Tag: angry

True me.. Tap-1385..

If everyone in the world were to hold on to all their past resentments and cling to their pain, there would be no hope for the future because everyone would be angry and bitter, glued to their past.
The practice of forgiveness is powerful beyond words.
Forgiveness is an infectiously beautiful act of humility.
It means you are able to put aside your ego and decide that it’s better to be happy and at peace than to be “right”.

Invest your energy in things that make you happy and don’t worry about being right.
The practice of forgiveness is our most important contribution to the healing of the world.
(Not my words.)

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True me.. Tap-1365..

If everyone in the world were to hold on to all their past resentments and cling to their pain, there would be no hope for the future because everyone would be angry and bitter, glued to their past.
The practice of forgiveness is powerful beyond words.
Forgiveness is an infectiously beautiful act of humility.
It means you are able to put aside your ego and decide that it’s better to be happy and at peace than to be “right”.

Invest your energy in things that make you happy and don’t worry about being right.
The practice of forgiveness is our most important contribution to the healing of the world.
(Not my words.)

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-1345..

At some point you have to stop being so angry,
you have to stop being so sad,
you have to stop killing yourself,
and start being gentle with yourself.
At some point you have to just let it all go and be happy.
You have to spread love instead of being afraid of it.
You have to love yourself and everyone around you before its too late.

Don’t waste away being unhappy over trivial things.
Don’t do it.
Don’t do it to yourself and dont let other people do it to you.
Life is too small to celebrate the goodness & too long to stay unhappy.
BE A HAPPY HAPPENING VERSION OF YOURSELF.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-1208..

Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.
The small things in life don’t need to be worried and stressed about so much.
The alarm can be fixed.
The tire can be replaced.
The coffee can be refilled.
The parking ticket can be paid.
The keys can be found.
The to-dos can get to-done.
You can get sleep.
You can get some food.
Maybe an ice cream to satisfy.

Your life is great.
You just have to allow it to be.
People don’t make you angry, you allow the anger to dwell within you.
Circumstances don’t upset you, you allow yourself to get upset.
You choose to worry,
you choose to criticize,
you choose to blame,
and you choose to complain.
No one else decides this for you.
Again, your ATTITUDE is what determines your day.

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True me.. Tap-1146..

Tomorrow is not promised.
Not a single second or minute is promised.
So, live for today.
Keep the promises you make to yourself.
Take action on the things you desire and want.
Remind those that matter to you that they are loved and you are grateful for them.
Never leave someone you care about on negative terms.
Give more than you take.
Make the calls you’ve been telling yourself you’ll do ‘tomorrow’.
Let the small shit go.
Never go to bed angry or upset.
We will all die one day, so learn to live each day with the promise to yourself that it’ll be better than yesterday.

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True me.. Tap-1120..

When people act shady, allow them.
When people betray your trust, allow them.
But never, ever sink to their level.
Their choices are a direct reflection of who they are, not who you are.
No matter how angry, hurt, or disappointed you may be, do not allow them to make you bitter.
Be better.
React with love.
Sometimes that means retaliating with understanding and compassion; other times it means retaliating with acceptance and sheer silence.
Whatever it is, make sure it benefits you as a human being instead of lowering you into a position which you would rather not be in.

Normal people dont go around destroying other human beings.
Only those who are hurt, lost, and confused cause pain.
Don’t be one of them.
Just take the lessons and move on gracefully.

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True me.. Tap-1118..

It’s not healthy to keep ANGER inside for too long.
If you’re too upset to speak calmly, you can write a note and put it where the other person will see it.

Here are 3 sentences that may help.
First: “My dear, I am suffering, I am angry, and I want you to know it.”
The second is: “I am doing my best.”
This means you are practicing mindful breathing and walking, and you are refraining from doing or saying anything out of anger.
The third is: “Please help me.”

Memorize those 3 sentences on top.
Or write them on a small piece of paper, the size of a credit card, and put it in your wallet.
Then when you’re angry, you can take it out, and will know exactly what to do.
(Not my words.)

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True me.. Tap-1112..

Tomorrow is not promised.
Not a single second or minute is PROMISED.
So, live for today.
Keep the promises you make.
Take action on the things you desire and need.
Remind those that matter to you that they are loved and you are grateful for them.
Never leave someone you care about on negative terms.
Give more than you take.
Make the calls you’ve been telling yourself you’ll do ‘tomorrow’.
Let the small shit go.
Let equations with inconsistent people fall.
Never go to bed angry.
We will all die one day, so learn to live each day with the promise to yourself that it’ll be better than yesterday.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I can’t believe that a group of people still deny global warming & climate change. Shared this tiny video because i wanted to share this issue.)

