Tag: attention

Tru2Day1638

If you feel like others aren’t treating you with respect, check your price tag.
Maybe you subconsciously marked yourself down.
Because it’s YOU who tells others what you’re worth by showing them what you’re willing to accept for your time and attention.
Get off the clearance rack!!

– Marcandangel.

Tru2Day1606

Pay attention to your patterns.
The way you learned to survive may not be the way you want to continue to live.
Heal and shift.

– Dr. Thema Bryant Davis.

Tru2Day1583

You become a master of your life when you learn how to control where your attention goes.
Value what you give your energy and time to.

True me.. Tap-1462..

The biggest lesson i learned so far is to not force anything;
Conversations,
Friendships,
Relationships,
Attention,
Affection,
Love.

Anything forced is just not worth fighting for.
Whatever flows flows.
What crashes crashes.
It is what it is.

Tap..✌️

True me.. Tap-1414..

Just remember;
We are all toxic.

Every single human being is capable of being toxic, has been, currently is, etc.

But some people have the desire to be educated on it and do better while others will ignore any accountability and continue to act the same way.

Pay attention.

Tap..✌️

Tru2Day1300

If you feel like others aren’t treating you with respect, check your price tag.
Maybe you subconsciously marked yourself down.
Because it’s YOU who tells others what you’re worth by showing them what you’re willing to accept for your time and attention.
Get off the clearance rack!

– Marcandangel.

Tru2Day1288

KINDNESS is one of the most underrated traits in the world.
We focus so much on material things and attention, but forget that it is KINDNESS that brings us a fulfillment that warms our soul.

-The Better Man Project.

True me.. Tap-1169..

Throughout the years I have learned three major things.

1. Sometimes bad things happen to good people.
Sometimes you might think you know someone, you might think they’re on your side but deep down inside they’re not.
Truthful & consistent stay, rest doesn’t.
Pay attention.
Actions without intention means nothing.
And words are just another way to cover up the truth with lies.

2. Almost everything we go through we can’t control.
That means, if it’s yours, then somewhere down the line it’ll return to you.
And if it’s not, then you have to make peace with it and move on.
It’s as simple as that.

3. Letting go is never an easy thing to do.
No matter how many times you’ve rehearsed it, no matter how many times you’ve played it in your head, it never goes as planned and almost always does it sting a little harder than you thought.
(Not my words.)

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-1079..

Three major lessons you must learn for an easy smooth sailing life;

1. Sometimes bad things happen to good people and sometimes you might think you know someone, you might think they’re on your side but deep down inside they’re not.
Pay attention.
Actions speak louder than words, inconsistent words mean nothing and such words are just another way to cover up the truth with lies.

2. Almost everything we go through we can’t control.
That means, if it’s yours, then somewhere down the line it’ll return to you.
And if it’s not, then you have to make peace with it and move on.
It’s as simple as that.

3. Letting go is never an easy thing to do, no matter how many times you’ve rehearsed it, no matter how many times you’ve played it in your head, it never goes as planned and almost always does it sting a little harder than you thought.
(Not my words.)

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-1023..

Don’t entertain negative energy.
Some situations will test your patience and try to make you overreact, overthink, and respond to things that don’t deserve your life force.
Your attention is your power.
Don’t feed what doesn’t add value to your life.
CONSERVE YOUR ENERGY.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. And after seeing this video, i don’t have much left to do with this world where such dumbfucks get attention for doing nothing but giving me heart attack in my head. I mean, where are those aliens or MI6 who were taking away people at night for doing nonsensical wack jobs. I give up.)

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-1020..

4 Signs you’re MANIPULATIVE without realizing it:

1. Jealousy drives you to do risky things.

You resort to passive-aggressive tactics.
For example, you notice some friends who are not with you.

• You are offended and invite another friend to go out with you.
• You take a ton of pictures and post them on social media for all to see.
• When you feel like you’re losing control of a situation, you create another one that you can control.

Consider picking up a new hobby.
Accept that not everything other people do is related to you.

