You can’t heal on someone else’s agenda,
by someone else’s standards,
in someone else’s timeline,
with someone else’s rulebook,
for someone else’s benefit,
under someone else’s expectations,
or by someone else’s urging.
Your healing is for you, by you, within you, about you, and through you.
Until you make healing for you instead of for others, healing will be out of reach.
Healing yourself will ask more of you,
more self love,
more letting go,
more time for learning,
more space for transformation,
more honesty about how you feel,
more time developing good habits,
more courage to try new practices,
more time cultivating your inner peace,
more faith in yourself and the process.
HEALING DOESN’T MEAN THE DAMAGE NEVER EXISTED.
IT MEANS THE DAMAGE NO LONGER CONTROLS OUR LIVES.