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True me.. Tap-1077..

Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.
The small things in life don’t need to be worried and stressed about so much.
The alarm can be fixed.
The tire can be replaced.
The coffee can be refilled.
The parking ticket can be paid.
The keys can be found.
The to-dos can get to-done.
You can get sleep.
You can get some food.
Maybe a Snickers to satisfy.

Your life is great.
You just have to allow it to be.
People don’t make you angry, you allow the anger to dwell within you.
Circumstances don’t upset you, you allow yourself to get upset.
You choose to worry, you choose to criticize, you choose to blame, and you choose to complain.
No one else decides this for you.

YOUR ATTITUDE IS WHAT DETERMINES YOUR DAY.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-1026..

Always be the best person you can be.
Be kind even when you’re tired.
Be understanding even when you’re angry.
Do more than you’re asked, and don’t ask for anything in return.
Don’t silently expect anything either.
Listen when someone talks, and really listen too, stop just thinking of how you’ll reply.
Never jump over a conversation that’s initiated by other person.
Tell people that you love them and that you appreciate them.
Go out of your way to do things for people.
Be the greatest person you can possibly be and when you mess up, make up for it in the next moment or minute or day.

One thing you should never do?
Never spend your time trying to prove to anybody that you’re great, your actions will speak for themselves and we only have limited time on this earth, don’t waste it.

If someone doesn’t see your light, don’t worry.
Like moths, GOOD PEOPLE are attracted to flame and to light, and they will come.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-1009..

Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.
The small things in life don’t need to be worried and stressed about so much.
The alarm can be fixed.
The tire can be replaced.
The coffee can be refilled.
The parking ticket can be paid.
The keys can be found.
The to-dos can get to-done.
You can get sleep.
You can get some food.
Maybe a snickers to satisfy.

Your life is great.
You just have to allow it to be.
People don’t make you angry.
You allow the anger to dwell within you.
Circumstances don’t upset you.
You allow yourself to get upset.
You choose to worry.
You choose to criticize.
You choose to blame.
And you choose to complain.
No one else decides this for you.
Your ATTITUDE is what determines your day.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-986..

Always be the best person you can be.
Be kind even when you’re tired.
Be understanding even when you’re angry.
Do more than you’re asked, and don’t ask for anything in return.
Don’t silently expect anything either.
Listen when someone talks, and really listen too, stop just thinking of how you’ll reply.
Tell people that you love them and that you appreciate them.
Go out of your way to do things for people.
Be the greatest person you can possibly be and when you mess up, make up for it in the next moment or minute or day.

One thing you should never do?
Never spend your time trying to prove to anybody that you’re great, your actions will speak for themselves and we only have limited time on this earth, don’t waste it.

If someone doesn’t see your light, don’t worry.
Like moths, good people are attracted to flame and to light, and they will come.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-841..

When I give, it does not come with strings.
I’m not keeping track of what you owe me.
When I give, I choose to do so without ulterior motives.
I give because I’m genuine.
I give because I know what it’s like to be without.
To long for and be ignored.
To speak and not be heard.
To care for and have nothing returned.
When I give it’s because I get it.
It’s because I know the value in what I have in my heart and I refuse to let the world stop me from sharing that.
But when things start being taken for granted,
When you no longer appreciate my sincerity,
I won’t switch, I won’t get angry, and I won’t be spiteful.
I’ll just get smart and I’ll change your role in my life.
Because when I give, I’m all in.
But when I’m done, there’s no looking back.

I stopped sending paragraphs.
I stopped telling people how to behave.
I stopped entertaining retaliation & inconsistency.
I stopped telling people how important is communication.
I started walking away from all these crap, blocking, and distancing myself.
Life is becoming peaceful.
Sometimes being yourself & independent in life is better than being surrounded by halfass people.

(This post is not for those who came & vanished in past. It’s for my future person, in case you experience something is odd in me or missing in me, just say it and keep forgiving me till you experience the best of me.)

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True me.. Tap-786..

I am happy when I eat fresh fruit,
when I burst out laughing,
when I discover a new song,
when I finish a good book,
when I wake up and feel relaxed.
I’m glad to have friends, family, a home,
food when I’m hungry,
hot water when I shower.
I love being able to live and see the seasons change,
to have gifts at christmas and at my birthday,
to travel sometimes,
to have a good education and a great access to culture.
I’m flattered when people compliment me,
when people smile at me,
when people are polite to me.

