If you know me personally or you follow what I post in this blog, hopefully you already know there are two kinds of people I hate the most “SMOKERS & LIARS”. Smokers are those people who don’t give a shit about their own health or their family’s health while neglecting the fact “SECOND HAND SMOKING is dangerous as well”. The funniest part is dumbfucks who smoke weed to look/feel cool or calm, there are tons of reasearch yet to be done to prove whether marijuana is addictive or harmful to health.
Let me share an amazing incident that happened before this pandemic. It’s about a friend who came for a late night party & started smoking weed in my balcony. I showed her my gate while explaining “how to go out of my apartment right away during a cold chilly weather” & stopped talking to her even after receiving 80-90 sorry/sorrow filled texts. First it’s illegal to smoke weed where I live, second I might have done the same even if it’s a stupid cigarette. This same person started countering my aggressive opinion against weed/smoking by saying: “Even your favourite Elon Musk smoked weed on camera & everyone smokes weed now a days”. My response to that; “please give me that list of everyone, so that I can stay away from every piece of shit in that everyone’s list. Elon Musk owns couple billion dollars & also running 5-6 most ridiculously successful companies. Where are yours??!”
Here’s a video by vice explaining how/why illegal weed money goes to all sorts of crime & in few cases straight towards terrorism.
Takeaway; a person with loose morals & cheap mentality will always find it’s way to shit from mouth no matter how badly you want them to behave.
Tap OUT..π
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Strong and wise π
True that Manisha. Appreciated.π€
Very accurate, I donβt like smoking too and liars as well
Appreciation appreciated Ene. We all must stay away from such people.
Great message!
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I really enjoyed this post. I loathe second hand smoke and as for weed….well I was a teenager and at university in the 60s. Weed was everywhere. I grew out of that pretty fast. I want my brain sharp and focused not wandering off to a vague la la land. Have a good weekend Tap.
Same this side, I loathe smoking overall. I see you & your love for animals. You need a sharp brain to do what you do the right way. I respect your thought & how you grew out of smoking. No fun in being high to be honest. Have a great weekend ahead Anne.ππ€
FINALLY! Someone who feels the same way that I do about smoking. I will never understand why people pay to give themselves illnesses and eventual death, all in the name of looking cool. They are merely sheep whoβs brain has been overrided with brand marketing and the need to keep up a particular image
I second all your words Hannah. It’s a mix of marketing crap, bad habit, poor character, fake image building exercise to look cool & at the end everything to fit into a group of some cheap lackluster people. I feel appreciated that you understood/felt what I wanted to convey.π€π
Itβs interesting whenever you ask someone why they smoke, they usually provide the following reasons:
1) their friends do it
2) theyβre depressed
I personally feel like 2) is to cover up for 1)
True that Han. And I would love to add it’s just immoral in my eyes. I don’t know why!! I have no issues with people having few sip of wine or whiskey occasionally. I just find smoking is cheap & classless.
Yeah, I feel like drinking is fine as long as youβre not constantly drunk and unable to walk. Itβs funny you say that, cause a lot people think theyβre being classy when they smoke. Not the people who roll cigarettes, but the ones who buy into brands and get those menthol cigarettes
All smokers are stupid to think “Cool” or acceptable. It’s just dumb in my eyes. I hate it more than the word “HATE”. Thanks for agreeing with Tap, a dirty martini on me.ππ€
What worse is those vapers, who think they look so cool π hahah you donβt have to buy me a drink for agreeing with you π but I do like a good drink π€
Why will buy you a drink!! I can make one for you at my place.ππ
Ohh so youβre going to take me to yours and get me intoxicated there ππ home made cocktails are lethal haha
Ha Ha. Should I get you intoxicated? What are the benefit beyond that?πππ
Hey, one of us has to be the responsible one ππ Honestly, I donβt know if you have fun dealing with a drunken Han π
I love that conversation when a drunk person splutters few sassy stories about happening past or messy mess.
Pffft, yeah I bet! And then it gives you the ability to be mean to me the next day π
As I said, I can tease little bit and that’s not mean at all.π
Pfffft okay grumps, or should I say βGrampsβ since you olddddd π
I will definitely be an old grumpy asshole one day when I turn 150-160.π
You already act that way, youβre practically a dinosaur π
I can’t be more than 16 till I cross 80 (at least).ππ
Time will say otherwise. Please tell me youβre a 90s kid π
You know my date of birth.π And my only fear is ONE-DAY I WILL BECOME OLD & IRRELEVANT, I hate that.
