You still have so much time to fail. You have time to fail at love. At your career. At your creative aspirations. At your personal goals.
You are still young enough to fall and pick yourself back up, so many more times. So don’t be afraid to take those big scary risks now, while you still have the time and the strength and the determination to start over.
Social media has made PERFECT look achievable, so now REAL has become undesirable. Expecting perfection from life, friends, your partner, your career and from yourself is the enemy of happiness. Instead of perfection, search for balance, contentment, fulfilment, and progress.
• These hard times, this pain, these lessons – one day they’ll be your strength, your awareness, your blessings. • Stop expecting honesty from people who lie to themselves. • You’ll never look good trying to make someone look bad. • Save your explanations for those that are determined to understand you. • Give your silence to those that are determined to misunderstand you. • Your life is too short to be unhappy 5 days a week in exchange for 2 days of freedom. • Don’t be upset from people you don’t respect. • Life is not tiring. Wanting life to be a certain way but not having the confidence to make it that way, is tiring. • Your consistent approach to anything you desire dictates your success in career, business & relationships.
If you feel like you’re torn between who the world is telling you to be and who your heart is telling you to be, go with your heart. Always go with your heart. The world may be telling you to go one way with your relationships, your career, your friendships, your home. The world may be telling you to act a certain way, be less emotional, be more emotional, be louder, be softer, to be something else. Don’t listen.
Quiet down the outside world however you can meditate, take a trip, shut off your phone, open your journal and listen to what your heart is telling you deep inside. Listen to how it feels about your career, your relationships. Listen to how it feels about your life. At the end of the day, you will never go wrong when you follow your heart because, that’s the AUTHENTIC version of you. (Not my words.)
We live in a generation that romanticizes hustle, and moving forward as quickly as possible when it comes to careers and our success within them. But there is no point in rushing quickly towards a life that will not inspire you or fulfill you. It is okay to slow down. It is okay to take the time you need. You are in no rush to figure out your own soul.
It’s never too late to start over, it’s never too late to change your mind, it’s never too late to give up on the dreams you thought you wanted for ones that genuinely excite and challenge you. It’s never too late. It’s okay to take your time.
This is your life. You’re allowed to change your mind. To change your heart. You’re allowed to be a different person. To wake up one day and not want to do the things you’ve been doing all your life. You’re allowed to love who you want. To move on from the people who are not good to you. To let go of anyone without any kind of explanation. Without any kind of regret. You’re allowed to make mistakes. To learn from them. Or not to learn from them and experience everything all over again. You’re allowed to forget your past if you want to. Or to stay in it but you must also understand that this is not how you will grow. You’re allowed to change careers. To dress differently. To chase different dreams. To change locations, even if, at first, you’re terrified to do so. You’re allowed to dislike yourself but also allowed to change those same parts you don’t see eye to eye with. To work on them until you’re completely comfortable with who you are.
This is your life. Make it count. Make your own validation. Your own path. Your own way of life. You are enough. And you are not broken. You’re a lot stronger than you want to believe. NOW BREATHE.
Nobody is perfect. Equally important is knowing how to forgive yourself. Do not obsess over your past mistakes. The more you obsess and hold on to it, the more energy and power you give it. So let it go, learn from it, and move on. Forgive yourself for a mistake you made or something you’ve done that you now regret. Allow yourself to let it go.
Leave all your inconsistent behaviour behind. Learn to be in sync with life. It can be your career, hobbies, relationship or your health, learn to be CONSISTENT if you want success in any field of your life. Live with no regrets. Life is fun, let it be.
One of my favourite feelings is laughing with someone and realizing half way trough how much you enjoy them and their existence.
Things are expected of you of your whole life, you are expected to make career, that you score well and have achieved a certain status. But life is not about status and work. These are extras.
What matters is that you can develop as a person. That you simply learn, discover and enjoy your journey. So instead of worrying about the numbers and status, you have to enjoy the journey and the small moments that can mean so much more.
I don’t want to be around people anymore that judge or talk about what people do. I want to be around people that do things. I want to be around people who believe in slow & steady progress. I want to be with people who gradually grow a rich character and a bank account. I want to be around people who remain consistent with their words, approach, intentions & journey of life. I want to be around people that dream and support and do things.
Supportive people bond long-term with growth mindset. Oppertunist comes to score petty short-term goals, it takes time but you will get rid of them today or tomorrow. (Not my words.)
Nothing is more important than empathy for another human being’s suffering. Not a career. Not wealth. Not intelligence. Certainly not status. We have to feel for one another if we’re going to survive with dignity.
