True me.. Tap-1004..

It is quite simple.
Nothing that is meant for you will ever get away.
Love deeply, and without the need to possess or own.
Let beautiful connections pass through you without attachment.
Slam your heart into the people and the places and the things that ignite something deep inside of your soul.
And I promise the right things will stay.

You will never lose what is for you.
Please don’t ever forget that.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I had to share it. A cop pulling over a robo taxi is something i wanna see more in coming days.)

Tap OUT..✌️

Tru2Day1077

Throw away the idea that you need to pause your life until you are fully healed; this is a different way of being attached to perfection.
Progress happens when you make better decisions in the midst of living.
You can simultaneously heal your past while being open to the present.

Tru2Day1076

You deserve to be in spaces and relationships that make you happy; that feed your soul and help you grow.
You are worthy of connections that are loving, nourishing and genuine.
Before you settle for anything less than, remind yourself that the places you visit and people you journey with through life should make you feel safe, loved and enough.
-Alex elle.

True me.. Tap-962..

We are all searching for connection, and yet we are all avoiding eye contact.
We are all searching for people who understand, but we close ourselves off before we discover that they can relate to the struggles we try so hard to hide.
We convince the outside world that we are fine, even if we are aching for help, and that is why we don’t get it.
That is why the distance between us and everyone around us widens.
We are all running away from each other, when we should be running towards one another.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I have shared this video couple times. I may share this one hundred more times in coming years. Key & Peele is one of my best stress busters.)

Tap OUT..😜

Sunday story time.. 06.

Everyone wants to know how i tolerate my bestfriend DEMI since past 700 years of our friendship because her attitude is bit aggressive?

Let me answer & YES, it’s a long answer:
We were attending Lory’s birthday party near Cardiff bay. Party was over & some Justin Bieber song started playing. DEMI walked towards me & said; “Rudey, my pussy is drying up because of this shit song. Let’s leave & let’s drive to Tenby. We will talk about everything after reaching the beach.”

We both laughed & i still remember those exact words. And Yes, DEMI still calls me RUDEY because of my rude/angry/grumpy face.
We went through a bad fight before 5 months of that birthday party & i stopped talking to Demi. I decided i must allow her some time to think & respond logically instead of continuing that fight.
Only few friends know Tenby is my favourite coastal town in Britain & i prefer afternoon swimming when i think about relaxing.
DEMI made the right choice with place & timing.
We went swimming & she broke the ice while chilling at beach. We had a long open vivid conversation about everything which went loose.
We were able to come back stronger.
Years gone & our equation keeps getting better with time.
No matter how much i deny, she is the sassiest angel i ever came across. Bestfriends for some good reasons, and i can’t appreciate more.

(DON’T ASK ABOUT THE PICTURE. OLD ONE & STOLEN FROM MY SNAPCHAT.)

27-Feb is the date we had a bad fight & we both stopped communication for 5 months. We both still talk about the stupid reason behind it & what we missed in those 5 months. We laugh at each other’s silent treatment. We tease each other about why that was just unnecessary.

We humans always take goodness for granted & our ego stops us from accepting our flaws.
We miss opportunities.
We disrespect good people.
Sometimes we hurt others without even knowing.
We make blunders easily.

But there are very few who accept & cross that path to acknowledge own mess.
Who says it’s easy!!
Very few are ready to talk about what’s wrong in them & why they are ready to change for better instead of farting from mouth “THAT’S HOW I AM”.
I admire those who strive to be a better human.
It’s easy to go vulnerable towards such people who come with clean intentions.
Every equation can be easy, soothing, happening & loving.
JUST CHOOSE THOSE WHO CHOOSE YOU.

Tap OUT..😘

Tru2Day962

Falling in love with someone you had no intentions on falling for, is the most beautiful kind of love.

No forcing chemistry.
Just pure raw connection that created on its own.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Desi Lydic never goes wrong.😂)

Tru2Day944

Some people love you.
Some people love to be around you.
Some love what you can do for them.
Understand the difference.

Learn the difference between connection and attachment.
One brings consistency, the other is fakefuckery.
One gives you power, the other sucks the life out of you.

True me.. Tap-837..

FIVE GENTLE REMINDERS:

1. The kindest people aren’t born that way, they are made. They are the souls that have experienced so much at the hands of life, they are the ones who have dug themselves out of the dark, who have fought to turn every loss into a lesson. The KINDEST people do not just exist, they choose to soften where circumstance has tried to harden them, they choose to believe in goodness, because they have seen firsthand why COMPASSION is so necessary. They have seen firsthand why TENDERNESS is so important in this world.

2. Surround yourself with people who are doing the work to HEAL themselves. Surround yourself with those who want to talk to you about IDEAS rather than other human beings. Surround yourself with people who LOVE and RESPECT themselves, people who are GENTLE and KIND and who ENCOURAGE CONNECTION. Surround yourself with people who genuinely show up in your life, people who don’t just want attention, or praise, or validation from you. Surround yourself with those who want to GROW with you. These people will change your life.

3. Being understood fosters a different kind of INTIMACY that is untouchable. The rarest, most profound kind of connection you are going to experience will not be with the person who instantly gratifies you, but rather, with the kind of human being who sees you clearly. Ask yourself who makes you feel the most you? Who sees you in ways you don’t see yourself? Who pours calm and ease into the heart of you? Those people who came to mind are rare and beautiful gifts. Never take them for granted.

4. Do not just be THANKFUL for the things you deem positive in life. Be thankful for the EMOTIONS you also deem negative, because it is within the darkness that we grow to APPRECIATE the light. The hardest things in life are building you, and reminding you of your capacity to overcome. At the end of the day, nothing you have experienced thus far has defeated you. There is POWER in reminding yourself of that. You are capable of braving the storms, that is what they are there to teach you.

5. Please don’t ever forget that so many human beings you come into contact with are all trying to heal themselves from the things they often do not discuss. Always choose to be KIND. Always choose GRACE.



REMAIN TRUTHFUL & CONSISTENT IN YOUR WALK OF LIFE, THAT’S SEXY, BEAUTIFUL & BOLD. (Not my words).

Tap OUT..✌️

Tru2Day935

When two givers indulge in a connection, it’s like magic.
It’s alchemy.
I water you,
you water me,
we never drain each other,
we just vibe & grow.

🦁

Tru2Day913

What kills a HUMAN soul?
Exhaustion, secrecy, inconsistency & fake fuckery.

And what brings a soul back from dead to a beautiful lively realm called LIFE?
Honest connection, consistent communication, grace & gratitude.

There are two types of songs in my playlist.

1. Songs which makes me do 200 push-ups or lift weights. Basically my favourite workout tracks.
2. Songs which make me dance. Best case scenario, salsa or b-boying dance-off with my friends when it’s a celebration or pouring or snowing.

This song fits bit of both 1 & 2. I had to share it.