You are responsible for your happiness.
In fact, you create your own HAPPINESS.
You attract it.
You manifest it.
You are the architect of your reality.
You choose your thoughts.
You choose your perceptions.
And you choose your reaction to external forces.
You posses all of the tools needed to expand your awareness, to orchestrate the evolution of your consciousness, to choose happiness, to choose love.
You are that powerful.
Create the life you deserve.
Vibrate love.
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I INVEST my time and energy where it feels right for me.
I CHOOSE to focus on experiences that are life sustaining, not life draining.
True self-care is not salt baths and chocolate cake.
It is making the choice to build a life you don’t need to regularly escape from.
And that often takes doing the thing you least want to do.
It often means looking at your failures and disappointments square in the eye and re-strategizing.
It is not satiating your immediate desires.
It is letting go.
It is choosing new.
It is disappointing some people.
It is making sacrifices for others.
It is living a way that other people won’t, so maybe you can live in a way that other people can’t.
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Remember, inner peace begins the moment you take a deep breath and choose not to allow another person or event to control your thoughts.
You are not what happened to you.
You are what you choose to become in this moment.
Let go, breathe, and begin again.
– Marcandangel.
Don’t get stuck.
Move, travel, take a class, take a risk.
There is a season for wildness and a season for settledness, and this is neither.
This season is about becoming.
Choose to become something big.
Don’t lose yourself at happy hour, but don’t lose yourself on the top of success either.
Stop every once in a while and go out to coffee or climb in bed with your journal.
Now is your time.
Walk closely with people you love.
Don’t get stuck in the past, and don’t try to fast-forward yourself into a future you haven’t yet earned.
Give today all the love and intensity and courage you can, and keep travelling honestly along life’s path.
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It’s easy to judge.
It’s more difficult to understand.
Understanding requires compassion, patience, and a willingness to believe that good hearts sometimes choose poor methods.
Through judging, we separate.
Through understanding, we grow.
-Doe Zantamata.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Every single time someone tells me about crypto investment/trading, i know either it’s a dumbfuck or a scammer. There’s no other 3rd category for such fools. Every crypto investor talks about future of finance, web3, blockchain technology. The fun part is; 99.9% of these dumb donkeys don’t even know how to write 2 codes in C/C++. Now that’s the perfect recipe for a disaster. 97% NFT market down, 78% crypto currencies market down & i perfectly saw this coming.)
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Remember, inner peace begins the moment you take a deep breath and choose not to allow another person or event to control your thoughts.
You are not what happened to you.
You are what you choose to become in this moment.
Let go, breathe, and begin again.
– Marcandangel.
There is so much abundance, success, and happiness available to you.
Work for what you want.
Dream it.
Crave it.
Consume it.
Achieve it.
Do what it takes to create what you need.
On the journey you will lose, you will be told NO, but that doesn’t mean you’re not worthy.
Success is a choice, choose it.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Whenever we get out of one issue, there’s another one ready already. Now this airlines strike in easyjet & Lufthansa will definitely put a ding on economy, and it’s growing further.)
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I hope you choose patience.
Even when you are overwhelmed by unknowns.
When someone cannot give you answers,
when you begin to wonder why you’re here,
when you simply want to give up:
BE PATIENT.
Some people are truly worth the wait.
I hope you choose love.
Even when it would be easier to hate.
When someone stirs white hot rage within you,
when they insult you,
when they question your worth:
BE LOVING.
Some people need your love more than you do.
(Not my words.)
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There is so much abundance, success, and happiness available to you.
Work for what you want.
Crave it.
Consume it.
Do what it takes to create what you need.
On the journey you will lose, you will be told NO, but that doesn’t mean you’re not worthy.
Success is a choice, choose it.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Big fan of MCU. She-Hulk looks amazing. Waiting for this one to come to Disney+.)
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DISCIPLINE is choosing between what you want now and what you want most.
-Abraham Lincoln.
No matter what is going on in your world, no matter what happens today, do everything with a joyful heart.
During the highs and lows, choose a stance of celebration.
Every day, choose to find something to be thankful for.
Decide to find the gold, and resolve to look for the happy moments.
If you can’t find anything to be joyful about, remember this: you are alive with a beating heart and air flowing through your lungs.
This means your work here is not finished, and you haven’t reached your story’s end.
You have a purpose; you have a dream that needs you to bring it to life.
That is something to be joyful about and celebrate.
DO EVERYTHING WITH A JOYFUL HEART.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Apparantly PROFESSIONAL MODEL BLOWER is a real thing, even though this video is hella funny. 2 minutes of pure fun. Don’t miss it.)
