Tag: control

True me.. Tap-1526..

10 steps to self care;

1. If it feels wrong, don’t do it.
2. Say exactly what you mean.
3. Don’t be a people pleaser.
4. Trust your instincts.
5. Never speak bad about yourself.
6. Never give up on your dreams.
7. Don’t be afraid to say YES or NO.
8. Be equally kind to yourself & others.
9. Let go of what you can’t control.
10. Stay away from drama and negativity.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1523..

Please stop overthinking life like you have to have an answer to every feeling or situation.
That’s not how life works.

We figure it all out by just living.
We figure it all out by fucking up.
We figure it all out by missing an opportunity.
We figure it all out by seeking advice and not taking it.
We learn what’s important and what isn’t.

Sometimes we have no fucking idea what to do and that’s okay.
Always trust your gut and know that everything will work out exactly the way it’s supposed to.
It always does.
Relax, we were never in control anyway.

Tap..✌️

Tru2Day1583

You become a master of your life when you learn how to control where your attention goes.
Value what you give your energy and time to.

True me.. Tap-1453..

No amount of anxiety will change your future.
No amount of regret will change your past.

Peace is found in acceptance:

• Accept imperfection.
• Accept uncertainty.
• Accept the uncontrollable.

You don’t have to understand, tolerate or even forget something, but if you want peace, you must accept it.
Acceptance is peace.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1372..

Do not engage with someone with lower behavior.
You will be dealing with someone who projects,
who has ego problems,
who is self centered,
who lacks empathy,
who is emotionally immature,
who has unhealed wounds of their own,
who has a need to feel superior,
who needs to control others,
and who ends up hurting just about everyone who crosses their path.
Stay away from such people & such behaviour.

Move forward by healing your own hurts.
Improve yourself.
And forget about inviting other’s toxicity into your space.
You are your own responsibility.
Make sure you make yourself a better version of yourself with time.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-1355..

While you may not have control over everything that happens in life, you do have control over your mindset and perspective.

You can choose to think that you’re down on your luck, or you decide to see that you are being set-up for something extraordinary.

You can choose to focus on all the chaos happening around you, or you decide to look for the good that is emerging.

You can choose to live in a state of victimhood, or you can decide to live from the stance of a champion.

Make the decision that come what may, this new year is going to be good and beautiful and something magical, not because the world’s problems finally faded away, but because you chose to start changing your perspective.

ONLY YOU CAN CONTROL YOUR PERSPECTIVE.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-1349..

What CORE VALUES should look like;

• Minding own business.
• Regulating & controlling own emotions in a healthy way.
• Having an open mind.
• Upholding own boundaries.
• Always seeking to evolve.
• Practicing acceptance even when it’s hard.
• Finding the courage to do something about the things you usually complain about.
• Expressing self-compassion and compassion towards others.
• Creating peace for yourself by protecting your energy.

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True me.. Tap-1304..

Please stop overthinking life like you have to have an answer to every feeling or situation.
That’s not how life works.
We figure it all out by just living.
By messing up,
by missing an opportunity,
by seeking advice and not taking it.
We learn what’s important and what isn’t.

Sometimes we have no damn clue what to do, and that’s okay.
Always trust your gut and know that everything works out the way it’s meant to.
It always does.
Relax; we were never in control anyway.

Tap OUT..✌️

Tru2Day1395

Self-control is strength.
Calmness is mastery.

You have to get to a point where your MOOD doesn’t shift based on the insignificant actions of someone else.
CONTROL THE DIRECTION of your life.

True me.. Tap-1285..

12 key defining changes you can make to your life;

1. Protect your vibe.
2. Be an authentic version of yourself.
3. Avoid gossip and drama.
4. Let go of things you can’t control.
5. Avoid comparing yourself to others.
6. Keep your faith larger than your fears.
7. Don’t do anything that doesn’t feel right.
8. Don’t be afraid to spend some time alone.
9. Speak kindly to yourself and to other people.
10. Please yourself before trying to please others.
11. Stay away from people who drain your energy.
12. Ignore any opinions that don’t enhance your life.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-1243..

