4 Signs you’re MANIPULATIVE without realizing it:
1. Jealousy drives you to do risky things.
You resort to passive-aggressive tactics.
For example, you notice some friends who are not with you.
• You are offended and invite another friend to go out with you.
• You take a ton of pictures and post them on social media for all to see.
• When you feel like you’re losing control of a situation, you create another one that you can control.
Consider picking up a new hobby.
Accept that not everything other people do is related to you.
2. You’re kind of a know-it-all.
• You have the feeling that people should listen to you since you’re the one who knows the most.
• People around you may feel as though they are suffocating due to your actions.
• You may have a persistent desire to put yourself first, which may cause others to perceive you as selfish.
3. You pour attention on someone, then withdraw it if they do something wrong.
• You avoid people after an argument to prove a point.
• The point is that you don’t need them, and if they want to make up, they should go to you first.
• You feel the need to be in control.
• It’s important to remember that no one is perfect, including you.
4. You are adamant about getting your way.
• You are being persuasive.
• In some cases, you may have to go to great lengths to obtain your desired outcome.
• Assume you want candy for everyone, but others wish to have chocolate. So, what do you do? You get rid of all the chocolate, so they don’t have a choice.
• If you ever catch yourself doing these things, stop, take a deep breath, and take a step back.
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7 TYPES OF NEGATIVITY TO KILL:
1. PERFECTIONISM.
Trying to achieve something that’s literally unattainable will only result in you feeling “less than”.
2. JUDGEMENT OVER YOURSELF AND OTHERS.
When you are judgemental, you are only focusing on the negative qualities in yourself and others.
3. SELF-DOUBT.
Self-doubt is a weed that will take over your life if you don’t kill it at the root.
4. ASSUMING THE WORST WILL HAPPEN.
If you never think things will be better, they won’t be. This removes hope.
5. WORRY.
Worrying changes nothing except your health and mental state.
6. COMPLAINING.
When you focus on the negative things, you are really setting yourself up for never being content or happy.
7. TRYING TO CONTROL EVERYTHING.
You can’t control everything and when you try and inevitably fail, you will only blame yourself.
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We assume success is about being famous, rich and owning expensive things.
But if you’ve pulled yourself out of a dark place, that’s a great success in itself.
Don’t forget that you’re winning each day you don’t give up and you make it through to the next.
Did you know that you’re achieving great things every day?
It probably doesn’t seem like it if you’re always looking ahead to the next thing.
Nevertheless, many of the things you’ve achieved today are things you dreamed about in the past.
You just don’t notice them in the moment they happen.
Or they pass you by too quickly.
Although we shouldn’t get so comfortable with our achievements that we become complacent and stop moving forwards, we should make time to celebrate them.
Otherwise you’ll look back on your life and think you didn’t do anything significant.
But if this were true, your life would always have remained the same.
Celebrate your achievements, even though they are little.
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