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Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.
The small things in life don’t need to be worried and stressed about so much.
The alarm can be fixed.
The tire can be replaced.
The coffee can be refilled.
The parking ticket can be paid.
The keys can be found.
The to-dos can get to-done.
You can get sleep.
You can get some food.
Maybe a Snickers to satisfy.
Your life is great.
You just have to allow it to be.
People don’t make you angry, you allow the anger to dwell within you.
Circumstances don’t upset you, you allow yourself to get upset.
You choose to worry, you choose to criticize, you choose to blame, and you choose to complain.
No one else decides this for you.
YOUR ATTITUDE IS WHAT DETERMINES YOUR DAY.
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13 HEALTHY REMINDERS FOR A HAPPY YOU:
1. The past is in the past, focus on the future.
2. Opinions do not define reality.
3. Everyone’s journey is different.
4. Time is the essence of healing.
5. Judgement is a confession of character.
6. Overthinking will lead to paralysis/sadness.
7. Happiness is an inside job, found within.
8. Positive thoughts, create positive actions.
9. Smiles are contagious.
10. Sprinkle kindness, it’s free.
11. You only fail if you quit/do not try.
12. What goes around, comes around. Karma it is.
13. The quicker you choose to move forward, the quicker the suffering ends.
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When you feel like what you are experiencing is not enough, instead of allowing yourself to get frustrated, anxious, discourage, or disappointed, choose to channel in a spirit of thankfulness.
Find something to be thankful for and begin to express gratitude.
Because, no matter what is going on in your world, there’s plenty to be grateful for.
You have blood pumping through your veins.
You have air flowing through your lungs.
You have a roof over your head and food on your table.
You have creativity that cannot be taken away and an undeniable purpose.
NO MATTER WHAT IS GOING ON, BE THANKFUL.
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Bruce Lee Said:
Don’t speak negatively about yourself, even as a joke.
Your body doesn’t know the difference.
Words are energy and cast spells, that’s why it’s called spelling.
Change the way you speak about yourself and you can change your life.
What you’re not changing, you’re also choosing.
Fears stop you from all things possible.
Don’t let fear get in the way of anything, especially your dreams.
Did you know that FEAR is actually an acronym that stands for False Evidence Appearing Real?
In other words, your fears are not real because they’re not actually happening they’re based on things that haven’t happened yet and therefore don’t exist.
Replace a fear with a wish or a dream for your life and choose to focus on that instead.
Too many of us are not living our dreams because we are living our fears.
-LES BROWN.
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Celebrate your independence today and the fact that you can make your own decisions.
It’s impossible to please everybody around you but it is always possible to make the right choices to please yourself.
In the end that’s all you can worry about.
Tell yourself; “I choose my path”.
But also remember to remain in sync with your life.
It’s all about your INTENTIONS & CONSISTENCY.
Don’t make decisions based on other peoples influences or advice.
Listen without retaliating.
Think & do things without being indecisive.
You can’t live your life for other people.
You’ve got to do what’s right for you, even if it hurts some people you love.
-NICHOLAS SPARKS.
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HAPPINESS is a choice, not a result.
Nothing will make you happy until you choose to be happy.
No person will make you happy unless you decide to be happy.
Your HAPPINESS will not come to you.
It can only come from you.
The point of change isn’t to make yourself happy.
The point of change is to grow, to show up for yourself, to express yourself, to be an example of what’s possible, to test the limits, to have new experiences.
You can be happy and grateful for where you are and still choose to change everything, just because you want to.
– Sam Laura Brown.
Just because people are being bad to you, doesn’t mean you should sacrifice the same energy to them.
Don’t go through that kind of effort.
The best thing you can do is to completely ignore them and focus on what makes you better.
It’s hard, but know that you deserve only good and positive vibes.
You were not born to embrace and express negativity.
Maybe the people around you might have brought that side out of you, but naturally you’re nothing like those people. You’re way better.
Stopping yourself from doing what’s wrong is not the same as choosing what’s right and doing it.
Don’t stand on the verge of being good.
Be as good as you can be. If you can give, give.
If you can help, help.
If you can make someone’s day by a simple act of kindness, make it.
Set the bar of success for yourself as high as the best that you can be, not as low as avoiding the worst that you can be. Big difference. (Not my words.)
Goodness is a choice.
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Stay away from those who criticize, point fingers or put you down.
Stay away from those who try to tell you who you are, what you do wrong, or how you can or can’t feel.
