Tag: choice

True me.. Tap-1497..

Growth can look like:

1. Choosing inner peace over reacting.
2. Walking away from drama.
3. Being your own validation.
4. Trusting yourself.
5. Honouring your needs.
6. Recognising unhealthy patterns.
7. Falling back in love with your life.

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True me.. Tap-1495..

Be firm about your choices right now.
Don’t go backwards to habits that weren’t helping you evolve.
Don’t go back to situations that weren’t serving your best interests.

You have to keep reminding yourself why you even decided to move forward.
Stay positive about what’s to come by being consistent with your change now.

Tap..✌️

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Authenticity is a collection of choices that we have to make every day.
It’s about the choice to show up and be real.
The choice to be honest.
The choice to let our true selves be seen.

– Brene Brown.

True me.. Tap-1486..

Learn to say;
That’s on you.
Your behavior is on you.
The way you move is on you.
The choices you make are all on you.
The way you live it’s all on you.

Stop absorbing the pain of other people, recognize what belongs to you and what doesn’t.

Hardships in our lives is common among people, but victimhood is a choice.
Stay away from anyone who supports or chooses victim mentality.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1469..

Be firm about your choices right now.
Don’t go backwards to habits and situations that weren’t helping you evolve.
You have to keep reminding yourself why you even decided to move forward.

Stay positive about what’s to come by being consistent with your change now.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1433..

Be firm about your choices right now.
Don’t go backwards to habits and situations that weren’t helping you evolve.
You have to keep reminding yourself why you even decided to move forward.

Stay positive about what’s to come by being consistent with your change now.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1431..

Discipline is all about mastering self-control.
It is a form of self-care.
You will never always be motivated.
You have to learn to be disciplined.

Discipline is necessary, so that you can love yourself enough to take action based on your inner voice.
You have to act regardless of how you feel.
You have to take action against all temptations you face.

DISCIPLINE is choosing between what you want now and what you want most, the choice is yours.

Tap..✌️

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Be firm about your choices right now.
Don’t go backwards to habits and situations that weren’t helping you evolve.
You have to keep reminding yourself why you even decided to move forward.

Stay positive about what’s to come by being consistent with your change now.

Tru2Day1488

Train your mind to see the good in everything.
Positivity is a choice.
The happiness of your life depends on the quality of your thoughts.

– Marcandangel.

Tru2Day1478

Stop forcing yourself to live up to other people’s expectations.
Stop going through life making decisions based on other people’s desires, especially as they don’t have to live with the results of those choices.

Own your life.
It’s your soul, your mind, your heart and your body.

True me.. Tap-1361..

Wake up early morning.
Eat a good breakfast.
Put on a kick-ass outfit.
Get a coffee and enjoy every sip of it.
Go to work.
Make that money.
And learn something new everyday in the process.

Nourish.
Grow.
Inspire.
Be consistent on your path.
Self-destruction is not an option.
And let every choice you make be a brick in the foundation of building yourself.

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True me.. Tap-1351..

You are responsible for your happiness.
In fact, you create it.
You attract it.
You manifest it.
You are the architect of your reality.
You choose your thoughts, your perceptions, and your reaction to external forces.

You possess all of the tools needed to expand your awareness, to orchestrate the evolution of your consciousness, to choose happiness, to choose love.
You are that powerful.
Create the life you deserve.
Vibrate love.

Tap OUT..✌️

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Take chances, take a lot of them.
Because honestly, no matter where you end up and with whom it always end up the way it should be.
Your mistakes make you who you are.
You learn and grow with each choice you make.
Everything is worth it.
Say how you feel, always.
Be you, and be okay with it.

True me.. Tap-1334..

Many of us have gotten so used to playing to the expectations of society, of our families, of our friends, and of our minds, that we don’t even allow ourselves to consider who we really are or what we really need.
We ignore the calls of our hearts, giving our lives, instead, to the demands of an outside world built on fitting in.
We can stop this, right now.

We can choose to listen to ourselves, to heed our deepest callings, whatever they are.
We can give ourselves the freedom to be whoever the hell we want to be in this world.
Right now, if we choose to.
And why wouldn’t we?

CHOOSE TO BE YOU & CHOOSE YOURSELF EVERY POSSIBLE MOMENT.

Tap OUT..✌️

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Forgive yourself for the bad decisions,
for the times you lacked understanding,
for the choices that hurt others and yourself.
Forgive yourself for being young and reckless.
These experiences are vital lessons.
And what matters most right now is your willingness to grow from them.

– Marcandangel.

True me.. Tap-1324..

When you wake up each morning, take a moment to think about the kind of life you want to have.
Consciously choose to have a happy life.
A life that is filled with love, laughter, good health and success.
Then begin your day focused on the things you can do to make this your reality.

Be silly.
Be fun.
Be different.
Be crazy.
Be you, because life is too short to be anything but happy.
Choose a happy life.