11 steps to self care;

1. If it feels wrong, don’t do it.
2. Say exactly what you mean.
3. Don’t be a people pleaser.
4. Trust your instincts.
5. Never speak bad about yourself.
6. Never give up on your dreams.
7. Don’t be afraid to say NO or YES.
8. Be kind to yourself.
9. Let go of what you can’t control.
10. Stay away from drama and negativity.
11. Spread light & love.

Tap OUT..✌️

Tru2Day1336

Remember, inner peace begins the moment you take a deep breath and choose not to allow another person or event to control your thoughts.
You are not what happened to you.
You are what you choose to become in this moment.
Let go, breathe, and begin again.

– Marcandangel.

True me.. Tap-1230..

I think sometimes people believe that worrying has some kind of productive purpose.
Worry sucks all your energy and joy out of whatever it you’re doing.
It’s human nature to worry, but when we do constantly, we run into more problems.
It may give you something to do, but you don’t get anywhere.

The next time you worrying about something, try to remember that you aren’t always in control.
Instead, do practical things like make budget or create a schedule.
Be proactive & let go of stress.
After all, it won’t change a thing.

Worry does not empty tomorrow of sorrow; it empties today of it’s strength.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-1190..

We want solutions to PROBLEMS quickly.
But, some problems are beyond our control.
And some problems are solved by tolerating them.

With time,
Situation changes,
Our mindset changes,
Our needs change,
And our maturity level changes.
At some point of time, we don’t even care whether some problems get solved or not.

An intelligent individual is not someone who solves every problem,
but someone who knows which problems to solve and which problems to tolerate.

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True me.. Tap-1169..

Throughout the years I have learned three major things.

1. Sometimes bad things happen to good people.
Sometimes you might think you know someone, you might think they’re on your side but deep down inside they’re not.
Truthful & consistent stay, rest doesn’t.
Pay attention.
Actions without intention means nothing.
And words are just another way to cover up the truth with lies.

2. Almost everything we go through we can’t control.
That means, if it’s yours, then somewhere down the line it’ll return to you.
And if it’s not, then you have to make peace with it and move on.
It’s as simple as that.

3. Letting go is never an easy thing to do.
No matter how many times you’ve rehearsed it, no matter how many times you’ve played it in your head, it never goes as planned and almost always does it sting a little harder than you thought.
(Not my words.)

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-1168..

Things you can CONTROL;

Your wellbeing,
Your beliefs,
Your attitude,
Your thoughts,
Your perspective,
Your choice,
How honest you are,
What books you read,
How often you exercise,
How you treat yourself,
The type of food you eat,
How kind you are to people.
BE AN AUTHENTIC VERSION OF YOURSELF.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Every SNL episodes of Chad are hilarious af. I had to share it. Watch it for fun.)

Tap OUT..✌️

Tru2Day1265

Self-control is strength.
Calmness is mastery.
You have to get to a point where your mood doesn’t shift based on the insignificant actions of someone else.
Don’t allow others to control the direction of your life.
Don’t allow your emotions to overpower your intelligence.

True me.. Tap-1162..

11 steps to self care:

1. If it feels wrong, don’t do it.
2. Say exactly what you mean.
3. Don’t be a people pleaser.
4. Trust your instincts.
5. Never speak bad about yourself.
6. Never give up on your dreams.
7. Don’t be afraid to say YES or NO.
8. Stay away from drama and negativity.
9. Be kind to others & equally kind to yourself.
10. Let go of what you can’t control.
11. Love your people for right reasons.

(This video got something with the post above. If you haven’t heard it, you are definitely missing out some real goodness of life. One of my favourite workout tracks, listen/watch it.)🤣

Tap OUT..🤞

Tru2Day1233

You’ll go through days where you think you have everything under control and you’ll go through days where you have no idea what you’re doing.
Don’t let one bad day get you down.
Self doubt is toxic and doesn’t get you anywhere.
It does nothing but hinder your progress.

Tru2Day1232

Self-control is strength.
Calmness is mastery.
You have to get to a point where your mood doesn’t shift based on the insignificant actions of someone else.
Don’t allow others to control the direction of your life.
Don’t allow your emotions to overpower your intelligence.

True me.. Tap-1123..

