to let go of the past and not letting yourself dwell on things.
2. Say kind things about people you like. Say good things about yourself. Don’t speak or think about people you don’t like. Stay consistent with your approach towards others & yourself.
3. Look into mirror, you shouldn’t be afraid of facing yourself.
4. Clean sheets make clean sleep make clean minds.
5. Allow yourself time to feel and grow. Don’t be too hard on yourself for trying, you need to vent in order to move on to better times. Even rainy days work towards sunny days.
6. If things don’t work out, stop forcing them. There’s no reason for you to keep working and failing if there’s other places/people for you to excel and be happy.
7. Caress your body & mind. Make yourself feel loved.
8. Running away doesn’t always solve everything. Sometimes, the reason that made you run will still be with you. Focus on freeing yourself before starting anew.
9. A glass of water and a good night’s rest can go a long way.
Tap OUT..✌️
I like meeting new people,
it’s fun but i hardly take them seriously.
Let’s say I like meeting new people,
but i don’t like making new friends.
Most people are inconsistent+liars which bums my mood,
that’s just cheap in my eyes and i struggle to trust such morons.
I already have little over a dozen amazing friends who are my friends since 14th century or past life.
That’s the reason I never miss attention or affection.
Remember:
The only proof your people are real with you is whether they are consistent with their approach towards you. Rest others are there just for nothing – mental drain to be honest.
(Not a secret, i shoot my shots when she’s a peng ting. That’s the best part about being single.😜 There’s a party at Frank’s place next week. Shooting this song at my bestie DEMI, Amanda & Karo’s🍑.)
Next few lines are meant for the one who calls me SONNENPRINZ out of fun & adore.
Sonnenprinz means SUN PRINCE in German.
Meeting someone 7th time in 6 years,
actually 4th time since May-2021.
She drives 5 hours to drop me at airport & airport is just 30km away from my house.😂
I must agree that 45-minute drive from my house to airport is pure banter.
I still don’t know what i am bringing to the table,
but the vibe is 🔥🔥🔥🔥.
I love it when a girl questions or corrects my knowledge on engineering & business.
Basically i love it when someone proves me wrong.
Conversations are healing & communication is a sexy thing.
Tap OUT..✌️
Read it twice.
Most people want to talk because they have to say something.
I appreciate those who want to talk because they want to say something.
(This music video got nothing to do with the post above. I shared because i am liking it since 27/08/2021. Ssssshhhhhhhh.)😀
Staying in a relationship just because you love somebody is not worth it.
Love is not all you need.
Respect is what you need.
Reassurance is what you need.
Communication is what you need.
Heart to heart conversation is what you need.
Happiness is what you need.
Knowing everyday you’re their favorite person is what you need.
Learn to love yourself first, let other one match it.
When someone not so familiar asks me “Ever been in LOVE!?!”.
My answer is: Yeah 3 times.
1. When i woke up at 5.45am today morning just wearing a trunk & i saw my 5 pack abs.
2. When i was getting ready for university, because now i am a PhD research scholar.
3. When i received my bank balance text after buying groceries at Lidl.
I fall in love with myself 3 times everyday.
Two exceptions i must mention;
1. When a kid accidentally says my name TAP after i touch his/her nose while saying TAP TAP TAP.
2. When a cute caucasian girl or a latina mami in a beach with a fine 🍑 approaches me, can’t beat that one.
Special mention; also when my bestie bitch makes coffee for me when i am working from home at her house. This one is dedicated for you Demi.
Done.
Tap OUT..😜
I like people who have a sense of individuality.
I love all humanly expressions, conversations and anything awkward and imperfect, because that’s natural and that’s real.
Show yourself, do not pretend otherwise.
I think it’s beautiful the way you sparkle when you talk about the things you like or you don’t like.
And I like it when people disseminate, when they open up and dare to be completely honest, and when they laugh at the smallest things and then look into eyes.
There’s nothing more soothing when you are yourself and show who you are.
I always appreciate this.
All I can do is, look around, looking at that happy happening scene in my head again, there is warmth and familiar energy that we do not want to say goodbye to.
I am grateful for everything, for those beautiful moments.
Beauty is the way you hold yourself.
It’s how you treat people.
The way you love.
It’s self-acceptance.
Beauty is in your soul.
Tap OUT..🤗
I don’t know if you’re beautiful until after we have a conversation.
– Dau Voire.
Be careful with your words, because once they’ve been said, they can only be forgiven; not forgotten.
You are
the books you read,
the films you watch,
the music you listen to,
the people you meet,
the kind of friends you have,
the work you do,
the dreams you have,
the conversations you engage in,
the way you respond & react.