There are so many things that make life so simple and easy and I will always think about them more than all the bad things that will happen to me.
I do not have time to be sad every day and ungrateful.
I have every reason in the world to be happy.
Take life day by day and be grateful for the little things.
Don’t get caught up in what you can’t control.
Focus on the positive.

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True me.. Tap-758..

Date her who walks you till your car.
Date her who dares to steal your hoodie in front of your face.
Date her who wants to meet your parents, and is respectful towards them.
Date her who respects your siblings and family members.
Date her who’s kind to animals, its a reflection of how she’ll treat usual people.
Date her who makes you smile.
Date her who looks confident with or without makeup.
Date her who will listen to your complain or accomplishments.
Date her who doesn’t force you to do things you don’t want to.
Date her who will come hang out and cuddle just cause she can.
Date her who loves you through the good and the bad.
Date her who has seen you angry, happy, sad, and still feels for you.
Date her who has a hunger for SUCCESS & hunger for more beyond that.
Date her who actually utilises her time to the fullest, so that she can value your TIME.
Now you know you aren’t entertaining someone boring/sluggish.

Life can easily remain exciting happy happening even in a relationship if you are dealing with a stronger individual, stronger in finance & faith.

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True me.. Tap-710..

Be the best person you can be.
Be kind even when you’re tired.
Be understanding even when you’re angry.
Do more than you’re asked and please don’t ask for anything in return, that may look stupid & ruin the purpose.
Don’t silently expect anything either.
Listen when someone talks and really listen, stop just thinking of how you’ll reply.
Tell people you love them and appreciate them.
Go out of your way to do things for people you adore.
Be the greatest person you can possibly be and remain the same even when you mess up, make up for it in the next moment or minute or day.

One thing you should never do is; Never spend your time trying to prove to anybody that you’re great.
Your actions will speak for themselves and we only have limited time on earth, don’t waste it.
If someone doesn’t see your light, don’t worry.
Like moths, good people are attracted to flame and to light of goodness, and they come naturally.

Tap OUT..🤗

Tru2Day198

No-one can make you angry. It’s your response to the situation. Choose TRUE people in life, you will never feel anger, agony or arrogance.

6 Signs you aren’t in LOVE!!

Love means, we constantly improve communication & consistency, practice patience. It also means just leave when things aren’t equal anymore.

6 signs you aren’t in LOVE:

1. You moved things fast with your partner.
Infatuations thrive on speed, while LOVE takes time to develop. Infatuations live in illusion. Love can survive reality. When you quickly jump into a relationship with someone, you base it off your dreams more than whose really in front of you. Common examples are; thinking about a future with them, lusting after some legit emotions or obsessing about them for anything in your head. All of these are done after months and years of knowing them, that you just slipped/skipped.

2. You expect them to be flawless.
And you get angry or upset over them when you see their true colours. Do you believe in soulmates or fate? It sounds good in theory. But we all know infatuations also need perfection to survive. We need our partners to be consistently well dressed, good with their words or impressive with their accomplishments, meantime you are not giving them space to be honest. Love on the other hand is grounded. When you love someone, you accept their imperfections, you work through the bad and enjoy the good together.

3. You are not comfortable enough around them. Who hasn’t felt self-conscious about saying the wrong thing or making bad decisions/impressions? But when you truly fall in love with someone, that’s when you can let loose and stop caring so much. Those who have a strong sense of love and belonging are more open to vulnerability. Whereas those who feel disconnected with their partners consistently build their walls up. When you don’t share your emotions and struggles nor secrets with someone, you haven’t fully loved.

4. You become more distant.
It’s normal for passion to intensify initially only to taper off, which isn’t gonna help you into a steady relationship. But two people in love will still want to be around each other frequently. That’s another reason people in love plan a life together equally over indulging in rest activities. If you find yourself wanting to get away from your partner more and more these days, often because you’d rather go hang out with your friends or family or cat/dog, then something’s up.

5. Your mind is elsewhere.
With mind soon your heart also follows the same route. Partners who are in love tend to maintain a focus on their counterparts. When you notice the little things about them or express concerns when the two of you run into conflict, it shows you care for them. If you avoid those tough conversations or slip away from arguments, you also stop emphasizing their importance in your life.

6. You developed anxiety.
Have you been experiencing digestive problems or have trouble sleeping/over sleeping? Anxiety can show in this bodily disfunction. You might have something you need to get off your chest and dread how to break the news off to your partner. Remember you can only run away from the truth for so long before it catches upto you.

Forcing LOVE when it’s absent will only hurt the two of you. Both of you deserve to find love elsewhere if it can’t be found in your relationship.
Where do you think you stand on your feelings? Dig deeper, learn yourself with little Truth and self evaluation.