They are choosing to be emotional bullies and walk the path of negativity.
Let them keep that while you take the high road.
Refuse to be abused, even when it’s with words.
Real people are good with their approach towards you consistently, period.
Somebody is mad at you right now because you always picked peace over drama and distance over disrespect.
Choose people wisely.
Vibe with those who are consistent with their approach towards you.
(Not my words).
When you wake up each morning, take a moment to think about the kind of life you want to have.
Consistently consciously choose to have a happy life: one that is filled with love, laughter, good health and success.
Then begin your day focused on the things you can do to make this your reality.
A happy life is a CHOICE, choose it wisely.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Watch it & please understand the importance of general knowledge & basic day to day information. Just checking your Google feeds may help you escape embarassing situations. I mean, look at these fools.)
DISCIPLINE IS ABOUT MAKING CHOICE AFTER CHOICE CONSISTENTLY THAT’S ALIGNED WITH OUR INTENTIONS.
IN ANY MOMENT, WE CAN MAKE A CHOICE THAT SUPPORTS AN INTENTION.
OR WE CAN MAKE A CHOICE THAT SUPPORTS AN OLD HABIT, A LACK OF INTENTION OR A FEAR.
ATTITUDE,
HAPPINESS,
OPTIMISM,
KINDNESS,
GIVING,
RESPECT,
GROWTH,
LOYALTY,
TRUTHFUL COMMUNICATION,
WHATEVER CHOICE YOU MAKE, MAKES YOU.
CHOOSE WISELY.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. If you are watching from USA, watch it for investment tips. If you are watching from any other part of the world, watch it for some general knowledge on money. I am a big fan ot Kevin O’Leary. I saw him giving a 100 score to someone for the first time, that too to an Indian guy. My blood goes back to eastern part of India. Parents are next to god in our culture. And nothing comes above family values & money management skills.)
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What is the point in being alive if you are not going to try for something?
If you are not going to at least attempt to make your time here remarkable?
Stop holding yourself back.
Tell the person that makes your stomach ache with hope that every part of your heart is tender for them, even if you think you aren’t ready.
Don’t just fantasize about your dream job, actively pursue it, and if that door is not open, knock it down.
Dreaming about a new business, go for it & own yourself.
Got a goal? GO, Fetch it.
Buy the plane ticket,
climb a mountain,
swim to shred after an intense workout session,
surf when it’s raining,
pet your canadian warmblood horse like a sweet puppy,
surprise your mates & university bitches with some butt naked snapchat streaks on a beach,
let your friends tease you “Aquaman minus SUPERPOWERS”,
jump the fence,
kiss an angel,
makeout in the middle of a concert,
full throttle that AMG to 150mph cruising through Autobahn while touring cross-country with your bestfriend.
Make sure that you don’t allow your fear to hold you back.
Instead, look your fear in the face and invite it to dinner, become it’s friend.
Live alongside it, let it make you feel alive.
Just choose impossibility.
Choose risk.
Choose making mistakes, new mistakes, and making memories, and making it up as you go.
Just choose to embrace whatever time you do have here, stay consistent on your life path, because life is finite, and fragile, and it vanishes too quickly.
Just make it worth it. Make it count. Life is fun, let it be.
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Bad timing doesn’t exist.
The people your heart chooses at what it thinks is the wrong time, are simply just the wrong people.
They are simply just the ones who were meant to get away.
They were simply just the ones who were never meant to stay.
Because at the end of the day, the right people fight for you.
The right people show up.
The right people care,
not only when life is convenient,
but when it is difficult and messy,
and it aches all over.
The right people take the chance, they choose you just as confidently as you choose them.
They hand you their heart.
They bet on you.
They believe in what you share with a ruthless conviction, with a hope that spills out of them.
Have the courage to wait for these people.
Do not settle for half loves.
Do not settle for someone who does not see the value in holding your heart.
The people who walk away from you because the timing is not right, are simply just the people who are not willing to put the right amount of time into you.
Let that be your closure. -By Bianca Sparacino.
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Each of us leads unique lives with experiences that nobody else will ever completely understand.
Your story holds so many valuable lessons that can help inspire, teach, and motivate someone else.
Should you choose to share it!?!
In life, I have heard so many different stories.
Just by listening, I learned so many different things.
I’m so thankful I found the courage to share my story as well and talk about what I’ve been through.
Not only has it helped me, but it has helped give perspective and strength to so many other people, my people to be precise.
I encourage you to do the same.
Share your story with someone who is worth your time.