You are what you take from these.
You are
the sound of the ocean,
the breath of fresh air,
the brightest light and the darkest corner.
You are a collective of every experience you have had in your life. You are every single day. So drown yourself in a sea of knowledge, experience and existence. Let the words run through your veins and let the colours fill your mind. Be a real you.
Tap OUT..🤗
8 THINGS LIFE TEACHES YOU WITH EXPERIENCE:
1. If you are unsatisfied with your situation, face the facts. You can either do something about it or accept it. Everything else is being a crybaby.
2. Starting is the hardest part, but even if you fail you’ll grow just from trying.
3. Judge people based on your interactions with them, not on what other people say.
4. Take responsibility for your mistakes. It is hard but people will respect you for being mature and honest.
5. When you want something, don’t settle for mediocrity. Give it your all.
6. Obsessing over the past is the worst way to waste your time.
7. Try to fix the problem before being pissed off at yourself. Sometimes it’s an easy mistake and you won’t have to kick yourself for making the mistake.
8. Make conversation with whoever you can and whenever you can. You can meet some interesting people.
Tap OUT..💪
How many of you have experienced a relationship where Day1 was amazing with tons of conversation or touches, Day2 became little more wild, Day3 was a shook shot, by Day30 you don’t know the reason why that fucker came to my life & by Day300 that thing is out of your life!!😂
Things which start quickly has nothing more to offer after a short period of time. You need to find a solid stable you before asking for a forever togetherness. Relationships form with building blocks of TIME, TRUTH & TRUST.
Tap OUT..😜
I can write a book on “HOW TO DEAL WITH YOUR BESTIE BITCH!!”. This is the last chapter I guess.
You know who can screw each of my lines easy peasy. Demi, I want to tell you one thing from the bottom of my heart: “sometimes I lose my shit & sometimes I lose my breath, while checking out your ass & attitude.” You are a weirdly ridiculous pain to me & I can’t do anything about that. We always come back to each other where we left. No matter how big of a bitch you are, I adore/appreciate you for being bestie to this asshole named Tap.😘
Two people will understand this text fully.
Sorry Granny. You will always be my third wheel.😉
I am lucky to have a person like you in my life who works as a mirror to my good/bad/up/low. It’s our TRUTH which never lets us go down. Doesn’t matter i am planning to write an article or I am freelancing, I can just stay sorted about a successful outcome when you are around. We are BEST FRIENDS for a reason. Fuck love and romantic bullshit, I don’t need those when you vibe some positivity on my life. And now:
Two major reasons behind my singlehood:
1. I hate liars. People always run away from accepting/speaking their TRUTH. That makes me afraid of going vulnerable emotionally. I can’t TRUST anyone easily.
2. My bestie granny never accepts “I AM SINGLE”.
Can’t explain what we were discussing. My bestie suggested to text with emojis for one whole day. Yes I failed. No flirtatious bullshit yet & nothing cooking. Dumb granny is little crazy, that’s it.😂
We pull each other’s hair & fight like monkeys sometimes. We are best friends & we broke up from that equation just 9 times in past 4 months. Either ways I adore you granny. I know you will always find your way back to me, or else I will reach you. We are together for a reason, I am not gonna stop disturbing you till one of us dies.😜
In a relationship if someone is not moving up with time; just move forward with your life towards your goals & success, with or without them. You need a better you tomorrow. If deserving & you both are meant to be together, the other person will step up to catch up.
Yep i misuse my friends. You are allowed to behave like a dong & my stupid blog will get few more clicks. Guess this sucker’s name & a papa john’s all meat pizza on me.(To CMU boozies)😜
Source: Reny.
Sooooo me. I don’t need to explain this.😜
Sometimes I don’t need permissions, I own a pinch of you both. And I really feel happy when I see you as a couple. There are too less people on this planet like you, who can dare to say; “My first love is my last person & I am madly into her.” You are my man bro. Keep striving towards a happy life together.
Someday in 2050, my first marriage invitation card will reach you granny. People usually don’t know, I always try to get in-flight WiFi just to communicate with my old school fellas.😜
Friends like you make me believe in real people who can stand the test of truth and time. Everyone should experience a friend like you in their lifetime.
(FYI: only person calls me RUDEY, because my facial expressions are somewhat rude, always)
Thanks for being a buddy to Tap..
Love means, we constantly improve communication & consistency, practice patience. It also means just leave when things aren’t equal anymore.
6 signs you aren’t in LOVE:
1. You moved things fast with your partner.
Infatuations thrive on speed, while LOVE takes time to develop. Infatuations live in illusion. Love can survive reality. When you quickly jump into a relationship with someone, you base it off your dreams more than whose really in front of you. Common examples are; thinking about a future with them, lusting after some legit emotions or obsessing about them for anything in your head. All of these are done after months and years of knowing them, that you just slipped/skipped.
