You can’t skip chapters, that’s not how life works.
You have to read every line, meet every character.
You won’t enjoy all of it.
Hell, some chapters will make you cry for weeks.
You will read things you don’t want to read.
You will have moments when you don’t want the pages to end.
But you have to keep going.
Stories keep the world revolving.
Live yours, don’t miss out.
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You can’t skip chapters, that’s not how life works.
You have to read every line, meet every character.
You won’t enjoy all of it.
Hell, some chapters will make you cry for weeks.
You will read things you don’t want to read.
You will have moments when you don’t want the pages to end.
But you have to keep going.
Stories keep the world revolving.
Live yours, don’t miss out.
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Never RE-FRIEND A PERSON that has tried to destroy your character, your money or your relationships.
A SNAKE only SHEDS ITS SKIN to become a BIGGER SNAKE.
(Not my words.)
You can’t skip chapters, that’s not how life works.
You have to read every line.
You have to meet every character.
You won’t enjoy all of it.
Some chapters will make you cry for weeks.
You will read things you don’t want to read.
You will have moments when you don’t want the pages to end.
But you have to keep going.
Stories keep the world revolving.
Live yours, don’t miss out.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Time to clap for Liz Truss, the shortest serving prime minister in UK’s history. 6 weeks all it took to fuck the country’s economy & stock market, made it fall 310+ billion dollars. We also saw the lowest ever pound sterling to USD since 1985.)
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13 Reminders:
1. The past is in the past, focus on the future.
2. Opinions do not define reality.
3. Everyone’s journey is different.
4. Time is the essence of healing.
5. Judgement is a confession of character.
6. Overthinking will lead to paralysis/sadness.
7. Happiness is an inside job, found within.
8. Positive thoughts, create positive actions.
9. Smiles are contagious.
10. Sprinkle kindness, it’s free.
11. You only fail if you quit/do not try.
12. What goes around, comes around.
13. The quicker you choose to move forward, the quicker the suffering ends.
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What interests me the most, is a persons mind.
Their stories.
Their thoughts.
The memories.
The secrets that lay dormant in their head, waiting to be told.
I find it so interesting.
Cause I have been through a lot.
And I am just fascinated by other’s struggles.
Everyone has their own struggle.
I love learning from someone’s life.
How they came to be the person they are today, why they act or talk the way they do.
These all dictate a person’s character, values & personality.
It’s just very interesting.
Be an authentic version of yourself fearlessly.
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Worry about your CHARACTER and not your REPUTATION,
Because your character is who you are,
And your reputation is only what people think of you.
How to be the main character of your life:
1. LIVE WITH PURPOSE:
The first step to some major main character energy is to live with purpose.
As the main character of your life, one of the worst possible things you can do is to let it pass you by.
The goals, desires, and accomplishments you hope to see happen are up to you to work towards.
2. SET BOUNDARIES:
While you’re learning to be main character in your life, you need to develop confidence and comfortability in setting boundaries with other people.
You know what you want, and what’s important to you and you need to be okay with removing things and relationships that don’t allow you to maintain those.
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13 HEALTHY REMINDERS FOR A HAPPY YOU:
1. The past is in the past, focus on the future.
2. Opinions do not define reality.
3. Everyone’s journey is different.
4. Time is the essence of healing.
5. Judgement is a confession of character.
6. Overthinking will lead to paralysis/sadness.
7. Happiness is an inside job, found within.
8. Positive thoughts, create positive actions.
9. Smiles are contagious.
10. Sprinkle kindness, it’s free.
11. You only fail if you quit/do not try.
12. What goes around, comes around. Karma it is.
13. The quicker you choose to move forward, the quicker the suffering ends.
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9 MONEY RULES FOR EVERYONE:
1) Always have 6 months of emergency fund in cash.
2) Save 20% and invest 20% of gross income, minimum.
3) Pay cash for large expenses.
(Engagement ring, wedding, dream honeymoon).
30% down payment, minimum on a house.
4) Never question spending money on books, education, health & charity/social cause which feeds your empathic heart.
5) Economy for short flights.
Business class on flights over 4 hours.
6) Buy the best and keep it for as long as possible.
7) Earn enough to work only with people you respect and vibe.
8) Marry a person with good character who matches your energy, vibe, goals & journey of life with consistency.
9) Prioritize time outside the spreadsheet.
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You can’t skip chapters, that’s not how life works.
You have to read every line, meet every character.
You won’t enjoy all of it.
Hell, some chapters will make you cry for weeks.
You will read things you don’t want to read.
You will have moments when you don’t want the pages to end.
But you have to keep going.
Stories keep the world revolving.
Live yours, don’t miss out.