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Tru2Day1410

Train your mind to see the good in everything. Positivity is a choice.
The happiness of your life depends on the quality of your thoughts.

– Marcandangel.

True me.. Tap-1299..

Take chances, take a lot of them.
Because honestly, no matter where you end up and with whom it always end up the way it should be.

Your mistakes make you who you are.
You learn and grow with each choice you make.
Everything is worth it.
Say how you feel, always.
Be you, and be okay with it.
Be a shameless authentic version of yourself.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I always share what I like. Watch it.)

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True me.. Tap-1269..

True self-care is not salt baths and chocolate cake.
It is making the choice to build a life you don’t need to regularly escape from.
And that often takes doing the thing you least want to do.
It often means looking at your failures and disappointments square in the eye and re-strategizing.

It is not satiating your immediate desires.
It is letting go.
It is choosing new.
It is disappointing some people.
It is making sacrifices for others.
It is living a way that other people won’t, so maybe you can live in a way that other people can’t.

Tap OUT..✌️

Tru2Day1362

Forgive yourself
for the bad decisions,
for the times you lacked understanding,
for the choices that hurt others and yourself,
for being young and reckless.

These experiences are vital lessons.
And what matters most right now is your willingness to learn & grow from them.

Tru2Day1359

I INVEST my time and energy where it feels right for me.
I CHOOSE to focus on experiences that are life sustaining, not life draining.

True me.. Tap-1256..

True self-care is not salt baths and chocolate cake.
It is making the choice to build a life you don’t need to regularly escape from.
And that often takes doing the thing you least want to do.
It often means looking at your failures and disappointments square in the eye and re-strategizing.

It is not satiating your immediate desires.
It is letting go.
It is choosing new.
It is disappointing some people.
It is making sacrifices for others.
It is living a way that other people won’t, so maybe you can live in a way that other people can’t.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-1255..

How to make yourself do what you don’t want to do:

1. Rather than listening to the voice in your head that is screaming “I hate this & I don’t want to do this”, think about why it is a GOOD thing to do.

2. Instead of trying to pretend that you don’t feel this way, accept that you are feeling very blah and negative.

3. Don’t think about results and how well you think you’ll do, as this could raise your feelings of anxiety and fear, just think about “right now” and the first thing you can do.

4. Accept that life is tough, and is full of things that suck, but recognise that doing hard stuff is better in the end.
You’ll likely have more choices and freedom, if you do.

5. Just do a little bit for now, then give yourself a proper break, then go back and do some more, and soon you’ll find you’re in the flow.

6. Don’t allow your mind to wander and think of other things.
Stay focused for that short time and then stop, and have fun.

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True me.. Tap-1245..

The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life.
Attitude, to me is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than successes, than what other people think or say or do.
It is more important than appearance, giftedness, or skill.
It will make or break a company, a church, a school or a home.

The remarkable thing is we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day.
We cannot change our past.
We cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way.
We cannot change the inevitable.
The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude.
I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it.
And so it is with you, we are in charge of our ATTITUDES.

Tap OUT..✌️

Tru2Day1317

Train your mind to see the good in everything.
Positivity is a choice.
The happiness of your life depends on the quality of your thoughts.

-Marcandangel.

True me.. Tap-1215..

Take chances, take a lot of them.
Because honestly, no matter where you end up and with whom it always end up the way it should be.
Your mistakes make you who you are.
You learn and grow with each choice you make.
Everything is worth it.
Say how you feel, always.
Be you, and be okay with it.
Be you.
Be an authentic version of yourself shamelessly.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Who else saw recession coming in UK!?! Now news channels are discussing about it as if it’s a surprise. UK’s economy is on a decline since the end of 2019. Government just tried to hide it behind cash transfers during COVID & cheap mortgages, now the same monster is coming back to bite.)

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Tru2Day1303

Train your mind to see the good in everything.
Positivity is a choice.
The happiness of your life depends on the quality of your thoughts.

-Marcandangel.

True me.. Tap-1200..

DON’T COMPARE your actual self to a hypothetical self.
Don’t drown in a sea of ‘what if’s.
Don’t clutter your mind by imagining other versions of you, in parallel universes, where you made different decisions.
The internet age encourages choice and comparison, but don’t do this to yourself. Theodore Roosevelt said; Comparison is the thief of joy.
You are The you.
Past is the past.

The only way to make a better life is from inside the present.
To focus on regret does nothing but turn that very present into another thing you will wish you did differently.
Accept your own reality.
Be human enough to make mistakes.
Be human enough not to dread the future.
Be human enough to be, well, enough.
Accepting where you are in life makes it so much easier to be happy for other people without feeling terrible about yourself.