Actually I donβt cause you never told me π but I remember you saying that youβre a Leo, so Iβm going to guess itβs in August? Thatβs a legit fear, I fear the same
I have a photographic memory Han. I forget nothing, see your mail. It’s 30-July fr but in all my certificates & documents it’s 3-July. Good for me. I celebrate birthday twice, once with colleagues and acquaintances, next one with my friends.π
Oh yes, you did mention that you had two birthdays. The best part is that they already passed, so Iβm safe from gift buying for now π but with those 2 different birthdays, I guess youβd have 2 different star signs π€ not that I look into astrology much
Real birthday makes me a Leo. I am not a strong believer of astrology or anything like that. But if it says “Leo is making money & scoring some action”, I will definitely believe that.ππ
ππ you Leoβs are all the same. My dad is one too, no surprise π At least the weather is nice on your birthday…I have the snow and joy of queuing outside clubs and bars in a dress π¬
Most of the time I hit clubs which are owned by friends. Poor Tap has lost mojo of going to a club, I rather prefer hosting a party near my backyard pool with some nice grill, pizza and wine.π But London has some happening clubs, worth it to queue for a while.ππ€
I agree, I rarely go to clubs, I prefer a good bar/restaurant or rooftop. House parties are the best though π Itβs not a bad shout going somewhere thatβs owned by friendsβ¦you get the best table, no queuing and usually a free drink or 5 π
Yeah. Cleaning house at the end after house parties is an issue, but my friends are a real responsible party people. They stay & help me clean everything before leaving.π€
The older I get, the more I agree with this. I trust my friends, I prefer inclusive parties cause when you throw a house party with an open invite and word gets out…suddenly you end up with random crack head strangers who deal drugs and trash the house. I have too much expensive furniture for that
I totally agree. I think I am blessed with few amazing friends who consider my place as theirs & make sure it’s clean before leaving my house. Most of the time these same assholes pop up right after 5-hours once again, I love it.π
sounds like they make themselves at home in your house π Thatβs good though, my friends are the same π
Yeah. I am delighted & sometimes I also feel tortured with the same set of assholic friends since past 15-16 years.π
Some things never change and school friends are one of themπ
True that. That’s the reason me & my friends still miss our high school days, can’t say the same for college & university.π€
I donβt miss the school days much but I do sometimes miss uni π
In college & university days, everyone was so sure what they want to do & where they want to move after their courses are over. I think it’s some engineering & MBA thing because these are professional degrees targeted towards specific jobs. So everyone was bit selfish & self-invested in their own ways. High school days were innocent, those friends are still sticking to each other.π
I personally found that there was more bitchiness in high school, everyone with either emo or chav and it felt like everyone was trying to figure out who they were, so no one was genuine. I moved around friendship groups so many times until the last few years of high school where I found my ultimate squad, and arguably itβs a much stronger squad than my uni one. But uni was more fun in terms of experiences, I really came out of my shell then and had a lot more fun π
High school is like that. Everyone wants to flex a relationship, this will never change. Every teenager does the same now too. I didn’t have a group in high school, but we made a group after A-levels to keep in touch with each other. A group of 18 friends. It’s a singles only club, so now only 7-8 left.
I feel like most of those high school relationships are in-genuine, as you said most people just want to flex it or are desperate to lose their virginity. I had a group during A-Levels, but it was far too big, so naturally we branched off and now we have a group of 8 of us who still keep in touch
I totally agree about this flexing about losing virginity thing. I used to think it’s only boys who flex about humping their girlfriends, during my last year of high school even few girls started showing off their hickey.π
It really is a thing and Iβm sure itβs something that we all have been guilty of at some point. But the sad thing is that with girls you can brag upto a certain point, but too much makes you a βslutβ. Whereas for men, itβs considered as though youβve earned brownie points or something. My guy friend had a rally at his uni over the number of girls the guys slept with π
I think if it’s a rally towards some brownie points, boys or girls should get the same privilege in my eyes. But I understand your point. Society is programmed in such a way that “bitch or slut” is a word for something like this but only used towards girls.
I wish it was that simple, but even Iβve felt at times that I have to be cautious about how much i mention to people in case they think of me as a βslutβ
People will be people. There is always a block button Han.π
You canβt block people in person though, sadly. You can cut them out but canβt stop their gossip
You can block people in person. If you can avoid someone without putting efforts behind it, then that’s the best kinda disconnection.π
Thatβs true. Although some people donβt take the hint π
Ha Ha. Be little rude & blunt Han.π
I would take master classes from you, but you give out free pizza and cheesecake to people ππ
I always give out free sourdough pizza & cheesecake every weekend.π€£
second hand smoke kicked in on my when i was pregnant and got asthma. ( I am 1% but if you are the 1 it 100 % sucks). Growing up, my mom who smoked like a chimney.. i could taste it in my ice cream so never smoked a puff. Finally got her to quite before 60. I have a rap we all sang to her (me and my kids) that guilted her into it. She’s 84 and thriving.. ππ Good post Tap! C
Proud of you Cindy. People must understand smoking is not a fun thing as they think. Long live to your mum. Once again kudos to you & your kids.ππ Appreciated.π€
Thanks Tap.. Actually, 3 out of 4 of my kids smoked at one time because they thought it was cool and hid it from us. 1 of the 4 got the message obvi cuz she started crying and told them she was scared and worried about them. They quite for her but never would have for us but whatever it takes. Yes, and long live my mum.. I’ll tell her. ππππβ€οΈ
Taking care of family is an amazing feeling I can say. Kids or parents, all should understand this. I am happy for you Cindy. Your kids must be in their 20-30s, hope they understood it their ways. Have a great weekend ahead.ππ€
It truly is Tap. Just posted a little fun on my Fun Fri-Yay throwing them under the bus a bit.. all in fun. 29, 31, 33, 35…. bang, bang, bang. Shoot me in the head.. lol. π€£π€
Ha Ha. Got you after reading it twice.ππ I was driving when I saw your reply. Have a good one Cindy.
Lol π€£ππ€£ you have a good one as well Tap!!!
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A post with a very strong message π
And what you did at that time right away was must neededπ
These liers and smokers has done more harm to the ethical and social values than anything elseπ
Anyways, stay safe, healthy, wealthy, and strong always to deal with such instances.
A ton of thanks for your warm words. I second you that liars & smokers both damage our values because they lack character+moral strength. Have a good one Aushi. Stay happy & happening.π€