Tag: blame

True me.. Tap-1335..

When you plant lettuce, if it does not grow well, you don’t blame the lettuce.
You look for reasons it is not doing well.
It may need fertilizer, or more water, or less sun.
You never blame the lettuce.

Yet, if we have problems with our friends or family, we blame the other person.
But if we know how to take care of them, they will grow well, like the lettuce.
Blaming has no positive effect at all, nor does trying to persuade using reason and argument.
That is my experience.

No blame, no reasoning, no argument, just understanding.
If you understand, and you show that you understand, you can love, and the situation will change.
(Not my words.)

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True me.. Tap-1263..

It’s easy to look back and question decisions you have made in the past, but it’s unfair to punish yourself for them.
You can’t blame yourself for not knowing back then what you know now.
And the truth is you made each decision for a reason, based on how you were feeling at the time.

As we grow up we learn and we evolve.
Maybe the person you are now would have done things differently back then, or maybe you are the person you are now, because of the decisions you made back then.
Trust your journey, it’s all going to make sense soon.

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True me.. Tap-1085..

If tou truly want something you will make it happen, do not blame the conditions.
We create our own destiny.
It is we who decided what we can and can not do.
Work hard and put your heart and soul into your work.
Use every second to think about how you can achieve your goal.
Focus on your own stuff.
Everybody walks a diffrent path.
Do not try to walk someone else’s path because that is not going to work.
And most important, DO WHAT YOU LOVE.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Sharing it because it’s buzzing in my head since past two days. Of course it’s an awesome track.)

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True me.. Tap-1077..

Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.
The small things in life don’t need to be worried and stressed about so much.
The alarm can be fixed.
The tire can be replaced.
The coffee can be refilled.
The parking ticket can be paid.
The keys can be found.
The to-dos can get to-done.
You can get sleep.
You can get some food.
Maybe a Snickers to satisfy.

Your life is great.
You just have to allow it to be.
People don’t make you angry, you allow the anger to dwell within you.
Circumstances don’t upset you, you allow yourself to get upset.
You choose to worry, you choose to criticize, you choose to blame, and you choose to complain.
No one else decides this for you.

YOUR ATTITUDE IS WHAT DETERMINES YOUR DAY.

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True me.. Tap-1009..

Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.
The small things in life don’t need to be worried and stressed about so much.
The alarm can be fixed.
The tire can be replaced.
The coffee can be refilled.
The parking ticket can be paid.
The keys can be found.
The to-dos can get to-done.
You can get sleep.
You can get some food.
Maybe a snickers to satisfy.

Your life is great.
You just have to allow it to be.
People don’t make you angry.
You allow the anger to dwell within you.
Circumstances don’t upset you.
You allow yourself to get upset.
You choose to worry.
You choose to criticize.
You choose to blame.
And you choose to complain.
No one else decides this for you.
Your ATTITUDE is what determines your day.

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True me.. Tap-1006..

Instead of saying “I’m lazy,” saying “I’ve made a habit of not doing work unless it’s absolutely necessary.”
Instead of saying “I’m a bad friend,” saying “I haven’t communicated as much as I should with the people I care about.”

By being specific about your problems, and by framing it as an action that you are consciously either working on or ignoring rather than an unchangeable part of who you are, you allow yourself to accept your mistakes and work constructively on them instead of pretending they didn’t happen or wallowing in blaming yourself.

Honestly I think one of the most empowering things you can do for yourself is to separate your negative qualities from your identity. (Not my words.)

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True me.. Tap-960..

It’s easy to look back and question decisions you have made in the past, but it’s unfair to punish yourself for them.
You can’t blame yourself for not knowing back then what you know now, and the truth is you made each decision for a reason, based on how you were feeling at the time.

As we grow up we learn and we evolve.
Maybe the person you are now would have done things differently back then, or maybe you are the person you are now, because of the decisions you made back then.
Trust your journey, it’s all going to make sense soon.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-859..

People never understand “what you want to do” is always connected to “what you need to do”.

Suppose i want to be an engineer, i need to study engineering.
Suppose i want to a writer/musician/athlete, i need to learn & practice writing/music/sports.
Suppose i want to get fit, i need to workout.

What you want to do doesn’t make any sense till you aren’t following what you need to do first.
This is the major reason most people stay unhappy & blame others for their failures.
This one tiny mindset change can drastically evolve your life in a year.

NEEDS FIRST, WANTS NEXT.

(This movie trailer got nothing to do with the post above. My first real full-time job was software developer before i switched to data analytics field. I know where we are heading with time, our world isn’t going bad as this trailer shows. But the way technology is advancing, who knows what’s coming after hundred years!! Anyways, there are no boundaries for imagination.)

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Tru2Day939

PART OF BEING A MAN IS LEARNING TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR SUCCESSES AND FOR YOUR FAILURES.
YOU CAN’T GO BLAMING OTHERS OR BEING JEALOUS.
SEEING SOMEBODY ELSE’S SUCCESS AS YOUR FAILURE IS A CANCEROUS WAY TO LIVE.

-KEVIN BACON.

True me.. Tap-488..

Some people are so in touch with thier reality that they have stopped seeing dreams. I am talking about the ones who always think/talk about “settle down for something” instead of pushing their limits. Nobody to blame here except yourself, it’s about the inferiority to explore own full potential.

We are the way we think. The day you can change the way you think, it will change your LIFE.

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True me.. Tap-155..

Four things about me you can’t deny that makes me irreplaceable:

1. You know only one person named “TAP”, that’s me.

2. No one cracks better dick or tit jokes than me.

3. You know I am blunt as hell with my words. My TRUTH may either cherish your life or haunt you till you head deathbed.

4. Money is my biggest motivation & sometimes you blame me about being selfish with that. Later you always reach me when you need help financially.

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