The attitude of “that’s just how I am, take it or leave it” is still a sign of immaturity.
As an adult, it’s your responsibility to figure out which of your traits are toxic and are negatively impactful towards other people and the ones you love,
and to eventually learn how to fix them.
At some point, we all gotta start making ourselves better individuals.
If you truly believe you don’t have to change anything about yourself, even at the very least the worst in you, and that people will just have to deal with it.
Then sorry, you’re still a child.
People need to learn that their actions do affect other people.
So be careful what you say and do, it’s not always just about you.
MATURITY DOESN’T MEAN AGE.
IT MEANS SENSITIVITY, MANNERS AND HOW YOU REACT.
Tap OUT..✌️
Well I sort of agree with you… half way lol …
Because the way I see is that … yes always improve who you are and learn – become stronger with each lesson
But at the same time – I went through ALOT!! And I am tired … you can never please all of the people – you can exhaust yourself trying to be everything to everyone
I have many different types of people in my life and I love them for who they are individually – they are not all “like” me… some are very different
I appreciate their differences and would never require someone to change for me. I love the differences … You fit with that or you don’t
And I always think of:
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
So I kinda go by that. ✌️😘
So I am half way with you – I just don’t want someone to force me to change who I am. I am what I want to be.
I would never require that of someone I love – if I love them … I love them as is ❤️
But I also continue learning with things – I just won’t bow down ever again 😘✌️
So ya know – can ya handle it lol 💋
Not everybody is wise enough to accept us the way we are, that applies vice versa.
There are so many such people who come like weird puzzles, the way you mentioned.
Some are amazing & most are legit boo boo.
If someone can change you in a short while, that change will look so fake.
All changes are gradual.
I think, we all take small qualities from our surrounding & society, which is beautiful.
That change can be justified.
That’s how we also have some good or bad stereotypes.
I understand your words.
And i completely connect with you.
My post is pointed towards self-acceptance, self-criticism & self-growth.
Thanks for your words Trisha. Appreciated.🤗😍