Tap OUT..✌️

Tru2Day1290

Forgive yourself for the bad decisions,
for the times you lacked understanding,
for the choices that hurt others and yourself,

Forgive yourself for being young and reckless.
These experiences are vital lessons.
And what matters most right now is your willingness to grow from them.

– Marcandangel.

True me.. Tap-1180..

You are responsible for your HAPPINESS.
In fact, you create it.
You attract it.
You manifest it.
You are the architect of your reality.
You choose your thoughts.
You choose your perceptions.
You choose your reaction to external forces.

You posses all of the tools needed to expand your awareness, to orchestrate the evolution of your consciousness, to choose happiness, to choose love.
You are that powerful.
Create the life you deserve.
VIBRATE LOVE.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-1179..

Use your money to;

– Look better (grooming).
– Feel better (food choices).
– Make more money (invest).

Use your time to;

– Look better (gym).
– Feel better (meditation).
– Make more money (skills).

Spend your time and money on things that will improve your quality of life.
(Not my words.)

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Things you can CONTROL;

Your wellbeing,
Your beliefs,
Your attitude,
Your thoughts,
Your perspective,
Your choice,
How honest you are,
What books you read,
How often you exercise,
How you treat yourself,
The type of food you eat,
How kind you are to people.
BE AN AUTHENTIC VERSION OF YOURSELF.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Every SNL episodes of Chad are hilarious af. I had to share it. Watch it for fun.)

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True me.. Tap-1147..

There is so much abundance, success, and happiness available to you.
Work for what you want.
Dream it.
Crave it.
Consume it.
Achieve it.
Do what it takes to create what you need.
On the journey you will lose, you will be told NO, but that doesn’t mean you’re not worthy.
Success is a choice, choose it.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Whenever we get out of one issue, there’s another one ready already. Now this airlines strike in easyjet & Lufthansa will definitely put a ding on economy, and it’s growing further.)

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True me.. Tap-1142..

Make choices that make people wonder if you’ve lost your mind.
Disappoint people if needed.
Fly off the handle.
Learn to be alone.
Learn to be with others too.
Smile when you’re sad, just to confuse those who are trying to bring you down.
Live a good life.
Be kind when you can and understanding when you can’t.
Be irreplaceable, undefeatable, incorrigible.
Do all of the small things with grace, laughter and an unshakeable belief in what’s to come.
Don’t you worry.
Be a fearless authentic version of yourself.
Life is fun, let it be.

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True me.. Tap-1136..

Take chances, take a lot of them.
Because honestly, no matter where you end up and with whom it always end up the way it should be.
Your mistakes make you who you are.
You learn and grow with each choice you make.
Everything is worth it.
Say how you feel, always.
Be you, and be okay with it.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. James Webb Telescope is answering a lot of questions related to our planet & it’s making astrophysics exciting again. Enjoy this 6 minutes of fun-filled knowledge.)

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When people act shady, allow them.
When people betray your trust, allow them.
But never, ever sink to their level.
Their choices are a direct reflection of who they are, not who you are.
No matter how angry, hurt, or disappointed you may be, do not allow them to make you bitter.
Be better.
React with love.
Sometimes that means retaliating with understanding and compassion; other times it means retaliating with acceptance and sheer silence.
Whatever it is, make sure it benefits you as a human being instead of lowering you into a position which you would rather not be in.

Normal people dont go around destroying other human beings.
Only those who are hurt, lost, and confused cause pain.
Don’t be one of them.
Just take the lessons and move on gracefully.

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True me.. Tap-1106..

There is so much abundance, success, and happiness available to you.
Work for what you want.
Crave it.
Consume it.
Do what it takes to create what you need.
On the journey you will lose, you will be told NO, but that doesn’t mean you’re not worthy.
Success is a choice, choose it.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Big fan of MCU. She-Hulk looks amazing. Waiting for this one to come to Disney+.)

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True me.. Tap-1097..

We all have bad days, but the darkness always brings light.
You have the choice and the power to emerge from whatever darkness or hardship might be consuming you.
Use your inner light to shine and light up the world.
Sometimes it can be as simple as thinking happy thoughts or smiling when you don’t want to.

Light up the world with your smile even if you’re feeling down.

Like the moon, come out from behind the clouds!
Shine.
-BUDDHA.

Tap OUT..✌️

Tru2Day1194

Attitude is a choice.
Happiness is a choice.
Optimism is a choice.
Kindness is a choice.
Giving is a choice.
Respect is a choice.

Whatever choice you make makes you.
Choose wisely.

-Roy T. Bennett.

True me.. Tap-1082..

When someone treats you like you’re just one of many options, help them narrow their choice by removing yourself from the equation.
Sometimes you have to try not to care, no matter how much you do.
Because sometimes you can mean almost nothing to someone who means so much to you.
It’s not pride, it’s self-respect.

Don’t expect to see positive changes in your life if you surround yourself with negative people.
Don’t give part-time people a full-time position in your life.
Know your value and what you have to offer and never settle for anything less than what you deserve.