Beggar wants money right right now. Daily wage workers want money at the end of their workday, let’s say daily payments. Employees work because they want monthly salary. Businessman invests money & waits for few months to recover his investment with some profit on top. Share market investor invests & waits for years to see where his investment heading next.
Now, let’s talk about the fun part in it. There are only two winners in this money game. 1. The businessman who’s is building wealth while working for himself. 2. The stock market investor is building generational wealth. Here i am referring those who invest in hedge funds & multi-bagger stocks.
In other two cases of employees & begger, the person who wants money earliest is the poorest one. Actually in all 4 scenarios, the person who waits the longest for MONEY is also the RICHEST, he is the one who has the highest amount of PATIENCE. Never run behind EASY/QUICK MONEY, the outcome will be devastating. Urge towards EASY/QUICK MONEY is the reflection of cheap mindset, lack of knowledge & major character flaws in a person’s PERSONALITY. Learn about how MONEY works in our current world & have PATIENCE in learning. Same i can say for education, relationships & weightloss journey/fitness as well, your PATIENCE is the only determining factor. God has a perfect timing for everything; never early, never late. It takes a little patience and faith. But it’s worth the wait, always.
(This video got something to do with the post above. If you have patience, watch it. And the title of this video is: WHY SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE ARE AGGRESSIVELY PATIENT!.)
PEOPLE DON’T HAVE THE PATIENCE TO BUILD A BUSINESS FOR 3 YEARS WHILE NURTURING OWN IDEA, BUT THEY HAVE THE PATIENCE TO GO TO WORK FOR SOMEONE ELSE NEXT 30 YEARS.
(There is no difference between any inconsistent partner in a relationship & an impatient person with career/money. Both have zero idea about WTF they are doing with own life. You will always hear lines like “GO WITH THE FLOW” from this kinda people. And remember it’s only dead fishes who go with the flow.)
Build big with bliss, banter, badassery & balance.
In our modern world most people stress about their job/career/professional life without even thinking “your skills are equally important as your qualifications & you don’t have to settle for a career”. Most people believe that the career they choose coming out of college will put them on a path they must follow for the remainder of their lives.
But the truth is that they could stray from that path whenever they want and finding new paths is actually becoming more common in our ever-evolving world. Having diverse jobs and experiences is better than limiting yourself to only one thing. Career changes are possible for anyone who is eager to learn and adapt. So don’t worry too much. You can always change the course of your professional life if you’re not happy with it.
Everybody talks about “turning your hobby/passion into your work is fun”, but nobody talks about these hobbies/passion require a lot lot lot of efforts till you fine-tune them into a career/job. If you want to be a youtuber/influencer/musician/architect/engineer/fashion designer or whatever for that matter, you can be that which is totally fine. But ask yourself whether you want that for the right reasons!?!
Everything is a time consuming long long learning process. If you aren’t ready for the learning process to live your passion, then you aren’t made for it. Everything grows over time. If you want something, pick the one you actually can. Then you have to pour hours and hours of determined effort into it. If that’s fun to you, i hope & wish that turns into your rare real success story.
The only constant in life is “CHANGE”. Everything around you including your schedule, surrounding, people, people’s behaviour, your relationships/career/bank balance, your perspective towards seeing life, everything will change with time. You aren’t allowed to give up. Adapt & Advance towards a better tomorrow.
Doesn’t matter you are in a relationship or not, there is always a journey which is just yours. Your career path, your business goals, your own hobbies; these are all yours which make you a better beautiful you.
Now if your love/relationship isn’t helping you grow towards a better you, then stop lying to yourself. We enter relationships with tons of TRUTH & LOYALITY to become a better version of ourselves. We do it for our own happiness. The other person is there for a push. We do the same for them as well. Emotional availability speaks when words fall short.
Till you discover your worth, your goals & life purpose; you can’t be in a relationship with anyone.
Yes, i mean what I say. And I standby to those words which came out from my mouth. My blood is originated from the land of King Ashoka. Someday you will see me leave a tiny legacy behind for my next. I try to stay grounded & humble even if my LEO ass always pushes me towards fetching/hacking the negativity. After a long struggle with myself, my intuitions guide me to take calm & poised approach to deal with all including self. Not a hothead anymore, I am happy being where life is guiding me. Actually I am guiding myself towards the righteous.
In case you bump into a new sorted calm composed happy me, that’s all because I am just delighted with what life is bringing me. I have worked hard on everything that I got. The outcomes are amazing. People who valued me during my dark days are cherishing me even more with my bright side. I am on a ride with my success.
Gratitude is my manna.💪
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