2. You’re kind of a know-it-all.

• You have the feeling that people should listen to you since you’re the one who knows the most.
• People around you may feel as though they are suffocating due to your actions.
• You may have a persistent desire to put yourself first, which may cause others to perceive you as selfish.

3. You pour attention on someone, then withdraw it if they do something wrong.

• You avoid people after an argument to prove a point.
• The point is that you don’t need them, and if they want to make up, they should go to you first.
• You feel the need to be in control.
• It’s important to remember that no one is perfect, including you.

4. You are adamant about getting your way.

• You are being persuasive.
• In some cases, you may have to go to great lengths to obtain your desired outcome.
• Assume you want candy for everyone, but others wish to have chocolate. So, what do you do? You get rid of all the chocolate, so they don’t have a choice.
• If you ever catch yourself doing these things, stop, take a deep breath, and take a step back.

Tap OUT..✌️

Tru2Day1085

Don’t lower your frequency to play games and become a part of an inconsistent toxic cycle.
Revenge depletes your energy and steals from you.
Move forward.
What you remove your attention from will cease to exist.

Get better.
Attract better.
You are too great to entertain such energies.
BE YOU & STRIVE TO BE A BETTER VERSION OF YOURSELF.

Tru2Day932

Be disciplined about what you respond and react to.
Most people are inconsistent, that’s their comfort zone.
Not everyone or everything deserves your time, energy and attention.
Stay in your light. Vibe with your tribe.

True me.. Tap-816..

Get honest with people about who you are,
what you want,
and how you expect to be treated.
Standards only scare off the people not meant for you.

Some people have a problem,
they can’t digest respect & good vibes.
Stay away from those,
such people don’t deserve your LOVE or ATTENTION.

My bestfriend DEMI asked me yesterday “whether i will stop hanging out with her after i get a girlfriend/partner/wife or someone significant?”. I am answering this with few lines, so that she can bookmark & read it as many times she wants. I hide nothing from no one.

Here’s my answer:
My blood’s origin goes back to an eastern state of India called ODISHA. Since childhood i was taught few things which are embedded in my mind now:

1. Study, learn, get qualified & make lots of money with that knowledge. Because society is either judgemental or materialistic which respects power of MONEY & KNOWLEDGE.
2. Live for love, respect, family, and LOVE+RESPECT towards family. That’s why we have huge families.
3. MONEY you made mustn’t be used to flex in front of others. Use it to keep your family happy.
4. Invest in gold & land, this is the big kicker. That’s the reason most Indian men crave to buy more than one property & Indian women are obsessed with 24 carat pure gold jewelleries.😂 That’s all.

So one day when i enter a stable relationship, the sole purpose is to start my own family someday soon or sooner. I know whom & what to prioritise. But remember one thing dumb bitch, i feel like i know you since my past life. You are not just my bestfriend, i consider you family. You will always have 24/7 access to my house, my lap, a piggyback ride to beach & access to me no matter it’s pouring/sunny/snowing. Don’t get emotional DEMI, we are not discussing anything about this post during facetime.

Tap OUT..✌️

Tru2Day889

My next relationship will be my last.
So I’m not looking,
I’m not worried,
And I’m not rushing.

I want this love to find me,
learn me,
want me,
need me,
spoil me with attention,
and love me in slow motion.
I am busy building something big & we have forever to go.

True me.. Tap-743..

Stay away from people with negative vibe & toxic mindset.
Here is a HOW TO or WHOM TO;

1. Entertain those who exchange attention & mutual admiration.

2. Stay away from “Dry texters”, these kind of people can figure out a problem in everything that’s soothing to your head or heart. The thing is, they are just not interested in you. The earlier you understand, the better. Read more on this by clicking here. In general, every conversation with a dry texter is a pointless nonsense, it’s going nowhere. If communication sucks, just cut it or back off humbly.

3. Also stay away from those whose screen time in instagram is more than 4 minutes a day.
(Most successful people don’t even use such apps in their phone, they have hired agencies to keep fools stuck to create a brand value for their name. And i bet you don’t want a fool in your life).