Please stop overthinking life like you have to have an answer to every feeling or situation.
That’s not how life works.
We figure it all out by just living.
We learn what’s important and what isn’t
by messing up,
by missing an opportunity,
by seeking advice and not taking it.

Sometimes we have no damn clue what to do, and that’s okay.
Always trust your gut and know that everything works out the way it’s meant to.
It always does.
Relax; we were never in control anyway.

Tap OUT..✌️

Tru2Day1214

Self-control is strength.
Calmness is mastery.
You have to get to a point where your mood doesn’t shift based on the insignificant actions of someone else.
Don’t allow others to control the direction of your life.
Don’t allow your emotions to empower your intelligence.

Tru2Day1213

Hurting people back will not heal your pain.
Learn to react to people constructively, even if that means being alone in silence, to study your emotions.
In your response is your DESTINY.
If you do not take conscious control of your reaction, you will give away your power.

True me.. Tap-1107..

As you mature, the more you realize these 12 things:

1: No one has it all together.
2: Trusting your gut the first time is usually the best option.
3: The world is more gray than black and white.
4: You can’t control other people.
5: Holding grudges is not the best use of your time.
6: Being honest could save you a lot of time.
7: Childhood, although short, was very impactful.
8: Life is too short to stay in unhealthy relationships.
9: People tell you exactly who they are and it’s your job to listen.
10: Winning an argument is not as important as finding a solution.
11: Having a support system improves your mood and quality of life.
12: Everything and everyone is not worth your energy.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I have heard enough of LOVE ABOVE MONEY or similar bullshits very often. Most people prefer not talking about MONEY as if it’s a taboo. On the other hand, i love it when someone says “I LOVE MONEY & I LOVE MAKING MONEY. ALL MY DEMANDS ARE FROM MYSELF”. First learn about it, then implement it. Investment is a sexy thing.)

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Tru2Day1185

You need to learn how to select your thoughts just the same way you select your clothes every day.
This is a power you can cultivate.
If you want to control things in your life so bad, work on the mind. That’s the only thing you should be trying to control.

True me.. Tap-1079..

Three major lessons you must learn for an easy smooth sailing life;

1. Sometimes bad things happen to good people and sometimes you might think you know someone, you might think they’re on your side but deep down inside they’re not.
Pay attention.
Actions speak louder than words, inconsistent words mean nothing and such words are just another way to cover up the truth with lies.

2. Almost everything we go through we can’t control.
That means, if it’s yours, then somewhere down the line it’ll return to you.
And if it’s not, then you have to make peace with it and move on.
It’s as simple as that.

3. Letting go is never an easy thing to do, no matter how many times you’ve rehearsed it, no matter how many times you’ve played it in your head, it never goes as planned and almost always does it sting a little harder than you thought.
(Not my words.)

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-1063..

I think sometimes people believe that worrying has some kind of productive purpose.
Worry sucks all of your energy and joy out of whatever it is you’re doing.
It’s human nature to worry, but when we do it constantly, we run into more problems.
It may give you something to do, but you don’t get anywhere.

The next time you are worrying about something, try to remember that you aren’t always in control.
Instead, do practical things like make a budget or create a schedule.
Be proactive and let go of the stress.
After all, it won’t change a thing.
Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow; it empties today of its strength.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-1060..

Six things mentally strong people do;

1. They move on.
They don’t waste time feeling sorry for themselves.

2. They embrace change.
They welcome challenges.

3. They stay happy.
They don’t waste energy on things they can’t control.

4. They are kind, fair, and unafraid to speak up.

5. They are willing to take calculated risks.

6. They celebrate other people’s success.
They don’t resent that success.

Tap OUT..💪

True me.. Tap-1051..

4 Habits to make you MENTALLY STRONG:

1: Delay gratification.

The ability to delay gratification can be a big predictor of success.
Mentally strong people have the ability to prioritize the long-term over short-term pleasures.

2: Show up on the toughest days.

Often it’s the days when we don’t feel like showing up that end up being the most important ones.
Proving to yourself that you can show up on tough days builds your resilience and mental strength.

3: Positive Self-Talk.

One of the fastest ways to tear down your mental toughness is by speaking negatively to yourself.
Mentally strong people understand the importance of being your own biggest supporter.

4: Don’t dwell on things.