BE YOU.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. It’s a Punjabi song & i have to talk about it. There’s Tory Lanez, i knew there’s something about girls & heart break. This guy needs to leave that feelings train. Now the good part; Diljit Dosanjh, the best Punjabi singer of all time i guess & his presence/MC is out of this world.)🔥
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When we say “STRIVE TO BE SUCCESSFUL”, we must mention SUCCESS in what form!
In my eyes SUCCESS is an amazing form of accomplishment & it can be anything.
You are a good student, that’s a SUCCESS.
You are a good employee who loves & enjoys his/her job, that’s SUCCESS.
You are an entrepreneur or a businessman to a profitable venture, that’s a SUCCESS.
You lost 10kilo body weight in a month for shooting a music video, that’s SUCCESS.
You travelled 41 countries before turning 29, that’s SUCCESS.
You are truthful about what you are, that’s SUCCESS.
You never showed deceptive or inconsistent characteristics, that’s SUCCESS.
You are confident & consistent, that’s SUCCESS.
You never allowed bad times or bad people bring down your vibe, that’s SUCCESS.
You were patient with time to get what you wanted, that’s SUCCESS.
You baked the best sourdough pizza & sugarfree cheesecake for all your 17 friends, that’s a SUCCESS.
You know your bestfriend DEMI is a crybaby & despite that you had a long conversation about all your differences in opinion while grabbing her by waist, even that’s a SUCCESS.
SUCCESS is such a wildly overrated word that makes most people scared to even think about it.
We must use this word “SUCCESS” in our day to day life to feel more fulfilled in our way of living.
AS LONG AS YOU KEEP GOING,
YOU’LL KEEP GETTING BETTER.
AND AS YOU GET BETTER,
YOU GAIN MORE CONFIDENCE.
THAT ALONE IS SUCCESS. (Not my words.)
Consistent effort with clean intentions always leads to SUCCESS.
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The most attractive thing about you should have less to do with your face and body, and more to do with your heart and how you treat other people.
Let’s face it, we see an appearance first and have our first impression based on an appearance.
Our appearance is where we can hide behind.
But an appearance does not say anything about a character.
Nowadays it seems that we judge each other on our appearance, who we are and what we stand for does not seem to matter.
No effort is made to get to know the person behind an appearance.
It is our own mental attitude which makes the world what it is for us.
Our thoughts make things beautiful, our thoughts make things ugly. Not our eyes.
The whole world is in our minds.
Learn to see things in proper light.
Learn to see souls instead of bodies, by using your mind instead of your eyes.
LEARN TO SEE.
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We all do mistakes.
Almost all mistakes can be fixed.
Admission of mistake is a learning.
Denying a mistake shows sign of POOR CHARACTER.
And CHARACTER FLAWS can never be fixed.
We’re never doomed because we’re being reborn each day and life is filled with new opportunities.
You have the freedom to wake up one day and decide to travel the world, change career paths, or reach out to a friend you haven’t spoken to in years.
Every day is filled with new ideas and possibilities.
Do something unexpected and out of character today.
Free yourself.
Each morning, we are born again.
What we do today is what matters most.
-BUDDHA.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Watch this video to understand little more about our stupid human mindset on hustle, goals & achieving things in short. Nobody understands it’s about being productive & how much value you are bringing. IF YOU WANT TO MOVE FAST, GO SLOW.)
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Worry about your character and not your reputation, Because your character is who you are.
And your reputation is only what people think of you.
We all want to be liked and loved, but when we focus on this instead of making sure we love ourselves first, we get lost in other people’s opinions and we stop living honestly.
If someone calls you a name, don’t let it bother you, don’t react.
Feeding into their drama will only negatively affect your character.
What makes you special and unique?
Think about one of your eccentricities and embrace it every day.
When we are consumed by what other people think of us, we allow them to dictate how we live our lives, and then without realizing it, we lose touch with who we are.
Respect your individuality.
BE YOU.
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Accept your flaws & also remember that just acceptance isn’t enough.
There’s no positive outcome without making things right, that’s the only way you can improve yourself.
You have to keep on working towards betterment of yourself.
Being BEAUTIFUL doesn’t mean about your outer appearance but your inner core.
So what makes a person beautiful are their manners, their character, their thoughts, their behaviour & their consistent approach with everything they stand for.
BE YOU.
Everything I have gone through I could not have done without the love, faith, and support of my family.
Even though i stay away from home since i was 16, just being around them once in a year or two brings me joy and I forget about any problem or fear I have.
They accept me with all of my flaws.
And I accept them as well, no matter what.
Soak up the love of your family today & everyday.
Be grateful for the goodness you receive.
Love them for everything they are and aren’t.
Family gives us strength and builds our character. (Not my words.)