Tap OUT..✌️

Tru2Day1176

There is so much abundance, success, and happiness available to you.
Work for what you want.
Crave it.
Consume it.
Do what it takes to create what you need.
On the journey you will lose, you will be told no, but that doesn’t mean you’re not worthy.
Success is a choice, choose it.

True me.. Tap-1073..

13 HEALTHY REMINDERS FOR A HAPPY YOU:

1. The past is in the past, focus on the future.
2. Opinions do not define reality.
3. Everyone’s journey is different.
4. Time is the essence of healing.
5. Judgement is a confession of character.
6. Overthinking will lead to paralysis/sadness.
7. Happiness is an inside job, found within.
8. Positive thoughts, create positive actions.
9. Smiles are contagious.
10. Sprinkle kindness, it’s free.
11. You only fail if you quit/do not try.
12. What goes around, comes around. Karma it is.
13. The quicker you choose to move forward, the quicker the suffering ends.

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True me.. Tap-1061..

DON’T COMPARE YOUR actual self to a hypothetical self.
Don’t drown in a sea of ‘what if’s.
Don’t clutter your mind by imagining other versions of you, in parallel universes, where you made different decisions.
The internet age encourages choice and comparison, but don’t do this to yourself.
Theodore Roosevelt said; “Comparison is the thief of joy”.

You are you.
The past is the past.
The only way to make a better life is from inside the present.
To focus on regret does nothing but turn that very present into another thing you will wish you did differently.

Accept your own reality.
Be human enough to make mistakes.
Be human enough not to dread the future.
Be human enough to be, well, enough.
Accepting where you are in life makes it so much easier to be happy for other people without feeling terrible about yourself.
BE YOU.

Tap OUT..✌️

Tru2Day1147

Attitude is a choice.
Happiness is a choice.
Optimism is a choice.
Kindness is a choice.
Giving is a choice.
Respect is a choice.
Whatever choice you make makes you.
Choose wisely.

– Roy T. Bennett.

Tru2Day1139

When you procrastinate, you’re doing yourself a disservice.
Don’t delay your dreams for temporary gratification.

It’s the little choices that you make daily that will move your towards manifesting your dream life.

Tru2Day1112

Love yourself when you make a mistake, say the wrong thing, when you fail after trying your hardest, when you forget to do something, and when you talk too much.
You are going to make mistakes.
Instead of hating yourself for those mistakes,
choose to learn from your failures and LOVE YOURSELF anyway.

Tru2Day1082

HAPPINESS is a choice, not a result.
Nothing will make you happy until you choose to be happy.
No person will make you happy unless you decide to be happy.
Your HAPPINESS will not come to you.
It can only come from you.

(This instagram post got nothing to do with the post above. Right person will get the message why it’s there.)🕊️

True me.. Tap-981..

We always have choices in life.
We make our opportunities, and we must find it in ourselves to achieve our destiny.
We never really know what we can do or achieve unless we try.
Stop leaving something important up to chance.
Take control of it, and create the outcome you want.

It is not in the stars to hold our destiny but in ourselves.
-William Shakespeare.

(This music video got nothing to do with the post above. One of my favourite songs from the movie POPSTAR. If you watched the song & searching for the answer of where OSAMA BIN LADEN was living when he was killed? He was killed in Abbottabad, where he was living next to a Pakistani military headquarter for almost a year. Either ways this song is hella quirky & uncensored. Watch it with headphones.)

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True me.. Tap-979..

Make choices that make people wonder if you’ve lost your mind.
Don’t worry if you disappoint few people.
Fly off the handle.
Learn to be alone, but learn to be with others too.
Smile when you’re sad, just to confuse those who are trying to bring you down.
Be kind when you can.
Be understanding when you can’t.
Be irreplaceable, undefeatable, incorrigible.

Do all of the small things with grace, laughter and an unshakeable belief in what’s to come.
Live a good life.
You’re unique, electric, never-ceasing.
You’ll be fine.
LIFE IS FUN, LET IT BE.

Tap OUT..✌️

Tru2Day1073

You made that choice to improve for a reason.
Don’t go backwards to habits and situations that weren’t helping you evolve.
You have to keep reminding yourself why you even decided to move forward.

Stay positive about what’s to come by being consistent with your change.

Sunday story time.. 06.

Everyone wants to know how i tolerate my bestfriend DEMI since past 700 years of our friendship because her attitude is bit aggressive?

Let me answer & YES, it’s a long answer:
We were attending Lory’s birthday party near Cardiff bay. Party was over & some Justin Bieber song started playing. DEMI walked towards me & said; “Rudey, my pussy is drying up because of this shit song. Let’s leave & let’s drive to Tenby. We will talk about everything after reaching the beach.”