Allowing a problem or situation to dominate your mind, is another quick way to lose resilience.
Mentally strong people focus on what is within their control, and take action on it as soon as possible.

Tap OUT..🤗

True me.. Tap-1047..

8 THINGS THAT CHANGE YOUR LIFE IN ONE YEAR:

1. Stop complaining and appreciate how lucky you are every day.
2. Embrace loneliness and reinvent yourself in the process.
3. Say goodbye to the people that don’t bring consistent positive energy into your life.
4. Throw off the TV and set Internet controls.
5. Pick one skill you want to cultivate and put all your effort into developing it.
6. Commit to the goals you set and never look back.
7. Sweat every day to boost your mood.
8. Fail forward. Learn from every mistake you make.

Tap OUT..💪

True me.. Tap-1043..

Get up.
Get a routine.
Get outside when you can.
Get moving.
Get focused on the day in front of you.
(Not the month or year.)

Don’t live inside hypothetical catastrophes.
Focus on what you can control.
(Even if it is your breathing.)
Don’t beat yourself up for not baking banana bread.
LIFE IS FUN, LET IT BE.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. When something is informative & important to my knowledge, i try my best to share it. Watch it if you have 11 minutes to spare. Recently we are talking about our planet without political agenda, i am happy to see this change.)

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True me.. Tap-1040..

Throughout the years I have learned three major things:

1. Sometimes bad things happen to good people and sometimes you might think you know someone, you might think they’re on your side but deep down inside they’re not.
Pay attention. Inconsistent people use WORDS to cover up the truth with lies.

2. Almost everything we go through we can’t control.
That means, if it’s yours, then somewhere down the line it’ll return to you and if it’s not, then you have to make peace with it and move on.
It’s as simple as that.

3. Letting go is never an easy thing to do.
No matter how many times you’ve rehearsed it.
No matter how many times you’ve played it in your head.
It never goes as planned and almost always does it sting a little harder than you thought.
(Not my words.)

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-1020..

4 Signs you’re MANIPULATIVE without realizing it:

1. Jealousy drives you to do risky things.

You resort to passive-aggressive tactics.
For example, you notice some friends who are not with you.

• You are offended and invite another friend to go out with you.
• You take a ton of pictures and post them on social media for all to see.
• When you feel like you’re losing control of a situation, you create another one that you can control.

Consider picking up a new hobby.
Accept that not everything other people do is related to you.

2. You’re kind of a know-it-all.

• You have the feeling that people should listen to you since you’re the one who knows the most.
• People around you may feel as though they are suffocating due to your actions.
• You may have a persistent desire to put yourself first, which may cause others to perceive you as selfish.

3. You pour attention on someone, then withdraw it if they do something wrong.

• You avoid people after an argument to prove a point.
• The point is that you don’t need them, and if they want to make up, they should go to you first.
• You feel the need to be in control.
• It’s important to remember that no one is perfect, including you.

4. You are adamant about getting your way.

• You are being persuasive.
• In some cases, you may have to go to great lengths to obtain your desired outcome.
• Assume you want candy for everyone, but others wish to have chocolate. So, what do you do? You get rid of all the chocolate, so they don’t have a choice.
• If you ever catch yourself doing these things, stop, take a deep breath, and take a step back.

Tap OUT..✌️

Tru2Day1095

You will continue to suffer if you have an emotional reaction to everything that is said to you.
True power is sitting back and observing things with logic.
True power is restraint.
If words control you that means everyone else can control you.
Breathe and allow things to pass.

True me.. Tap-983..

7 TYPES OF NEGATIVITY TO KILL:

1. PERFECTIONISM.
Trying to achieve something that’s literally unattainable will only result in you feeling “less than”.

2. JUDGEMENT OVER YOURSELF AND OTHERS.
When you are judgemental, you are only focusing on the negative qualities in yourself and others.

3. SELF-DOUBT.
Self-doubt is a weed that will take over your life if you don’t kill it at the root.

4. ASSUMING THE WORST WILL HAPPEN.
If you never think things will be better, they won’t be. This removes hope.

5. WORRY.
Worrying changes nothing except your health and mental state.

6. COMPLAINING.
When you focus on the negative things, you are really setting yourself up for never being content or happy.