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(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Big fan of Elon Musk & his opinions on shaping our world. In case you have enough time, try to watch full video. It’s pure fun & educational at the same time.)
Just like snowflakes, there is no one else on this planet like you.
Don’t waste your time trying to be like other people.
Be the best you and own it.
You’re best at being yourself, not anyone else.
If we all looked, talked, and walked the same, no one would be unique.
Individuality wouldn’t exist.
Being different is what makes us special and world so exciting.
Assess your character.
Be certain that you’re not modeling yourself after someone, but just being who you are meant to be.
Go ahead, be weird because “normal” is boring.
Always be a first grade version of yourself instead of a second grade version of someone else.
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One of my favourite feelings is laughing with someone and realizing half way trough how much you enjoy them and their existence.
Things are expected of you of your whole life, you are expected to make career, that you score well and have achieved a certain status.
But life is not about status and work.
These are extras.
What matters is that you can develop as a person.
That you simply learn, discover and enjoy your journey.
So instead of worrying about the numbers and status, you have to enjoy the journey and the small moments that can mean so much more.
I don’t want to be around people anymore that judge or talk about what people do.
I want to be around people that do things.
I want to be around people who believe in slow & steady progress.
I want to be with people who gradually grow a rich character and a bank account.
I want to be around people who remain consistent with their words, approach, intentions & journey of life.
I want to be around people that dream and support and do things.
Supportive people bond long-term with growth mindset.
Oppertunist comes to score petty short-term goals, it takes time but you will get rid of them today or tomorrow. (Not my words.)
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Mama once said;
“When someone has options in LOVE, he/she has no LOVE, no STANDARDS & no SELF-RESPECT. It’s just cheap character at play”.
I second this one.
We already know that no one is perfect.
But knowing that doesn’t keep us from doing things we might feel badly about later.
Your mistakes & understanding to own them makes you unique.
But when the same mistake is repeated often; that’s a sign of inconsistency in your character, which can later birth numerous bad habits & a peculiar tendency to become a systematic liar.
Start from owning your mistakes one by one.
I’ve found in times like that it’s best to come clean and own your mistake.
People will be so much more forgiving and sympathetic when you are honest about it because they can relate.
Even better, you will inspire them to do the same thing by showing them how honest and beautiful you can be without being perfect.
Stay strong.
Tell on yourself today about something you feel badly about having done or said in the past.
We should regret our mistakes and learn from them,
but never carry them forward into the future with us.
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The most attractive thing about you should have less to do with your face and body, and more to do with your heart and how you treat other people.
I am talking about kindness & empathy.
Let’s face it, we see an appearance first and have our first impression based on an appearance.
Our appearance is where we can hide behind.
But an appearance does not say anything about a character.
Nowadays it seems that we judge each other on our appearance, who we are and what we stand for does not seem to matter.
No effort is made to get to know the person behind an appearance.
It is our own mental attitude which makes the world what it is for us.
Our thoughts make things beautiful,
our thoughts make things ugly.
Not our eyes.
The whole world is in our minds.
Learn to see things in proper light.
Learn to see souls instead of bodies by using your mind instead of your eyes.
LEARN TO SEE WHAT’S REAL.
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A person’s CHARACTER is not about how they come to your life or how long did they stay!! It’s about how consistent & truthful they are or how they leave.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. But it’s a good dose of knowledge & entertainment. Allow yourself to grasp this 10 minute YouTube video, you will have a clear idea about money, passion, relationship & so much more.)
A person’s personality & character must sparkle positivity & good vibes.
Nobody cares shit about beauty of your face or body after a while, they are just accessories.
And,
Accessories are a welcome, but not a must.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. My love for horses can’t be described in words. This situation in Kazakhstan is scary. I am that kinda stupid boy whose emotions are locked to babies & puppies. While watching this 1.40 minute video, all i wanted was to somehow adopt all those horses & bring them to my backyard.)
Elegance & Character will never go out of style.
I have seen most people entering & exiting relationships with a bad taste in mouth about their previous partner, i experienced that bad taste just once in my life. A lesson which taught me: “CHEAP GETS CHEAPER WITH TIME”. When somebody offers you a lackluster behaviour, just recite the previous bold line i mentioned & never forget YOU ARE THE MOST EXPENSIVE THING IN THIS WORLD.
Life is all about being a better you with time, no matter you are alone or with someone in any kind of relationship/commitment. If someone isn’t helping you in this journey to be a better you, that’s not your person. Prioritise those who prioritise you.
Few friends still questioning “Whether i am dating Demi?”
Answer is a huge NO.
