There are people who notice you only when you shine, or when you fall into the darkness. Not the average you. Not the mediocre you. But the great you, or the not-so-great you. The people who are worthiest of your care are not those who only notice you at your best and worst but those who are with you at all times. They don’t need an excuse to love you. They don’t need an excuse to talk to you, or to ask you how you’re doing!! They don’t need an excuse to share their happiness with you. They don’t need an explanation. They give you one without you asking for it. They assume the good in you before the bad.
So keep eyes open just so you don’t miss those people. Such equations take long long time & trust to develop. Once you find them, never let them go because those are not just friends but family members. They’re life companions. They are the people who will tell you when you are wrong simply because they’ve allowed themselves to tie their well-being to yours. (Not my words). Vibe with people who are good for you.
When you choose a LIFE PARTNER, you’re choosing a lot of things;
including your parenting partner, and someone who will deeply influence your children, your eating companion for about 20,000 meals, your travel companion for about 200 weeks, your primary leisure time and retirement friend, your career therapist, and someone whose day you’ll hear about 18,000 times.
Be wise & take your sweet time while choosing people. (Not my words).
(This trailer of Matrix got nothing to do with the post above. Yesterday i just finished my work, had my lunch & this trailer was dropped. My excitement for movies stays alive for certain reasons. Delighted to see Warner Bros rebooting this franchise.)