7. TRYING TO CONTROL EVERYTHING.
You can’t control everything and when you try and inevitably fail, you will only blame yourself.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-981..

We always have choices in life.
We make our opportunities, and we must find it in ourselves to achieve our destiny.
We never really know what we can do or achieve unless we try.
Stop leaving something important up to chance.
Take control of it, and create the outcome you want.

It is not in the stars to hold our destiny but in ourselves.
-William Shakespeare.

(This music video got nothing to do with the post above. One of my favourite songs from the movie POPSTAR. If you watched the song & searching for the answer of where OSAMA BIN LADEN was living when he was killed? He was killed in Abbottabad, where he was living next to a Pakistani military headquarter for almost a year. Either ways this song is hella quirky & uncensored. Watch it with headphones.)

Tap OUT..🤣🤪

Tru2Day1078

You will continue to suffer if you have an emotional reaction to everything that is said to you.
True power is sitting back and observing things with logic.
True power is restraint.
If words control you that means everyone else can control you.
Breathe and allow things to pass.

True me.. Tap-973..

There will be times when we feel knocked down at every turn.
Grief, depression, and so much more.
It’s important to preserve a sense of humor.
You have to remember to laugh at these things or they’ll control you.
Laughter will help you see the light in the darkest of times.
It’s more powerful than you’ll ever know.
Even at your lowest points, keep your sense of humor and use it.

Man, when you lose your laugh, you lose your footing.
– KEN KESEY.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I haven’t said anything on this Ukraine-Russia war situation till now. Other countries must stay away from joining this war because there’s a huge risk of further escalation.)

Tap OUT..✌️

Tru2Day1068

BE YOU FEARLESSLY.

Get up.
Get a routine.
Get outside when you can.
Get moving.
Get focused on the day in front of you.
(Not the month or year.)
Don’t live inside hypothetical catastrophes.
Focus on what you can control, even if it is your breathing.
Don’t beat yourself up for not baking banana bread.

True me.. Tap-920..

While you may not have control over everything that happens in life, you do have control over your mindset and perspective.

You can choose to think that you’re down on your luck, or you decide to see that you are being set-up for something extraordinary.

You can choose to focus on all the chaos happening around you, or you decide to look for the good that is emerging.

You can choose to live in a state of victimhood, or you can decide to live from the stance of a champion.

Make the decision that come what may come, this new year is going to be good and beautiful and something magical, not because the world’s problems finally faded away, but because you chose to start changing your perspective.

ONLY YOU CAN CONTROL YOUR PERSPECTIVE.
(Not my words.)

Tap OUT..✌️

Tru2Day1012

Everyone knows that they’re not supposed to procrastinate but we all do it every now and again.
The more things you put off, the more will build up and you will just feel out of control and stressed.
Manage and prioritize your time and tasks.

Procrastination is like a credit card:
it’s a lot of fun until you get the bill.
-CHRISTOPHER PARKER.

Tru2Day936

When you can’t control what’s happening,
challenge yourself to control the way you are responding to what’s happening.
That’s where the POWER is.

True me.. Tap-825..

Every moment of your life is deeply meaningful and plays a significant part in your journey.
A lot of time we judge the moment because things don’t go our way but if you look life backwards you understand that those moments made you evolve and brought a shift in your consciousness.
Whatever you are going through right now will not make sense to your human mind.
You can’t comprehend the life order of universe through logic.
But sooner or later all the dots will connect and you will realize that everything was concerned all along.

So instead of judging the moment learn to embrace every moment.
Your higher self/consciousness is all about trusting the divine and seeing the deeper truth in every moment.
Trust can only come from a place of surrender.
Surrendering doesn’t mean you let go of free will.
It simply means you let go of the things that are not under your control.
Instead of flowing against the current of the river you become the flow.
Enjoy every moment & everything is connected, it’s for your higher good.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-818..

You have to chase the things that ignite you.
You have to do the things that bring you joy.
You have to surround yourself with the people who bring you back home to yourself, with the people who respect you and embrace you in ways that make you feel like you are worthy and accepted and celebrated and loved.
You have do the work to heal yourself,
even when it hurts especially when it hurts,
so that you do not continue to approach your life within the boundary of what is heavy within you.
You have to put yourself out there,
and you cannot worry about what other people think,
you cannot rob yourself of experience or happiness or inspiration because you are scared of how you will be perceived.
You have to be unapologetic in the way that you exist here.
You have to believe that your ideas, and your hope, and your being, deserve to take up space.
You have to believe that you have purpose.