We both laughed & i still remember those exact words. And Yes, DEMI still calls me RUDEY because of my rude/angry/grumpy face.
We went through a bad fight before 5 months of that birthday party & i stopped talking to Demi. I decided i must allow her some time to think & respond logically instead of continuing that fight.
Only few friends know Tenby is my favourite coastal town in Britain & i prefer afternoon swimming when i think about relaxing.
DEMI made the right choice with place & timing.
We went swimming & she broke the ice while chilling at beach. We had a long open vivid conversation about everything which went loose.
We were able to come back stronger.
Years gone & our equation keeps getting better with time.
No matter how much i deny, she is the sassiest angel i ever came across. Bestfriends for some good reasons, and i can’t appreciate more.

(DON’T ASK ABOUT THE PICTURE. OLD ONE & STOLEN FROM MY SNAPCHAT.)

27-Feb is the date we had a bad fight & we both stopped communication for 5 months. We both still talk about the stupid reason behind it & what we missed in those 5 months. We laugh at each other’s silent treatment. We tease each other about why that was just unnecessary.

We humans always take goodness for granted & our ego stops us from accepting our flaws.
We miss opportunities.
We disrespect good people.
Sometimes we hurt others without even knowing.
We make blunders easily.

But there are very few who accept & cross that path to acknowledge own mess.
Who says it’s easy!!
Very few are ready to talk about what’s wrong in them & why they are ready to change for better instead of farting from mouth “THAT’S HOW I AM”.
I admire those who strive to be a better human.
It’s easy to go vulnerable towards such people who come with clean intentions.
Every equation can be easy, soothing, happening & loving.
JUST CHOOSE THOSE WHO CHOOSE YOU.

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True me.. Tap-956..

If you tell a skiier to don’t lose balance or don’t get hit by a tree, they definitely will. So their trainer usually tells them to follow the path & nothing more.

Our Human brains are so stupid that we can’t comprehend the NEGATIVE.
For example;
If i tell you to not think about an elephant, you can’t follow that one.
Didn’t you just think about an elephant right right now?

Life is like that & most people are exactly like that.
The people who worry too much about failure/betrayal/getting cheated/behaving bad are the ones who usually do all those negative things as their first line of defence.
And later overthinking makes everything worse with time.

Just become confident & stay consistent on your journey, i believe you can do that.
Confident & consistent with your thoughts/mindset.
Confident & consistent with communication/behaviour.
Confident & consistent with your lifestyle/habit/choices/goals.
Confident & consistent with the way you live.
You don’t need different stories for different people.
In short, you don’t need that negativity to prosper inside you.
Follow the path of light. Life is fun, let it flourish.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-953..

You can rise up from anything.
You can completely recreate yourself.
Nothing is permanent.
You’re not stuck.
You have choices.
You can think new thoughts.
You can learn something new.
You can create new habits.
Your consistent approach decides your fate.
All that matters is that you decide today and never look back.
SUCCESS is nothing but a DECISION to stay away from indecisiveness & inconsistency.

Godspeed lioness.
Copying some steps from my rulebook is an easy step. Even i learnt from best of the best in June-2019 while building my athleisure clothing brand. I thought this girl is a noob, she will need another year to understand business & brand positioning. But you surprised me once again.
Going exclusive to ASOS with a new clothing brand is a big deal. My people’s success contributes to a major chunk of my happiness.
Keep slaying. You know it’s all about love & respect.

Tap OUT..🤗

True me.. Tap-952..

This is your life.
You have everything you need inside you to live the life you have always dreamed of.
Take all that you have learned and experienced and create your own reality.
The beautiful part about life is that if you don’t like where you are, there’s always a new moment and a new day to start again.

Make smart, educated decisions.
Encourage yourself to make the choices today for the future you want tomorrow.
You can steer yourself any direction you choose.
(Not my words.)

Tap OUT..💪

Tru2Day1047

Everyone makes mistakes in life.
But that doesn’t mean they have to pay for them the rest of their life.
Sometimes good people make bad choices.
It doesn’t mean they’re bad.
It means they’re HUMAN.

Tru2Day1034

Attitude is a choice.
Happiness is a choice.
Optimism is a choice.
Kindness is a choice.
Giving is a choice.
Respect is a choice.

Whatever choice you make makes you.
Choose wisely.

Tru2Day1033

Train your mind to see the good in everything.
Positivity is a choice.

The happiness of your life depends on the quality of your thoughts.

Tru2Day1029

DON’T SETTLE.
Turn off shitty movies.
If a conversation’s dead, cut it.
If the meal’s shitty, avoid the restaurant.
If you’re not on the right path, simply get off it.
Don’t entertain what doesn’t entertain you.

True me.. Tap-920..

While you may not have control over everything that happens in life, you do have control over your mindset and perspective.

You can choose to think that you’re down on your luck, or you decide to see that you are being set-up for something extraordinary.