2. You expect them to be flawless.
And you get angry or upset over them when you see their true colours. Do you believe in soulmates or fate? It sounds good in theory. But we all know infatuations also need perfection to survive. We need our partners to be consistently well dressed, good with their words or impressive with their accomplishments, meantime you are not giving them space to be honest. Love on the other hand is grounded. When you love someone, you accept their imperfections, you work through the bad and enjoy the good together.
3. You are not comfortable enough around them. Who hasn’t felt self-conscious about saying the wrong thing or making bad decisions/impressions? But when you truly fall in love with someone, that’s when you can let loose and stop caring so much. Those who have a strong sense of love and belonging are more open to vulnerability. Whereas those who feel disconnected with their partners consistently build their walls up. When you don’t share your emotions and struggles nor secrets with someone, you haven’t fully loved.
4. You become more distant.
It’s normal for passion to intensify initially only to taper off, which isn’t gonna help you into a steady relationship. But two people in love will still want to be around each other frequently. That’s another reason people in love plan a life together equally over indulging in rest activities. If you find yourself wanting to get away from your partner more and more these days, often because you’d rather go hang out with your friends or family or cat/dog, then something’s up.
5. Your mind is elsewhere.
With mind soon your heart also follows the same route. Partners who are in love tend to maintain a focus on their counterparts. When you notice the little things about them or express concerns when the two of you run into conflict, it shows you care for them. If you avoid those tough conversations or slip away from arguments, you also stop emphasizing their importance in your life.
6. You developed anxiety.
Have you been experiencing digestive problems or have trouble sleeping/over sleeping? Anxiety can show in this bodily disfunction. You might have something you need to get off your chest and dread how to break the news off to your partner. Remember you can only run away from the truth for so long before it catches upto you.
Forcing LOVE when it’s absent will only hurt the two of you. Both of you deserve to find love elsewhere if it can’t be found in your relationship.
Where do you think you stand on your feelings? Dig deeper, learn yourself with little Truth and self evaluation.
Granny, posted it & you lost again. Can’t let it go this time. My 80 bucks quick & I definitely hate you..🤪
I don’t understand those people who put head in their butthole & expect everything will turn out in their favour. 😂
Some people put a front like they are happy as fuck, without any such gain. If you have sorrow or some emotions inside, pour it out to seem like a legit human.
You can’t catch a fish without hook. Stop damaging your own brain with mindgames.
People may hurt, scold, betray, abuse & break your heart. Stay strong, don’t behave like a pussy. Everything happens for a reason. Your other side is earning their karma by misusing you. At the end someone beautiful is coming to clean all & adore you for what you are. Your Truth & goodness will be rewarded at any cost. Stay positive, vibe right.
Tap OUT..😘
Choices made under anger/guilt/fear/deceit can’t be undone.
Apparently my friends were suggesting to go on a banging spree last time when I told them about breaking up with a person who felt flat on standing on her ground to be a human. I just exited that part because that wasn’t serving me. If a relationship isn’t making you happy; you don’t need to break up from that person, you just need to come out from the bullshit they are trying to sell you. The day they will understand their own value, that person will figure out what’s best for them & you figure out what’s best for you.
In the name of break up, don’t go for stupid rebound sex bullshit. Some even end up in friends with benefits situations which attract more complications. That lowers your standard as a human even further. I make sure there is some standard in a person even when it’s a one night stand. That girl wasn’t even worth it. That was my reason for break up.
(Not gonna mention further details)
Life is like a concert. Don’t go ahead & argue/fight with/for somebody towards any reason good or bad, it’s like you are stopping your own fun by wasting time on someone else who is all about negative vibe.
Since the day you are born till today, all your actions are already written by your almighty. Call it destiny or call it your lifepath.
The only thing you can do is; understand your heart/head’s call & put it under logic to understand the truth, just follow it. You know where to move. Don’t prefer to live under regrets. You deserve happiness & love in your life. Smile..
Tap OUT..🤗
You have to shift through the dirt to find GOLD. You never failed, it’s always a recipe on works for SUCCESS.
I can’t write a blog definitely. I just mention the good & bad situations, i usually come across. (Stolen from my Instagram stories).
While hitting on a girl, be good at being bad. See & learn the difference from this example..
When you use this line “I like your eyes”, that’s cheesy & definitely gonna fail.
But, “I like your eyebrows”, again it’s damn dead cheesy & can get you laid.
Always go the extra mile to express yourself.
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