4. If someone’s social circle is too random, that’s a sign of major inconsistency in their personality.

5. Never believe those who say bullshits like; “MONEY IS NOT THAT BIG OF A DEAL, I WOULD RATHER FOCUS ON LOVE OR FAMILY”. These are the double whammy of fickleness & fake ideology.
We are living in 2021, a happy LOVE & a happy FAMILY both come with a bill.

Enough said about what not to. Click here to read a previous post on what are the green signals of a healthy humanly equation. Hope you have a good one.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-729..

Being genuine doesn’t mean you have to be strict & rude about your opinions on life. You can be genuine yet a fun loving person.

1. Value and respect the fact that you are a totally unique individual, with your own destiny to fulfill.

2. Believe in who you are, what you think and believe, your gifts and talents, and what you have to offer to those around you.

3. Refuse to give into negative feelings of anxiety, self doubt or insecurity. In fact, “fake it till you make it” is the most stupid line which can damage your authenticity forever. So ignore how you feel just reacting to the moment, and act the way you should be and you want to be.

4. Choose to switch off the old tapes that keep on playing in your head, and try to visualize your goals and then push on and seek to reach them.

5. Don’t pay any attention to what others think about you. The most important judgment should be yours, and yours alone. If you live in constant fear of what others think about you, it will only hold you back from realizing your potential. Also, you’re not a clone of others as each of us is different. Don’t be afraid to be unique or to stand out against the crowd.

6. Accept that you have good points, and areas for growth. We’re all a mix of different qualities, and flaws, and traits. We all make mistakes, it’s what you do with them matters. So embrace the fact you’re human and won’t always get it right.

7. Also, develop a tough skin and don’t take insults personally. Look back and laugh, don’t cover or criticise yourself. It won’t help if you’re sensitive or worried all the time. It’s better to forgive yourself, and then move on again.

8. Develop your ability to think creatively. Try out those new ideas, and choose to live outside the box.

9. Seek to enjoy this moment, and to live life in the present. Be grateful for the small things, and savour all you have.

10. Understand happiness, anger, sad, arrogance & upset, all are temporary human emotions. You have to go through everything. The earlier you accept it the better.

English translation to this German saying; “Don’t compare your life to others. The moon doesn’t compare to the sun either. Both shine in their time.”

Tap OUT..💪

Sunday story time.. 02.

Of course it’s another story about TAP.

Story goes back to my highschool days. I used to suck at history & geography. But my grades with maths, physics, chemistry & language papers were amazing. I was a 85-90% scoring student. I was a good chess player, i have played state level game 9 times to be exact. Most of my school friends were dead serious about football, that game never excited me. I was not crazy about sports in school, but i was fond of playing basketball or volleyball with my street pals. Because such weird interests, i made some friends outside my school. Most of them were my seniors, nobody cared because of my height & build. I think i look like a beefcake since forever. On top of that I hit puberty little earlier. In my class, i was the only 13 year old with some moustache & beard.

It was summer vacation after my grade-8. Few of my new streetsmart friends suggested to watch “THE MATRIX RELOADED”, of course it’s an amazing movie, but watching the same thing 4 times in 2 weeks smelled like a dumb idea. So we went to a DVD movie rental store to browse any other movie we can watch. Suddenly it started raining. One of my wise friends wanted to rent a X-rated movie. Let me clear, it wasn’t a porno. I agree some scenes were bit too much for our teenage eager brain. One of my friend’s neighbour girl knocked my door that evening and told me that she saw me renting/watching that movie. My “good student” image was really important to me & being an extrovert asshole i was, i cracked a deal within 20-30 minutes. Deal was; she will not say anything about that movie to anyone & we need condoms before locking doors. I lost my cherry that evening. She was 4 years elder to me & she started acting way too much romantic within a week, which was hella confusing. I had to cut everything bluntly because i wanted to focus on my studies, my friends, my chess, my piano lessons, my playstation, my basketball power forward position, my swimming classes & my 16 miles ride to a nearby river.