You can choose to focus on all the chaos happening around you, or you decide to look for the good that is emerging.

You can choose to live in a state of victimhood, or you can decide to live from the stance of a champion.

Make the decision that come what may come, this new year is going to be good and beautiful and something magical, not because the world’s problems finally faded away, but because you chose to start changing your perspective.

ONLY YOU CAN CONTROL YOUR PERSPECTIVE.
(Not my words.)

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True me.. Tap-905..

Your life will pass one way or another.
The events that will unfold are the events that will unfold.
You will meet amazing people who you are meant to.
You will find the opportunities you need.
You will desire what you want.
The choice is not what you experience, but how.
How is everything.
How is golden.
How closes doors and it opens them.
How creates something out of nothing.

It is not the years we live, but HOW we live them.
It is not who we cross paths with, but how we love them & appreciate them.
It is not what we are given or not, but how we take what’s in front of us and turn it into all we ever needed it to be.
It is how we experience life, day in and day out, in the quietest moments and biggest ways.
The HOW is the way.

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True me.. Tap-901..

I’m not perfect and I don’t have to be.
When I first realized this I felt an intense relief.
This realization allowed me to actually become a better person.
It gave me the strength to embrace my flaws and learn from my mistakes.
The pressure melted away.
I wouldn’t have been able to start examining my mistakes if I felt like I had to be perfect.
Once I found out it was okay to be imperfect, everything changed for the better.

Don’t criticize yourself for making mistakes.
Just be conscious, make new mistakes & learn from older ones.
Remove inconsistency from life.
LIFE IS FUN, LET IT BE.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I am a big sucker for every marvel cinematic universe character & yes i liked HAWKEYE. I didn’t know Jeremy Renner has some amazing songs till yesterday. I am kinda into this song. Thanks to my bestie DEMI for the recommendation. Those who fancy my snapchat stories & question since when i play piano, answer is since my grade-6 days.)

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True me.. Tap-889..

There are people in this life who will take advantage of you and tell you who they think you are.
It’s up to you what you do with that information.
The moment you let people make decisions on your behalf you have given up your dignity.
But you can always get it back as long as you remember to connect with your higher power.

The people who know the least about you always have the most to say.
Don’t let anyone take advantage or manipulate you.
Remind yourself that you’re entitled to the life and love you deserve.

Tap OUT..💪

Tru2Day987

Good grammar is like personal hygiene.
You can ignore it if you want.
But don’t be surprised when people draw their conclusions.

– Grammarly.

(My close friends & university mates must click here.)
😜

Tru2Day980

Be firm about your choices right now.
Don’t go backwards to habits and situations that weren’t helping you evolve.
You have to keep reminding yourself why you even decided to move forward.
Stay positive about what’s to come by being consistent with your change now.

Tru2Day977

Somebody is mad at you right now because you always picked peace over drama and distance over disrespect.

Choose people wisely.
Vibe with those who are consistent with their approach towards you.
(Not my words).

Tru2Day972

When you wake up each morning, take a moment to think about the kind of life you want to have.

Consistently consciously choose to have a happy life: one that is filled with love, laughter, good health and success.

Then begin your day focused on the things you can do to make this your reality.

A happy life is a CHOICE, choose it wisely.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Watch it & please understand the importance of general knowledge & basic day to day information. Just checking your Google feeds may help you escape embarassing situations. I mean, look at these fools.)

True me.. Tap-870..

It is important to know who you are, what you stand for and how you want to see yourself.
You have your whole life for you, and you determine what you do with it and how you will experience your journey.
There is no one who can tell you who you are, because you decide for yourself.
You make your own choices, you choose your own direction and you determine your own steps.

Think about who you are, think about how you position yourself against others.
Think of your qualities and your intentions.
See yourself as the person you want to be, without thinking about your status, your score, your ability or the people around you.
Nothing or nobody should affect who you are as a person, who you are in terms of thinking, who you are in your actions.
The life you have for you is your chance to follow your dreams, to discover, to develop and to enjoy yourself.
Imagine a life in which you are completely yourself, in which you fulfill your dreams.
Live your life. Life is fun, let it be.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-851..

DISCIPLINE IS ABOUT MAKING CHOICE AFTER CHOICE CONSISTENTLY THAT’S ALIGNED WITH OUR INTENTIONS.

IN ANY MOMENT, WE CAN MAKE A CHOICE THAT SUPPORTS AN INTENTION.
OR WE CAN MAKE A CHOICE THAT SUPPORTS AN OLD HABIT, A LACK OF INTENTION OR A FEAR.

ATTITUDE,
HAPPINESS,
OPTIMISM,
KINDNESS,
GIVING,
RESPECT,
GROWTH,
LOYALTY,
TRUTHFUL COMMUNICATION,
WHATEVER CHOICE YOU MAKE, MAKES YOU.

