Some of the kindest souls I know have lived in a world that was not so kind to them.
Some of the best human beings I know have been through so much at the hands of others.
And they still love deeply.
And they still care.
Sometimes, it’s the people who have been hurt the most who refuse to be hardened in this world, because they would never want to make another person feel the same way they have felt.
If that isn’t something to be in awe of, I don’t know what is.
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Sometimes, a bad day turns into a bad week,
which finally becomes a bad month,
which ends up leading to generalized bad times.
And you struggle.
You feel like you’ve been thrown into a battlefield you did most certainly not ask for.
But you are here.
And you have to keep fighting.
Sometimes, staying alive with an optimistic mindset is like taking a spoon of the medicine you hate the most.
This spoon of medicine is bitter, hard to swallow and straight up disgusting so you block your nose with the other hand and drink it anyways because you have no other options.
The same thing happens here.
When you don’t want to fight anymore because you are just so tired, all you have to do is to blindly trust you’re gonna make it out alive.
You have to keep fighting, even if you are crawling on the floor.
I don’t care, you’ve got to keep fighting.
Life goes on after death, you will go on after bad times, I swear.
(Not my words.)
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Good health is something all the riches in the world can’t buy.
Take good care of yourself and count your blessings.
Be thankful you woke up today because not every day is guaranteed.
I spent so long taking my god-given health for granted that I forgot how blessed I am to be alive today.
Our body is our temple.
Treat it like your sanctuary.
Do something good for your body today.
Go for a run or a hike or take a yoga class.
But most importantly, be grateful for the life you’re living today.
The greatest wealth is health.
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I continually strive to be better by evaluating my daily actions, reactions, responses & behaviour.
And i measure how they affect other people.
When I realize that my actions may have hurt someone, I make a point to go to them and apologize in a meaningful way.
It feels good when I make a conscious effort to recognize my faults and then do everything I can to make them right and demonstrate my love & care.
These actions are so much more impactful than words.
Think about someone you should reach out to, whether it is to apologize or reconnect, tell them that you love them or that you are sorry.
When your intentions are right, your actions will make sense to anyone you connect/reconnect.
Always remember; actions speak louder than words, only when your intentions are clear.
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Your anger?
It’s telling you where you feel powerless.
Your anxiety?
It’s telling you that something in your life is off balance.
Your fear?
It’s telling you what you care about.
Your apathy?
It’s telling you where you’re overextended and burnt out.
Your feelings aren’t random, they are messengers.
And if you want to get anywhere, you need to be able to let them speak to you, and tell you what you really need.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Adults seeking advice from elementary school kids on how to cope up with life, literally the world is losing it’s sense of balance. Thinking of kids, this is more than cute in my eyes. I asked my friend Frank’s 20 month old nephew what he wants to eat when we were in supermarket. He replied; “EVERYTHING IN THAT” while pointing his finger to the ice cream freezer. Why can’t adults be this simple as kids!! LIFE IS FUN, LET IT BE.)
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My body is my home.
And a home requires love, patience and care.
So this is a note to myself and anyone else who may need it,
You’re enough.
You’re alive.
You’re needed.
You’re valuable.
And I’m proud of you.
Even when times are hard you wake up, you breathe, you feel, you’re alive.
You’re constantly changing, evolving, growing.
Always moving forward.
Even though it might not always feel like it.
I’m proud of you for being you and for committing to yourself.
You’re in this relationship for life.
It’s time to embrace yourself.
Be you.
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When I give, it does not come with strings.
I’m not keeping track of what you owe me.
When I give, I choose to do so without ulterior motives.
I give because I’m genuine.
I give because I know what it’s like to be without.
To long for and be ignored.
To speak and not be heard.
To care for and have nothing returned.
When I give it’s because I get it.
It’s because I know the value in what I have in my heart and I refuse to let the world stop me from sharing that.
But when things start being taken for granted,
When you no longer appreciate my sincerity,
I won’t switch, I won’t get angry, and I won’t be spiteful.
I’ll just get smart and I’ll change your role in my life.
Because when I give, I’m all in.
But when I’m done, there’s no looking back.
I stopped sending paragraphs.
I stopped telling people how to behave.
I stopped entertaining retaliation & inconsistency.
I stopped telling people how important is communication.
I started walking away from all these crap, blocking, and distancing myself.
Life is becoming peaceful.
Sometimes being yourself & independent in life is better than being surrounded by halfass people.
(This post is not for those who came & vanished in past. It’s for my future person, in case you experience something is odd in me or missing in me, just say it and keep forgiving me till you experience the best of me.)
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Neglect is abusive.
Ignoring a person and not caring about who they are,
what they want,
what they need,
is like telling them, they are not important, over and over again.
Some narcissistic toxic people use NEGLECT to make you feel insignificant and unworthy.
– Maria Consiglio.
Be the person who cares.