You never know how one sentence of your life story could inspire someone to rewrite their own.
No matter what you have been through in life, good or bad, don’t take it for granted.
There are lessons in every moment of our lives.
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Staying in a relationship just because you love somebody is not worth it.
Love is not all you need.
Respect is what you need.
Reassurance is what you need.
Communication is what you need.
Heart to heart conversation is what you need.
Happiness is what you need.
Knowing everyday you’re their favorite person is what you need.
Learn to love yourself first, let other one match it.
When someone not so familiar asks me “Ever been in LOVE!?!”.
My answer is: Yeah 3 times.
1. When i woke up at 5.45am today morning just wearing a trunk & i saw my 5 pack abs.
2. When i was getting ready for university, because now i am a PhD research scholar.
3. When i received my bank balance text after buying groceries at Lidl.
I fall in love with myself 3 times everyday.
Two exceptions i must mention;
1. When a kid accidentally says my name TAP after i touch his/her nose while saying TAP TAP TAP.
2. When a cute caucasian girl or a latina mami in a beach with a fine 🍑 approaches me, can’t beat that one.
Special mention; also when my bestie bitch makes coffee for me when i am working from home at her house. This one is dedicated for you Demi.
Done.
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Forgive yourself for the desires you judged harshly.
Forgive yourself for indulging in things that took up your time but didn’t fulfill you.
Forgive yourself for declaring yourself as someone you’re not.
Forgive yourself for your chosen avenues of negative expression.
Forgive yourself for all the times you didn’t add value to others.
Forgive yourself for what you discovered about yourself that you didn’t like.
Forgive yourself for whatever ugliness you saw in yourself.
Forgive yourself for not correcting what you think you should have.
Forgive yourself for the parts you couldn’t respect.
Forgive yourself for all these judgements.
Forgive yourself for not being able to forgive yourself before.
Forgive yourself for how you chose to survive.
Foregiveness is making a conscious decision to live in the present, even if the past still hurts.
(This paragraph got nothing to do with the post above. Everything that’s real takes longer to build, the longer it stands & the longer it takes to break. Chrissi you dumb girl, keep on forgiving TAP. I can’t accept your gift till next year. Let me fix myself first, right now i am the wrong one. Doors to my house are open for my people every Saturday, please join. Love outta respect. Truth is trust.)
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One day you will meet someone who chooses you & continues to choose you every moment every single day.
And that’s when you will be thankful that everything happened the way it did.
You are worth more than mixed signals & bad communication.
(This song got nothing to do with the post above. It’s from Shang-Chi & my workout track since yesterday. I had to share it.)
Choosing to be positive and having a grateful attitude is going to determine how you’re going to live your life.
POSITIVE MIND.
GRATEFUL HEART.
PEACE.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I don’t know why people are saying all kinds of dirty shit about her, she literally deserves a movie role or an Oscar for faking news reporting.) by
You are being presented with a choice: evolve or remain the same. If you choose to remain unchanged, you will be presented with the same challenges, the same routine, the same storms, the same situations, until you learn from them, until you love yourself enough to say “no more”, until you choose change.
If you choose to evolve, you will connect with the strength within you, you will explore what lies outside the comfort zone, you will awaken, you will become, you will be what you want.
You have everything you need.
Choose to evolve.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Shared it because i am a big fan of Key & Peele. And this girl’s name should be DEMI instead of EMILY).
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There is no “right time”, there is just time & what you choose to do with it.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above).
I receive ton of thirsty texts, calls, dms, snaps every single day. Not proud of it because i am not proud of the body count streak i was into for a long long time. When i say “now my bank account is my boo”, i really really mean my words. People chase you thinking they might get a chance to experience the same exciting life that you live, that’s all. I am not against it. Basically that’s how we humans usually approach relationships & materials. We always desire something that’s beyond our reach/budget.
In relationships that same thing causes toxicity, any kind of relationships i mean, friends, family or romantic equations as well. Choose people with whom you can vibe & stick together for a long long time without getting bored of all generic unenthusiastic human traits. Chasing someone is not worth it, it drains energy resulting nothing. Choose those who choose you.
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I take full responsibility of where I am in my life. It didn’t happen to me, I choose to become what I am.
Choose those who choose you.
Whenever life gave me options, I chose the one with TRUTH. Yes, I am a better person each next day because of that one choice.
I definitely want some changes in these numbers. Maybe I will add a zero to that vacation thing & try to live 150 years to fulfill it. If kids are a pain, I know some nice boarding schools.😜
(Stolen/Taken from: Word Porn)
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