CHOOSE WISELY.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. If you are watching from USA, watch it for investment tips. If you are watching from any other part of the world, watch it for some general knowledge on money. I am a big fan ot Kevin O’Leary. I saw him giving a 100 score to someone for the first time, that too to an Indian guy. My blood goes back to eastern part of India. Parents are next to god in our culture. And nothing comes above family values & money management skills.)

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True me.. Tap-847..

Nobody’s going to do your life for you.
You have to do it yourself,
whether you’re rich or poor,
out of money or raking it in,
the beneficiary of ridiculous fortune or terrible injustice.
And you have to do it no matter what is true.
No matter what is hard.
No matter what unjust, sad, sucky things have befallen you.
Self pity is a dead-end road.
You make the choice to drive down it.
It’s up to you to decide to stay parked there or to turn around and drive out.

LIFE ITSELF IS A PRIVILEGE.
BUT TO LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST, WELL THAT IS A CHOICE. (Not my words).

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-784..

WHAT DO YOU WANT?

When your body is too tired to carry on,
when your soul feels weary from the journey,
when your mind feels exhausted!!

Take control and ask yourself the question:
WHAT DO YOU WANT?

Then, answer it.
DOUBTING YOURSELF IS NORMAL.
LETTING IT STOP YOU IS A CHOICE.
And, every time,
when the fulfillment of your answer outweighs the uncomfortableness that you are feeling in the moment,
CARRY ON.
DON’T QUIT.
KEEP MARCHING TOWARDS YOUR GOAL.

TOMORROW IS A DIRECT RESULT OF WHAT YOU CHOOSE TO DO TODAY. (Not my words).

(This video of Warren Buffett got nothing to do with the post above. But i completely agree with this 42 seconds advice by him on investment. There’s a reason i am always excited to explore cheap farmlands available at any part of the world.)

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True me.. Tap-782..

It is important to know who you are, what you stand for and how you want to see yourself.
You have your whole life for you, and you determine what you do with it and how you will experience your journey.
There is no one who can tell you who you are, because you decide for yourself.
You make your own choices, you choose your own direction and you determine your own steps.

Think about who you are, think about how you position yourself against others.
Think of your qualities, your intentions & consistent approach.
See yourself as the person you want to be, without thinking about your status, your score, your ability or the people around you.
Nothing or nobody should affect who you are as a person, who you are in terms of thinking, who you are with your true intentions, who you are in your actions.
The life you have for you is your chance to follow your dreams, to discover, to develop and to enjoy yourself.
Imagine a life in which you are completely yourself, in which you fulfill your dreams.
Live your life.

Tap OUT..✌️

Tru2Day824

Everything you do is based on the choices you make.
It’s not your parents, your past relationships, your job, the economy, the weather, an argument or your age that is to blame.
You and only you are responsible for every decision and choice you make, period.

True me.. Tap-674..

When you react to something someone says or does, you may have a problem with boundaries. If someone is able to cause havoc by doing or saying something, he/she is in control of you at that point and your boundaries are lost.

When you respond, you remain in control with options and choices. If you feel yourself reacting, step away and regain control of yourself so people can’t force you to do or say something you do not want to do or say; and something that violates your separateness.

When you have kept your boundaries, choose the best option. The difference between responding and reacting is choice. When you are reacting, they are in control. When you respond, you are in control.

RESPOND, DON’T REACT.

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True me.. Tap-642..

Forgive yourself,
for the bad decisions,
for the times you lacked understanding,
for the choices that hurt others and yourself.
for being young and reckless.

These experiences are what matters most right now. These are vital lessons & your willingness to grow from them.

Life is choice, all day everyday. Who we talk to, where we sit, what we say, how we say it. And our lives become defined by our choices. It’s as simple and as complex as that. And as powerful.

(Not my words).

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True me.. Tap-629..

You need to ignore what everyone else is doing and achieving. Your life is about breaking your own limits and outgrowing yourself to live YOUR best life. You are not in competition with anyone else; plan to outdo your past, not other people.

Stop apologising. You don’t have to say sorry for how you laugh, how you dress, how you make your hair, how you speak. You don’t have to be sorry for being yourself. Do it fearlessly. It’s time to accept: this is you, and you gotta spend the rest of your life with you. So start loving your sarcasm, your awkwardness, your weird habits, your unique sense of humour, your voice, your talents, your everything. It will make your life so much easier.
HAPPY EASTER TO ALL.

Tap OUT..💪

Tru2Day693

Liking someone is a choice. Choose those with whom you can vibe & grow. That’s an easy way to understand, appreciate, cherish & celebrate any equation. Life is fun, let it be.

True me.. Tap-590..

Sharing something basic yet important today. Let’s talk about SLOUCHING. It’s not just about bad posture or bad manner. So why you must sit straight!!