Yes I adore her character, elegance, intelligence & an open mindset to receive everything. That’s the only person with whom i can have a conversation about data analytics to Coco Chanel. Very few people can be that versatile. What sets both of us apart is “I really can’t remember what’s the last time i called her & she didn’t answer my call”. No doubt i have some University pals who are on a 24/7 alert mode to join my stupid weekend plans, but Demi does that no matter whether she is in my city or somewhere else. That’s one thing about her i will forever be grateful, we are best friends for a reason and that’s never changing.
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We have two ears and one tongue so that we would listen more and talk less.
– Diogenes.
This video has nothing to do with the post above. Canadian premier’s message for christmas with warnings about current COVID-19 pandemic situation & it’s restrictions. See it & you will find some worth in it irrespective of your geographic location. Stay home stay safe.
Your truth, good habits, learnings, self-respect & self-esteem shape your character. And a weak character will always result in a weaker attitude towards life.
I have a bad habit to block random people from my life. The way I see it is; if I can be happy for a day without entertaining someone, I can be happy my whole life without that person. That’s another reason how I scare people away. This tiny paragraph is for flings & acquaintances.
Now let’s talk about the people who are in my life. I feel cherished & valued because my people understand how much I value self-respect. I don’t have anything like EGO in me. You can’t offend me. Being a human I too have flaws & I admit them time after time whenever I mess up something. Mama once said; “Do amazing new mistakes, that’s how you can understand where you can go wrong. But never repeat that same mistake again, that’s when you grow to be a bigger better you.” That’s the goal of life now. Goal is to become a bigger better TAP without entertaining unnecessary people or drama.
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Asked one of my friend whether she is excited about the vote/poll results & what’s her opinion about current situation of USA!?! Her response made me reschedule today’s post to some other day & write this one instead.
Her reply was: “I voted for the first time because I can’t stand that orange piece of shit. How can a creep take over the role of PRESIDENT!?! USA is a long rant right now. Not because of Trump, I don’t give a shit what he says. My problem is his supporters. People are ok with that full time lier & part time womanizer, which means all his supporters also support the way that jerk thinks. Situation here is sad.”
Yes this post is related to US elections. Still no matter from where you are reading this, I have something to share with you on politics. Most of the time politicians start barking about NATIONALISM or RELIGION when they fail to keep their promises on DEVELOPMENT. The only quality you should look forward in a politician is his/her character & integrity. Now I hope you have the answer whom to vote for.
(People reading it from USA please don’t take it personally. I have cousins & friends who live in your country since they were in their mum’s tummy/dad’s dong. Leaving this political mess & a dash of racism/inequality aside, I LOVE DISNEYLAND.)
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Once you know something is substandard in someone, work towards getting rid of it. Bad company corrupts good character.
There was a time in my life when I used to hit gym every morning without fail, continued it for 3 whole years. Understood the capabilities of my body & mind, started feeling/looking the best version of myself after hitting that 5% bodyfat goal. I was always on schedule to sleep at night, because I was excited to wake up for 5AM morning workout. Body and mind both were on sync which helped me break my own comfort zone once again.
Yeah there were few who tried to stereotype me about my interest in gym & workout. The best part; all those who were saying that used to look like “Some Dad turned 50 & his only achievement is his beer belly”. How the fuck can “Gym” or “Workout” be a stereotype!! If it is, it is the best STEREOTYPE to be. At the end I must say “The difficulty in physical training/diet & lifestyle, handling such stereotypes with peace, all make you a DISCIPLINED person while strengthening your CHARACTER”.
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Weak attitude always results weak character. To figure out what’s your attitude with life, keep yourself bound to two ways “EITHER LIVE LIKE A KING OR WHO THE FUCK IS A KING!!”. This attitude will take you to places. Never run behind reputation or popularity, they will fade. CHARACTER will remain with you till you die. That’s the reason you can’t copy character, you have to hammer & forge yourself into one.
My ancestors belong to the land of ASHOKA, Maurya dynasty. Such sayings still exist, it’s us humans who usually forget our values. At the end “YOUR CHARACTER CONTROLS YOUR MIND’S CREATION”. A strong CHARACTER with sorted ATTITUDE is the goal. That’s all.
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Your intelligence, education, qualification, looks & skills are worth nothing if your character is not in sync with life. To earn the legitimacy of being a valuable asset to your work & society, you need to keep on being a TRUTHFUL YOU at every phase of life.
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Be more concerned about your CHARACTER over your REPUTATION. It’s you who is facing yourself 24/7 live. Never try to think about how people pursue you, be a TRUE you.
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I am as good or bad as I know myself. It has nothing to do with how people see me. Self worth comes from own character. I am trying to master it, wish me little luck & love.
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Although FATE represents circumstances, how you react depends on your CHARACTER.
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