Because our existence is finite.
And as hard as that is to understand,
as hard as that can be to connect with,
from time to time remind yourself that in the most human way we are all living on borrowed time.
We live as if we are promised the experiences and the potential we are chasing,
we live as if we have control over what happens to us.
But we don’t, and that is liberating,
because it is pressing there is urgency within the lesson.
It is meant to wake you up.
Life is meant to be lived. (Not my words).

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-788..

7 TYPES OF NEGATIVITY TO KILL:

1. PERFECTIONISM.
Trying to achieve something that’s literally unattainable will only result in you feeling “less than”.

2. JUDGEMENT OVER YOURSELF AND OTHERS.
When you are judgemental, you are only focusing on the negative qualities in yourself and others.

3. SELF-DOUBT.
Self-doubt is a weed that will take over your life if you don’t kill it at the root.

4. ASSUMING THE WORST WILL HAPPEN.
If you never think things will be better, they won’t be.
This removes hope.

5. WORRY.
Worrying changes nothing except your health and mental state.

6. COMPLAINING.
When you focus on the negative things, you are really setting yourself up for never being content or happy.

7. TRYING TO CONTROL EVERYTHING.
You can’t control everything and when you try and inevitably fail, you will only blame yourself.

A negative mind will never give you a positive life.
(Not my words).

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-785..

Throughout the years I have learned three major things;

1. Sometimes bad things happen to good people and sometimes you might think you know someone, you might think they’re on your side but deep down inside they’re not. Pay attention. True intentions take you towards right action. Actions speak louder than words. And wrong people use words to cover up truth with lies.

2. Almost everything we go through we can’t control. That means, if it’s yours, then somewhere down the line it’ll return to you and if it’s not, then you have to make peace with it and move on, It’s as simple as that.

3. Letting go is never an easy thing to do. No matter how many times you’ve rehearsed it, no matter how many times you’ve played it in your head, it never goes as planned and almost always does it sting a little harder than you thought.

(Not my words).

AT THE END OF THE DAY IT’S NOT ABOUT WHAT YOU HAVE OR EVEN WHAT YOU’VE ACCOMPLISHED.
IT’S ABOUT WHO YOU’VE LIFTED UP, WHO YOU’VE MADE BETTER.
IT’S ABOUT WHAT YOU’VE GIVEN BACK.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-784..

WHAT DO YOU WANT?

When your body is too tired to carry on,
when your soul feels weary from the journey,
when your mind feels exhausted!!

Take control and ask yourself the question:
WHAT DO YOU WANT?

Then, answer it.
DOUBTING YOURSELF IS NORMAL.
LETTING IT STOP YOU IS A CHOICE.
And, every time,
when the fulfillment of your answer outweighs the uncomfortableness that you are feeling in the moment,
CARRY ON.
DON’T QUIT.
KEEP MARCHING TOWARDS YOUR GOAL.

TOMORROW IS A DIRECT RESULT OF WHAT YOU CHOOSE TO DO TODAY. (Not my words).

(This video of Warren Buffett got nothing to do with the post above. But i completely agree with this 42 seconds advice by him on investment. There’s a reason i am always excited to explore cheap farmlands available at any part of the world.)

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-779..

FEELINGS, the thing about this way that you feel right now is that it’s only temporary.
I know that your mind is consumed right now, suffocating; it’s like you can’t find a way to think about anything other than the things that are causing you anxiety.
These feelings don’t last.
It may not feel like it right now, but this feeling will fade; maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow, but you will smile again, you will feel like you again, you will feel happy and full of life again.
Nothing is permanent.
That’s the bittersweet part about life.
That’s why it’s so important to appreciate the truly amazing parts and people in your life while also understanding that the bad days won’t last forever.
Always be present, always be grateful, always know that you’ll get through this obstacle and the one after that.