The consequences of slouching are worse than merely having bad manners. It puts pressure on your spine and internal organs and influences how you feel. Sitting up straight isn’t just about having good etiquette, It’s good for your overall health and that means both physical and mental. Good posture correlates with reduced symptoms of depression, increased energy levels and a more positive attitude. Even such small things make a difference. In case you are sitting while reading this post, just sit straight.

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True me.. Tap-588..

Never ever feel like “I don’t have a choice”. No matter how tough a situation may seem, you always have choices and while you might feel overwhelmed or not brave enough to consider them all, you always have options to choose from to help you make the right choice.

You can think about what advice you would give to a friend in a similar situation or what someone you admire. You take this into account and see if you can do the same. Life is always about right choices.

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True me.. Tap-578..

You will never win an argument with a narcissist. People with narcissistic tendencies are unable or utterly uninterested in resolving a conflict at hand. They simply cannot have a healthy mature conversation. If you’ve ever found yourself arguing with a narcissist, you know that you are always left wondering why you even engage with them in the first place!!

The trouble is when you have a narcissist in life, even a small request for comment can turn into a full-blown argument that goes around and around in circles. And the worst part is that, you feel guilty by the end of it even if nothing is your fault. Well here it’s not you, it’s them. Narcissists are highly skilled in manipulation techniques that are meant to confuse and disorient you. You’re not communicating with a logical mind and that’s why you always feel insane after disagreements. So do what you can to avoid getting into these arguments in the first place, that’s the only way to win.

Tap OUT..🤗

True me.. Tap-575..

Once in a while one friend or another asks me this question: “Tap, what you do when you are stressed!!?”.

OK. This one has two solutions for me;
1. Figure out who/what caused stress & kill that reason behind it silently.
2. Lift weights, do some 200 push-ups, look at my imperfect 5-pack abs in mirror, talk to my PhD research associates to figure out who is running ahead of me, login to my amazon seller portal to see how many boxes of whey protein we sold today, then have a pint of my favourite low calorie sugarfree ice cream in sea salt caramel flavour while watching Tom and Jerry.

Two easy ways actually. Most of the time i prefer the 2nd one because murder is still illegal. In case i get the opportunity to kill someone without getting punished, i would love to kill my bestie bitch by leaving her inside a huge bucket in any snowy swedish village during 2070 winter. If you are one of my close friends, you already know i am a simple stupid sober sassy person who is unaware of all emotional melodramas. Nobody is big enough to hurt me or give me stress. The worst things a human can do is; LIE. Every liar falls in line with every negative prediction. And i bet, after a while they seem fun & funny because of their repetitive pattern of lying. Fuck fake goodness. Tappie loves real people with clean intentions & bad will always work if it’s real.

Have a good one.
Tap OUT..😘

True me.. Tap-574..

Most of the time we humans hold ourselves back from pursuing our dreams because we care about the people who hurt us & moreover we consider their words in a negative emotional way. Let me talk about both and why so!!

How many times you thought “My dreams are impossible!!”. If your goals/dreams are practical/realistic enough to be pursued, never give up on them. It’s only you who knows own strengths & weaknesses. Don’t let someone else’s negative experience stop you from going after what you want. Follow your heart and take risks, don’t stick with the safe and easy choices just because you’re afraid of taking a leap of faith. Your dreams are not impossible and they should be bigger than your fears. Sticking to your vision will eventually beat to progress and yield the results you desire.

Sometimes we do feel “I am stuck with people who hurt me”. Never entertain those who walk over your sanity. Your life is precious and too short not to look out for yourself. Have enough self-respect & self-love to distance yourself from those who constantly mistreat you and bring you down. It may be tough and hurt for a while but everything will be ok, more importantly you’ll be ok. Walking away from a bad situation doesn’t make you weak, it makes you strong. Leaving means acknowledging that it’s not about them seeing your worth, but you realizing your own worth.

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True me.. Tap-563..

I never understood it & i will never understand it; how the fuck few dumb pussies dream about material success without self discipline! And then the same motherfuckers blame me for grabbing market share!! Please get your ass sorted. You got an issue with me, talk to me about it instead of telling whole world about “How bad is Tap!”. I have said it hundred times, the businessman side of me is nasty & i am never changing. I never claim to be some all round success story. I do only what i love to do & i am consistent, i will keep on winning because it’s my joyride now.

Liking someone is a choice, no matter you are a friend/client/colleague or competetor. Here it’s my choice. Choose those with whom you can vibe & grow. That’s an easy way to understand, appreciate, cherish & celebrate any equation. Life is fun, let it be.

(Pardon my words. This has to come out.)
Tap OUT..💪

(This video/song got nothing to do with the post above. I love to hear something different once in a while. Among all newbie artists/rappers Kid LAROI has the best control over vocals to pull a song with minimalistic music backing the hook.)