I am in my late 20s building strong morals & a big bank account, so that i can buy all happiness i desire for myself & my family. My approach to life in general is; “REMAIN TRUTHFUL & CONSISTENT, YOU WILL SEE EVERY POSSIBLE SUCCESS COMING YOUR WAY”. That’s all i wanna see in my people. That day & today; whenever i say i like someone, my friends think i am talking about some latina’s fine ass. Never understood how to be romantic. Basically i never wanted someone so bad that i can imagine being in a relationship. I was into someone recently, let’s not name it a relationship. I came in touch with someone who walked the same journey as mine & she is living in my city since 2012, but i got to know her after 6-7 years. It’s amazing to see people who believe in same basic human values as yours. The sad part is; people & their predictable behaviour. Especially their inconsistency, that’s my biggest turn off moment. I have made some rules to lead a simple happy happening life & one rule says; Every liar is inconsistent & every inconsistent person is a liar. Whenever someone acts inconsistent, just cut that equation no matter it’s a friendship, relationship, fling or fuck-buddy. Once a person goes inconsistent, their next step is lying. That’s how every inconsistent person tries to justify their inconsistency.

Moral of the story is;
Never offer half baked emotions/attention/affection, first you have to be sure about yourself whether you are ready!! I am a strong believer of KARMA. I believe if i can do something wrong with someone, some other person can do the same thing with me.

Tap OUT..😘

True me.. Tap-526..

My equation with my people always remains one on one. I appreciate that exchange of attention & affection exact same way. And I love optimistic/enthusiastic people who believe in learning new skills & material growth associated to it. Basically those who don’t spend/waste 3-hours in window shopping or arranging closet. Time is more precious than money, and my 1-hour costs little higher compared to random crowd. If i feel like my time is being wasted, i simply snap out with a thought “I would rather invest that time somewhere else which can yield some mojo or mula”. Now talking about the bad part, there are two reasons i never talk about someone to somebody else under any good or bad circumstances:

1. Backbiting is something i can never ever understand. If i have anything against you in my head or heart, either i have told you bluntly or you are already in my block list.
2. If you have done anything to earn my hate or somehow you lost your respect in my eyes, i consider you dead. And nobody actually likes talking about dead morons.

Tap OUT..👍

True me.. Tap-508..

In this post i am talking about action of collective efforts to create a collective effect in all aspects. It’s true that you will eventually reap what you sow, but we should also realise that our individual decisions & actions become our eventual contribution to society. All of our intention & action create massive energy that creates major effects for all. This energy is eventually transmitted into our society and the world at large. So make sure your action creates value & inspiration to others. Make concious effort to be good to people. Pursue your goals and passion step by step. Lead by example.

Whether you believe in Karma or not, I usually talk about fundamental principles of life which can help you be a better human. I hope your parents, friends, society and even your God expects that from you. To live a life of impact you genuinely desire mastering your skills and knowledge about gratitude, effort, action, selflessness & happiness. They all combined will help you reach a life of fulfillment. The best reward is the one that contributes to the whole.

Tap OUT..🤗

Tru2Day209

Liars are inconsistent, unreliable, narcissistic, untrustworthy, deceptive, low self-esteem, indecisive, attention seeking jealousy driven egotistical creatures. Guard yourself from such.

True me.. Tap-92..

Doesn’t matter how much you are invested/involved with me; if you are connected to me, I am earning something from you. Either it’s some knowledge or some lessons.

Life is easy. I don’t have time to play tit for tat. Deserving people will prove their worth. Actions first, intentions next and then maybe someday I will value your words too. I smell lies & my TRUTH makes me what I am.

BE YOU.. Tap OUT..🤗

True me.. Tap-71..

If it didn’t workout, she doesn’t EXist in my life. No-one is allowed to term me “EX“. The other side’s low self esteem & betrayal made it fall, my efforts & enthusiasm were/is always on point.

I am celebrated among my friends & workers. I strongly believe in KARMA. The people i connect are chosen, No-one will ever say bad shit about me. I still struggle to sleep whenever I think “someone is hurt because of me”.
Being a human I too have enough negative qualities; I am overindulging to challenges, money, attention & intimacy. I accept that always (Some LEO thing). That will never change in me. Maybe my ONE will have enough strength to tame that beast in me someday. Till the time I am single, I enjoy all what I should be enjoying.

Tap OUT..😘