You’re so much stronger than you think you are right now.
Think about it; you’ve gotten through every tough day in your life so far, and this is no different.
Take a big breath and think of all the things you have to be grateful for and breathe out all the bad.
You are in control of how you feel.
You are in control of this moment.
YOU ARE IN CONTROL. PERIOD.

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True me.. Tap-757..

There are two days in every week about which we should not worry.
Two days which should be kept free from fear and apprehension.

One of these days is YESTERDAY with all it’s mistakes.
Yesterday has passed forever beyond our control.
All the money in the world cannot bring back yesterday.
We can’t undo a single act we performed.
We cannot erase a single word we said.
Yesterday is gone.
Its faults and blunders, Its aches and pains.

The other day we should not worry about is TOMORROW.
With it’s possible adversities, It’s burdens, It’s large promise and poor performance.
Tomorrow is also beyond our immediate control.
Tomorrow’s Sun will rise, either in splendor or behind a mask of clouds, but it will rise.
Until it does, we have no stake in tomorrow, for it is yet unborn.

This just leaves only one day; TODAY.
Any person can fight the battles of just one day.
It is only when you and I add the burdens of those two awful eternity’s yesterday and tomorrow that we break down.
It is not the experience of today that drives people mad.
It is the remorse or bitterness for something which happened yesterday and the dread of what tomorrow may bring.
Let us therefore live but one day at a time.
BE YOU & LIVE YOUR TODAY. (Not my words).

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True me.. Tap-581..

Someway or other we all have this attitude of “Discounting the positives”. I am talking about not taking responsibility for the good things of our life. It’s a form of negative bias in thinking. This thought pattern is different than ignoring or overlooking the positivity in our life. Instead when good things happen, you might believe that it was luck or explain it away a circumstance. When you don’t acknowledge that your success is yours, you’ll start to feel a lack of control over your life.

If you fail to recognize how your hard work, good decision and skills help you accomplish your goals, your levels of motivation will decrease over time. This is known as learned helplessness. Cherish yourself with some positive vibe time after time.

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True me.. Tap-439..

Weak attitude always results weak character. To figure out what’s your attitude with life, keep yourself bound to two ways “EITHER LIVE LIKE A KING OR WHO THE FUCK IS A KING!!”. This attitude will take you to places. Never run behind reputation or popularity, they will fade. CHARACTER will remain with you till you die. That’s the reason you can’t copy character, you have to hammer & forge yourself into one.

My ancestors belong to the land of ASHOKA, Maurya dynasty. Such sayings still exist, it’s us humans who usually forget our values. At the end “YOUR CHARACTER CONTROLS YOUR MIND’S CREATION”. A strong CHARACTER with sorted ATTITUDE is the goal. That’s all.
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True me.. Tap-245..

Business or any sort of investment is like watching a child/tree grow big & tall in front of your eyes with time. It has no short term benefits behind it. If you really want some quick excitement, you should book a cheap flight ticket to neighboring country & get on with it. Having a control over money is the first lesson of entering men’s world.

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True me.. Tap-229..

Who likes MONEY just because of MONEY!! I want MONEY, because it gives control over people & their environment. Money always made me a better me.

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True me.. Tap-192..

Only two times I behave totally impossible; when my doctor uses local anesthesia on me for medical reasons or when someone is messing up with my girls during night outs/trips outside my city for a good time.

It’s not my habit to break pinky fingers. My anger is always in my control till my other sweetheart’s smile is intact. The moment that smile is broken, some bones are also meant to be broken. I am a typical rusty boy, pure impatient & total asshole.

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A person who doesn’t have control over their emotions is DANGEROUS. Let them grow or let it go, togetherness isn’t meant for narcissistic people.

True me.. Tap-113..

Do you know why people try to control someone or behave controling?

Answer:
Because, they can’t control their own shit and they are not in the right vibration to control their own emotions. That’s why they try to control you. They don’t like your happiness & appreciation you receive. They always try to stop you frequently with different approach. In short, you are dealing a wishy washy real dickhead.

Cure:
Guard yourself first. Help them understand life has more to offer. When you know you are not going towards a right direction, it’s better to take help or consult friends/family/whom you believe. Life is about sharing goodness & happiness. People who plan dorky things need to find themselves at right place before they vibe right.

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