Be the person who makes the effort.
Be the person who loves without hesitation.
Be the person who bares it all.
Be the person who never shies away from the depth of their feeling, or the intensity of their hope.
Be the person who believes in the softness of the world, in the goodness of other people, in the beauty of being open and untethered and trusting.
Be the person who takes the chance.
Be the person who refuses to hide.
Be the person who makes people feel seen.
Be the person who shows up.
Trust me when I say – be the person who cares.
Because the world doesn’t need any more carelessness, any more disregard; because there is nothing stronger than someone who continues to stay soft in a world that hasn’t always been kind to them.
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A person’s personality & character must sparkle positivity & good vibes.
Nobody cares shit about beauty of your face or body after a while, they are just accessories.
And,
Accessories are a welcome, but not a must.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. My love for horses can’t be described in words. This situation in Kazakhstan is scary. I am that kinda stupid boy whose emotions are locked to babies & puppies. While watching this 1.40 minute video, all i wanted was to somehow adopt all those horses & bring them to my backyard.)
Be the person who cares.
Be the person who makes the effort.
Be the person who loves without hesitation.
Be the person who bares it all.
Be the person who never shies away from the depth of their feeling or the intensity of their hope.
Be the person who believes in the softness of the world, in the goodness of other people, in the beauty of being open and untethered and trusting.
Be the person who takes the chance.
Be the person who refuses to hide.
Be the person who makes people feel seen.
Be the person who shows up.
Trust me when I say “person who cares”.
Because the world doesn’t need any more carelessness, any more disregard; because there is nothing stronger than someone who continues to stay soft in a world that hasn’t always been kind to them.
Be known for your KINDNESS & GRACE.
Tap OUT..✌️
Sometimes you just need to distance yourself from people. If they care, they’ll notice. If they don’t, you know where you stand.
(Not my words).
Sometimes you put up walls not to keep people out, but to see who cares enough to break them down.
– Socrates.
We always have a way or time to take care of important things/people in life. If it’s not important, there’s an excuse.
Some people pretend as if they care, just to watch you struggle from the front row seat. Helping hands are those who reach you & push you towards a better tomorrow.
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I love MONEY. Everything about it is enticing. You too need/want/deserve it. Anyone who thinks it made me greedy, you are welcome. I don’t give a shit to your validation.
People who care, adore me like life. I know where I stand.
Tap OUT..😘
I have the audacity to say & do whatever I feel right for me while being TRUE to everyone I am connecting. Never felt the need to lie or deceive someone, never did that.
If I need/want you in my life, I know I am not strong enough to hurt you. If you feel hurt because of me, most probably I have stopped caring whatever you are & I don’t give a shit what you think of me. My TRUTH always stays intact & unchanged in all circumstances. Don’t count it like my ego, it’s my way of prioritizing myself & those who wanna see me smile.
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The biggest mistake you do when you are young; you take no care of your money or time till you nearly reach the end of it. Time to sort your shit.
I workout, follow a healthy diet, wear nice clothes/sneakers/watches/perfume & take care of few things related to my personal hygiene. Because I care about THE WAY I LOOK, not because what other people think how I look.
If we want a kite to soar high, we need to loosen our grip on the strings that’s in our hands. How high that kite flies depends on how much freedom you can give! The more we let it loose, the higher it can soar.
“Just like caring someone, we need to let the other person explore, live a life away from us for a while, do things without us and make own decisions. This will help them discover their own identity and their own power. This will also allow them to fulfill their own KARMA, doesn’t matter good or bad. More importantly we need to encourage & support our partner in pursuing a life independent of us. They need to have their own friends, hobbies, activities & properties or belongings.”
Let’s not expect the other person to stick by our side in every aspect of our life all the time. This is the same freedom we seek for ourselves. Remember KARMA is individual. No-one else can help us fulfill it. It’s nothing but nurturing an idea, we need to let our idea go into places even if it’s scary. Let our ideas branch out into things we didn’t initially intend to explore whether it’s entering a new market for our product or partnering with someone that might add to the greatness of our idea. We need to give our ideas a chance to reach it’s full potential.
IF YOU LOVE IT, SET IT FREE. IF IT’S OURS, IT WILL ALWAYS RETURN BACK HOME.
A kite flies as far and high as you let it go.
(Yes taken. Eat read love.)
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Yes to constant/consistent attention/care/admiration, FUCK instant GRATIFICATION.
I don’t want anything quickly. I want to invest myself & I want to see whether the opposite site is able to match my energy. If anything fails, I back out & vice versa. Partnership in relationship & Business, both are almost the same. Either people join to nurture/grow with each other, or they fail to see the bigger picture & fuck off after backstabbing with a tiny gain. Either ways don’t forget you stood the test of time, GAIN is yours & the WINNER is you.
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Don’t spend your hard earned MONEY to impress those you don’t know/care.
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