Stop running away from negative emotions. Stop running away from feelings. Stop pretending like you have it all together. Start accepting that you feel messed up. Let yourself breakdown to get ready for a breakthrough.
Sometimes when you are always focusing on being positive, you are avoiding the pain that makes you stronger. DON’T BE POSITIVE, BE AUTHENTIC.
• Minding own business. • Regulating & controlling own emotions in a healthy way. • Having an open mind. • Upholding own boundaries. • Always seeking to evolve. • Practicing acceptance even when it’s hard. • Finding the courage to do something about the things you usually complain about. • Expressing self-compassion and compassion towards others. • Creating peace for yourself by protecting your energy.
When people act shady, allow them. When people betray your trust, allow them. But never, ever sink to their level. Their choices are a direct reflection of who they are, not who you are. No matter how angry, hurt, or disappointed you may be, do not allow them to make you bitter. Be better. React with love. Sometimes that means retaliating with understanding and compassion; other times it means retaliating with acceptance and sheer silence. Whatever it is, make sure it benefits you as a human being instead of lowering you into a position which you would rather not be in.
Normal people dont go around destroying other human beings. Only those who are hurt, lost, and confused cause pain. Don’t be one of them. Just take the lessons and move on gracefully.
Accept your flaws & also remember that just acceptance isn’t enough. There’s no positive outcome without making things right, that’s the only way you can improve yourself. You have to keep on working towards betterment of yourself.
You might not love all aspects of yourself right now but you can learn to accept it. Accept your flaws. Accept the positives and negative aspects of your story. Accept the parts of you that are deemed unacceptable by society. Self acceptance is the starting point to attain self love.