The world is filled with people who, no matter what you do, no matter what you try, will simply not like you. But the world is also filled with those who will love you fiercely. The ones who love you: they are YOUR PEOPLE.
Don’t waste your finite time and heart trying to convince the people who aren’t your people that you have value. They will miss it completely. They won’t buy what you are selling. Don’t try to convince them to walk your path with you because you will only waste your time and your emotional good health. You are not for them and they are not for you. You are not their cup of tea and they are not yours.
Politely wave them along and you move away as well. Seek to share your path with those who recognize and appreciate your gifts, who you are.
Be who you are. You are not everyone’s cup of tea and that is OK.
1. Give without expecting in return. 2. Trust without wavering. 3. Forgive without punishing. 4. Listen without interrupting. 5. Enjoy without complaint. 6. Answer without arguing. 7. Keep your promises. 8. Speak without accusing. 9. Be patient in all things. 10. Learn to let it go.
You always have to believe that things are working out for you no matter what. Being patient and trusting the process means that you believe you’ll receive the seed you’ve sowed. Don’t let worry, fear, and anxiety make you dig up what you’ve planted just to see if it’s growing. You can rise up from anything. You can completely recreate yourself. Nothing is permanent. You’re not stuck. You have choices. You can think new thoughts. You can learn something new. You can create new habits. All that matters is that you decide today and never look back at those things & people holding you back.. LIFE IS FUN, LET IT BE. (My words).
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. My bestie suggested, i saved it offline because of a busy morning & i watched it while flying. Whatever this person is doing is a legit mindfuck. A guy named Javier from Valencia-Spain is stuck in 2027, really!?! Thank god i am not using tiktok. But whatever this person is posting/playing is awkwardly creepy.)
How real is FOMO!?! Believing others are better off. The common saying “the grass is greener on the other side” can feel painfully true, especially in our modern world of influencers, social media and the fear of missing out associated to it. It’s common for people to present their lives online in a way that depicts only the best, the most glamorous pets, exotic trips, luxury purchases, a wild success. But sometimes glamour is entirely false, some people are more likely to lie online than in person. Although some may lie to protect their privacy, many invent stories to convince their followers that they’re living a spectacular life when they’re entirely ordinary. This delusion often convinces others that they are somehow failing at the game of life. Even worse, it causes self-blame and feelings of isolation. Know that most people don’t have it as good as they make it seem on social media.
Everyone experiences struggle and imperfection. If they say otherwise, they’re lying. Let go of the belief that you’re worse off than other people. Having what you think other people possess is not the solution. That desire is often a source of unhappiness. You are amazing on your own, your only competition & motivation should be a better version of you.
People trust me not because I am good or bad. I maybe way smaller person than what you are. I am TRUSTWORTHY because I buy my good & bad both equally with complete TRUTH. If I am a faulty dickhead at some point; it’s only me who will spread that first before any asshole even thinks about playing with my shit.
We all want a partner to share our happiness & get excited with their side’s unseen life. Doesn’t matter which side you are in, you need to be the best version of you to attract an amazing soul who can complete you like a fool who can’t get enough of laughter & smile both in your whole life. We all break, we want to share that too. But getting over own broken heart, broken bank or broken life is your responsibility.